Are You Dealing with a Narcissist ?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  You feel as though you simply don't know what's normal anymore. You are full of self-doubt and feel like you're going crazy.

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 2.
  Lack of accountability. No matter what happens in the relationship it is never the narcissist's fault. They will never take responsibility for their poor behaviour or actions.

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 3.
  They will repeatedly instill in you the belief that you're crazy or flawed. You're told that you are argumentative, you’re overreacting and too sensitive. They are MEAN.

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 4.
  They will fill you with a sense of fear. You may fear making decisions on your own as they will be challenged and ridiculed.  You double check every action you take. 

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  • A.
    YES🚰
  • B.
    NO
• 5.
  You may develop Anxiety or Depression. You may even need to be medicated. You no longer feel like your old self.

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 6.
  They will use your insecurities against you. They tell you that you are the problem.

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 7.
  They will never give you what you ask for. The simplest requests will be denied and there will always be a good reason for them blocking your concerns.

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 8.
  They can be charming and adoring. The narcissist will initially kill you with kindness and make you feel like the most special person on Earth. This will come to end. When you reach your breaking point, and threaten to leave they will love bomb you with their promise to change.

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 9.
  They will lie and cheat. They lack EMPATHY

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO
• 10.
  Intimacy and Sex. The narcissist will never offer you are deep and amazing sex life. While you may have enjoyed an initial period of intimacy, this will never continue. 

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  • A.
    YES
  • B.
    NO

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Red Flags

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  While your partner does not exhibit all the personality traits of a Narcissist, there are some Red Flags. These responses are not healthy for any relationship and you may be wise to seek support or counselling.
• 2.
  There is a good chance you are dealing with a NARCISSIST

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  Seek Support today and talk to someone who understands NARCISSISM. Plan your EXIT.SCHEDULE SOME TIME TO CHAT WITH ME TODAYTo anyone who has worked with or lived with a narcissist, they know the destruction and deceit that lies in their wake. Narcissists are masters at fooling people into believing that they are altruistic, kind and thoughtful. They can appear selfless, patient and generous but to those who have a personal relationship with them, they are unable to unconditionally care for their partners or children. To the untrained eye, the covert narcissist parades, and mimics as a thoughtful and decent person. They might seem humble at first but will eventually become condescending and make it clear that they believe that they are better than others. None of their actions are for the good of others- they do not do these for others, this all about self-gain…the next promotion, the larger pay check, the new car or larger house or the recognition and kudos that feeds the what they see others do. What you can do if you are in a relationship with a covert narcissist. The best advice is to leave. It is completely futile to attempt anything else as they will always win. The narcissist does not see that there is a problem and will not be found in a therapist’s office seeking self-improvement. The narcissist is tricky and dangerous. While you may be fearful to leave, they are incapable of changing.The cycle of abuse will continue and your mental health will decline.You can also browse through our insightful series of blogs at www.candidcounselling.com.au