What type of friend are you?

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Quiz Questions

1.
How would your friends describe you?
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- A.
  I am the most responsible
- B.
  I am the funniest
- C.
  I am very impulsive
- D.
  I am highly driven
- E.
  I am loyal and honest
2.
Do you get happy for your friends when they get or have things you don't?
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- A.
  Mostly yes, I'm happy for them.
- B.
  Heck yeah! They deserve it.
- C.
  Yes. They can even do better than this.
- D.
  I get happy for them but it's nothing serious. I also deserve good things.
- E.
  Whatever makes them happy I guess.
3.
Your friends call you their...
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- A.
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  Leader
- B.
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  Inspiration
- C.
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  Parent (in a good way)
- D.
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  Confidant
4.
Your friend got a new hairstyle you don't like but they love, what do you do?
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- A.
  I tell them it looks nice, but offer tips for the next time she gets a new style.
- B.
  If they love, I love it.
- C.
  Joke about it and make fun of the hair style.
- D.
  My face can't lie.
- E.
  Keep my negative thoughts to myself.
5.
What would be the main reason to distance yourself from a friend?
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  It could be a number of things really.
- B.
  I'm not getting what I need from the friendship anymore.
- C.
  Being around that friend does no good in my life.
- D.
  We just grew apart. We're different now.
- E.
  They're just not fun to be around anymore.
6.
How do you feel when your friends don't follow through with plans?
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- A.
  I don't really care. They probably had other things to do.
- B.
  I'd be really upset. What kind of friends are they anyway?
- C.
  Let down and disappointed. They should've at least made an effort.
- D.
  Try and find out why they didn't follow through?
- E.
  There's always next time.
7.
What would you be losing the most if your friend moved away?
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- A.
  My tag along buddy. Who will I go on adventures with now?
- B.
  Companionship
- C.
  Uplifting spirit. Kept pushing me to do my best.
- D.
  Fun times and bouts of laughter
- E.
  Someone I can count on and confide in about anything
8.
Your two friends are arguing nonstop, what do you do?
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- A.
  I tell them to get the heck over it!
- B.
  I speak to them both separately to get a better sense of why they're arguing, then I guide them towards a resolution.
- C.
  I separate them – maybe if they just don't see one another, the conflict will solve itself.
- D.
  I set up a meeting for all of us, so we can get everything out on the table and iron things out.
- E.
  Laugh at them. They look ridiculous arguing for something they won't even remember later.
9.
Do you feel the need to talk to your friends daily?
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- A.
  Definitely not!
- B.
  Depends on how close we are.
- C.
  We all need our own space now and again.
- D.
  Yes! I can't help it.
- E.
  Can't pass up a good laugh with those crazy girls.
10.
Would you tell your friend the truth even if it's something they don't want to hear.
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  Yes, I'd want them to do the same for me.
- B.
  Probably not. What they don't know won't hurt.
- C.
  It would be coming from a good place.
- D.
  It's for their own good.
- E.
  No. Why ruffle feathers?

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Your Type is... Motivator
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Your motivating friendship style means you have high expectations for your friends, and always push them to do their best. Your enthusiasm always steals the show. While your motivating style means your friendships rarely fall out of order, it can still be an emotionally challenging relationship to maintain. Try giving your friends a bit more freedom, and you might be happily surprised."If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." – John Quincy Adams3 Quick Tips for The Motivator1) Listen to Your FriendsLet your friends know their thoughts are valuable by setting aside time to hearing them out. If you have any shy or extremely quiet friends, try directly asking them for their opinions. And – whatever you do – don’t immediately reject whatever your friends have had the courage to share with you. Empowerment should be your endgame!2) Take Some Time to Think Before you ActThis tip should almost go without saying. You are often impulsive and do things on a whim. Take a couple of minutes to think things through before you go ahead and do them.✨🤗💕3. Don't agree to EverythingIf you find yourself saying yes to everyone, you may need to take a firmer stand and learn to say no. You are an action taker and want to see things get done, but this will leave you out in the cold with a lot left undone.Before We Go Any Further – Let Me Introduce MyselfHi there, I’m Nthabiseng 'Ntha' Masipa, founder and CEO of NthaToday. If you’re a struggling to figure out life, I want to help you realize your potential. Life is about more than chasing the dream. I will help you will gain a better understanding of yourself and how to live more purposefully.And if you’re looking to improve your life holistically and have more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, we’ve got your back, too 🙌 With years of experience, whether it’s a lifestyle or personal growth issue, we can smooth out the snags so you can get back to what’s really important (a.k.a living your best life)!Plus Expect to See Us in Your Inbox Soon With More great Tips on Healthy Relationships✌️
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Your Type is... Funny Friend
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Your Funny style means non stop humour. You are the rainbow sprinkles to vanilla ice cream. You love to bring joy to those around you and liven up life. Your sense of humour is unmatched and you don't really care much for the norm. Any situation can be turned upside down in laughter when you're around."I never stopped joking around long enough to realize you weren't laughing anymore." - Alexandra Potter3 Quick Tips for the Funny Friend1) Be a little more sensitiveJust be sensitive to your friends' feelings. Not everything is a joke and they may not find certain things funny. Learn to tune into the mood and environment. 2) Work on Self-ControlThis is one trait you need to work on. The impulse to often blurt out something shows a lack of self-regulation.Learn to resist the urge to say something witty or funny if a situation doesn't allow it.3) Be more reliableIt may be hard for your friends to know when you're being serious or not. You can try and be more reliable by doing what you say when you say you're gonna do it, as you tend to be a bit flaky. Before We Go Any Further – Let Me Introduce MyselfHi there, I’m Nthabiseng 'Ntha' Masipa, founder and CEO of NthaToday. If you’re struggling to figure out life, I want to help you realize your potential. Life is about more than chasing the dream. I will help you will gain a better understanding of yourself and how to live more purposefully.And if you’re looking to improve your life holistically and have more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, we’ve got your back, too 🙌 With years of experience, whether it’s a lifestyle or personal growth issue, we can smooth out the snags so you can get back to what’s really important (a.k.a living your best life)!Plus Expect to See Us in Your Inbox Soon With More great Tips on Healthy Relationships✌️
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Your Type is... Easy Going
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Your easy-going friendship style makes it easy for people to want to be around you. You are the friend who's always up for an adventure and go with the flow. Your calm nature can diffuse any situation and bring peace to the friendship.“The love that comes from friendship is the underlying facet of a happy life.” – Chelsea Handler3 Quick Tips for the Easy Going Friend1) Set BoundariesLearn to create healthy boundaries with those around you to avoid an onset of resentment. It can be easy for people to take advantage of your easy-going personality.2) Seek HappinessIt's important to surround yourself with friends that bring you joy and don't drain your cheerful and charming energy.🤗Don't be inclined to stick around in a friendship that is toxic and doesn't bring you joy.3) Stand up for YourselfStand up and speak up for yourself if you agree to something or feel something isn't right.Don't accept unfair treatment or let things go just for the sake of peace and not causing a stir. Learn to be firm.Before We Go Any Further – Let Me Introduce MyselfHi there, I’m Nthabiseng 'Ntha' Masipa, founder and CEO of NthaToday. If you’re struggling to figure out life, I want to help you realize your potential. Life is about more than chasing the dream. I will help you will gain a better understanding of yourself and how to live more purposefully.And if you’re looking to improve your life holistically and have more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, we’ve got your back, too 🙌 With years of experience, whether it’s a lifestyle or personal growth issue, we can smooth out the snags so you can get back to what’s really important (a.k.a living your best life)!Plus Expect to See Us in Your Inbox Soon With More great Tips on Healthy Relationships✌️
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Your Type is...Brutally Honest
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Your brutally honest friendship style means you are not afraid, to tell the truth, however difficult it may be. Your honesty is refreshing amidst the pretence we are faced with.You may be harsh at times but however hard it may be, you are appreciated for your brutal honesty and your friends know you do it with love."Honesty is more than not lying. It is truth-telling, truth speaking, truth living, and truth loving." - James E. Faust3 Quick Tips for the Brutally Honest Friend1) Be VulnerableVulnerability is not weakness, it just means you are open to having someone have your back for once. You don't always have to be the strong one.2) Be more SensitiveHonesty is the best policy, but it must be constructive and for the best interest of the other person. Watch what you say so that it is not hurtful to the other person.Honesty doesn't have to be cruel. 3) Be intentionalWhen you say something, don't backtrack or find a way to make light of your comment. Think of the reason behind saying something before you say it.Your intention is the difference between being mean and meaning well.Before We Go Any Further – Let Me Introduce MyselfHi there, I’m Nthabiseng 'Ntha' Masipa, founder and CEO of NthaToday. If you’re struggling to figure out life, I want to help you realize your potential. Life is about more than chasing the dream. I will help you will gain a better understanding of yourself and how to live more purposefully.And if you’re looking to improve your life holistically and have more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, we’ve got your back, too 🙌 With years of experience, whether it’s a lifestyle or personal growth issue, we can smooth out the snags so you can get back to what’s really important (a.k.a living your best life)!Plus Expect to See Us in Your Inbox Soon With More great Tips on Healthy Relationships✌️
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Your Type is... Guide
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Your Guiding friendship style means you are the friend who is there no matter what. You are the faithful confidant who your friends come to for anything.They can trust you with their lives and you are there no matter what. You give the best advice without judgement. You are the one friend everyone can confide in without a reservation. "He was my confidant, the person who was always on my side even when he wasn't taking my side." – Lisa Kleypas3 Quick Tips for the Guide1) Just ListenSometimes you just need to be attentive and listen without giving any advice. Don't feel the need to give too much advice or talk too much about your own experiences.2) You are the Safe SpaceBe emotionally there for your friend without criticising their situation. They come to you knowing that you are there for them without judging them.Your friends trust you wholeheartedly.3) Have Some FunIt's easy for you to forget to live in the moment. So it's important to have some fun now and again. Let your hair down, and relax. You don't always have to take life so seriously. Before We Go Any Further – Let Me Introduce MyselfHi there, I’m Nthabiseng 'Ntha' Masipa, founder and CEO of NthaToday. If you’re struggling to figure out life, I want to help you realize your potential. Life is about more than chasing the dream. I will help you will gain a better understanding of yourself and how to live more purposefully.And if you’re looking to improve your life holistically and have more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, we’ve got your back, too 🙌 With years of experience, whether it’s a lifestyle or personal growth issue, we can smooth out the snags so you can get back to what’s really important (a.k.a living your best life)!Plus Expect to See Us in Your Inbox Soon With More great Tips on Healthy Relationships✌️

What type of friend are you?

From fun times to life changing moments, take this two-minute quiz to discover your friendship style! On top of that, I’m going to give you my top tips for creating happy, healthy friendships ✨

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