Are You in a Healthy Relationship?

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Quiz Questions

1.
It’s your birthday! What does your partner do?
- A.
  They forgot but try to cover it up by running out and buying something at the last minute
- B.
  They planned a special night for me or got me a gift I’ve been wanting
- C.
  They tell me happy birthday
2.
You have to go to a family event and ask your partner to come along. What do they do?
- A.
  They complain but go anyway
- B.
  They make an excuse at the last minute to not go
- C.
  They ask if you need them to bring anything
3.
It’s date night but you can’t agree on a restaurant. You want Mexican but they want Asian. What do you do?
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- A.
  Agree on a place that’s just okay but has something you both like
- B.
  Agree to get Mexican tonight and Asian next time
- C.
  End up taking so long discussing that you end up just ordering pizza
4.
How many hobbies do you both share?
- A.
  Maybe one or two, we each kinda have our own interest
- B.
  We have a few things we both love and bond over
- C.
  None really
5.
Would you consider your partner your friend?
- A.
  No, not really
- B.
  Yeah, but they aren’t my best friend
- C.
  Yes, they are my best friend
6.
Your partner wants to go to a concert, but you have no interest in the band or the music style. What do you do?
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- A.
  Go anyway even though you don’t enjoy yourself
- B.
  Tell them how you feel and see if they would rather go with a friend
- C.
  Don’t go no matter how much they want you to
7.
You had a bad day at work. What does your partner do?
- A.
  Listens to you vent and offers advice
- B.
  Tells you about their day that was bad too
- C.
  Says their sorry you had a bad day
8.
How much time do you spend together?
- A.
  We are with each other all the time
- B.
  We spend evenings and weekends together
- C.
  We kinda do our own thing for the most part
9.
You get in an argument how long do you wait before talking about it?
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- A.
  We make sure to talk before the evening is over
- B.
  We take time to cool down, no matter how long that may be
- C.
  Sometimes it’s just easier to let it go
10.
What values do you share?
- A.
  We both have the same religious and political views for the most part and have similar life goals
- B.
  We have different religious or political views but share life goals
- C.
  We are very different and see the world differently
11.
Your partner has to spend some time alone with a member of the opposite sex for work. How do you feel about this?
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- A.
  Absolutely not
- B.
  A little worried or upset but it’s for work
- C.
  It’s fine, I trust them
12.
You got laid off from your job and you know your partner will be upset. What do you do?
- A.
  Hide it from them until you can find another job
- B.
  Tell them even though you know they will be upset
- C.
  Take some time to process and tell them eventually

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Healthy Relationship
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Congratulations, you are in a healthy relationship! Both you and your partner seem to love, respect and cherish one another. You help bring out the best in each other and are learning and growing together. Even when things get tough, and you don’t agree you are able to communicate in a healthy way. Keep learning and growing together!
2.
Could Use a Little Work
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Maybe you are in a new relationship or maybe you don’t communicate well with one another, but truth is your relationship could use a little work. You both seem to care for one another but there is a disconnect somewhere. Maybe you need to spend some quality time together? Schedule a date night with just the two of you once a week. Maybe you need to start doing a little extra for one another like buy each other more gifts or do favors for one another. Or maybe you need to sit down and have serious conversation about the things that are upsetting and frustrating you. If you never voice how you feel then how are they supposed to know? You can’t work on your problems if you don’t address them.
3.
Causing Damage
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Your relationship is struggling to be honest. It sounds like you care for each other but there is just a lot of other stuff going on. Maybe you’ve got a long history of hurt between the two of you? Or maybe you just don’t have the same values and goals in life? Whatever is it, you might need to take some time and seriously consider if this is the person you want to spend your life with. If you are already committed, then maybe consider seeing a counselor together. If both people are committed to making it work no relationship is beyond repair, but it’s going to take a real effort from both of you.

Are You in a Healthy Relationship?

Being in a relationship is great, but if its not a healthy relationship it may cause more damage than good. Is your relationship healthy? Take this quiz to find out.

Quiz Questions

Quiz Outcomes