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You're the... Emotional Eater
You have good intentions and "really mean it this time" but LIFE HAPPENS". Whether it is a bad day at work, you and your spouse had a little argument or even maybe you are feeling really down on yourself with an "I GIVE UP" mentality.This emotionally driven lifestyle that you live also means you have great intentions and prepare to do well; you buy the healthy food, you tell your family members that this "dieting" is going to happen this time.You do great for a few days but as soon as something or someone throws you for a curve you catch yourself eating those things you were not going to eat. You then feel guilty and failure until.....The emotion hits you that you have had enough and you are ready to do this thing again. “Uhoh..you Caught me Eating My Feelings...and they were very tasty” Three science-backed ways to take charge of your emotional eating? Read on, friend...1. Find healthier ways to soothe negative emotions.When you emotionally eat, it temporarily will soothe the negative emotions by dumping dopamine in to the system and rewarding the pleasure center. There are other things that are healthier than can do this in the same type ways. You have to find what works for you. Examples could be: crafting, playing a game on your phone, cleaning or organizing something, playing with your kids, walking your dog, just going outside on the porch and sitting with nature, etc... Make you a list of things that you can do and then refer to that list when you feel the urge to eat and know it is due to your emotions. 2. Notice the EmotionsTypicaly when you emotionally eat you are trying to AVOID the negative emotion THUS... food is your go-to, you eat, you get pleasure and the emotion is less intense. This cycle will further reinforces your emotional eating to then become a habit. Start a journal or download a mood ap like Daylio and start being more mindful of your emotional patterns. Just being more mindful is your first line of defense, because you recognize when your appetite is connected to the emotion you are feeling. Don't be afraid of your emotions, but be empowered by recognizing them. It is at that point you take control of the cravings rather than the cravings taking control of you!3. Set a timer for 15 minutesIf it is not mealtime or a planned snack and you feel the urge to go for food anyway.... set a 15-minute timer on your phone or in your house with Google or Alexa and do not allow yourself to get a snack for those 15 minutes...drink an 8 ounce glass of water and find something else to do instead. During the 15 minutes empower yourself by deciding, "If I am still hungry in 15 minutes I will choose ...... to eat" and make a healthy choice. If the timer goes off and you are not hungry anymore, chances are your mood changed and your appetite decreased. Who am I to tell you how to eat? Well, let me introduce myself...Hey, there 👋 I’m Tina Souder! I’m the founder of Think Body Positive. I have lived a life dedicated to learning and implementing as much as I can about health and fitness and especially the role that mindfullness plays in its success or failure.I was a yo-yo dieter as a teenager. I believed if I just ate one meal a day, even if it was a footlong hot dog and onion rings, but ate nothing else I was doing good. I also loved exercise but would go through spurts of "all-in" and then stop and then realize I HAVE TO DO SOMETHING so All-In again, then stop.....and on and on.. By the age of 25, after having two kids and always struggling with my weight, I began to take vitamins, learn about food and exercise and implement it for the "right reasons" rather than the quick fix. I dropped about 20 pounds over the next few months and then 30 more pounds over the next 4 years.By the age of 30 I was feeling good and decided to compete in what was then called the NOVA fitness competition. I competed in about 4 different competitions along with a few NPC figure competitions and during this time learned massive amounts about not just dieting but how to take your foods and strategically pair them for optimal results. I also learned how to weight train for results. Since the age of 30, I have regularly exercised--at least 5 days per week and have maintained a clean diet at least 80% of the time. I did go through a phase that I did not allow myself to eat anything bad, but have sense learned that is not living and now eat clean MOST of the time. MINDFULLNESS... On top of the above experience I am also a licensed mental health counselor and I help people daily from the therapy chair as well. MINDSET is something, if improved, helps you with your mental and your physical health. I now am combining the above experiences and knowledge base to coach individuals (just like you) towards achieving their goals — be it losing a stubborn muffin top or building strength, or learning to take control of your eating.... I’ve got your back!All I ask is that you’re ready to commit to a happier, healthier lifestyle. Trust me, you’ve got nothing to lose and everything — including muscle 💪 — to gain.Together:1) We’ll develop a diet and workout plan that alligns with your unique needs! 2). We will also work through your mind blocks that keep getting in the way of your success! I’ll be available to give you all the support and guidance you need along the way.Book a FREE 15 minute consultation with yours truly for an interview to apply and see if you’re ready to get serious about your fitness journey! We’ll discuss your goals, evaluate your mindset and see if we are a good fit to help you reach them.Let me help you lose the weight and keep it off forever! Plus expect to see me in your inbox with made for you tips on mind, body and health!