Discover the Inner Child trauma that's keeping you most stuck...

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Quiz Questions

1.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most? Tip: Don't overthink your answers, simply choose which aligns most with you!
- A.
  I feel like nothing I do is ever good enough
- B.
  I have a hidden belief that 'everyone leaves me' or that 'I'm all alone'
- C.
  I have a hidden belief or feeling that I'm unworthy
- D.
  I have a tendency to reject others before they reject me
2.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most? Tip: Don't overthink your answers, simply choose which aligns most with you!
- A.
  I have a tendency toward people pleasing or saying 'yes' when I'd really rather say 'no'
- B.
  I struggle to truly, deeply love myself
- C.
  I feel a sense of shame hidden deep within me - even though I may not know why
- D.
  I struggle to set boundaries for myself + others
3.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I felt unheard a lot as a child
- B.
  I don't feel safe
- C.
  I only feel safe + secure when I have connection + ideally commitment
- D.
  I tend to attract partners who are clingy + needy or anxiously attached
4.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I have a tendency to compare myself to others + end up feeling 'less than'
- B.
  I tend to attract emotionally unavailable partners or partners who inevitably leave
- C.
  I often settle for less in all areas of my life
- D.
  I spend a lot of time making sure everyone else is okay, but have very little time or energy left for myself
5.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I'm often hyper alert looking for signs that I'm going to be rejected
- B.
  I have a history of partners who are not capable of loving me
- C.
  I feel bad about being me + I hope that others don't see it too
- D.
  I avoid speaking up or saying how I really feel in order to keep the peace
6.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I'm not very confident when it comes to setting effective boundaries
- B.
  I'm always on high alert looking for threats
- C.
  I fall in love hard + fast + can be a bit clingy or needy, especially if it feels like they're pulling away or losing interest
- D.
  I tend to be quite guarded + avoid vulnerability
7.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I tend to work really hard to 'prove myself' or over deliver so they will choose me or see that I'm enough
- B.
  I have a deep, lingering fear of being rejected
- C.
  I never felt truly loved for who I am growing up
- D.
  I'm very attuned to the needs of others - but I sometimes struggle to know what my needs are
8.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  One or both of my parents were emotionally unavailable, hard to connect with or quite harsh + overly critical
- B.
  I feel like I have to 'make up for being me'
- C.
  I feel guilty when I do set boundaries + am afraid of what the consequences might be if I do
- D.
  I tend not to speak up as it's not going to make any difference anyway
9.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I often attract friends + partners who have low self worth or low self esteem
- B.
  I tend to dissociate - feel out of my body + ungrounded a lot
- C.
  I become very panicky if my partner or someone important to me pulls away + creates distance
- D.
  I'm not comfortable at all with displays of emotion or feelings
10.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  Sometimes I avoid trying + feel 'What's the point in trying - it won't work anyway'
- B.
  I really struggle to say no
- C.
  I feel unlovable or separate from love
- D.
  I don't feel safe in my body or in my environment
11.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I have a tendency to only see what's wrong with me, rather than what's right
- B.
  I tend to push people away if they get too close
- C.
  I tend to make other's needs + feelings a priority over mine
- D.
  I have a deep sense that others don't really care about my feelings or what I've got to say anyway
12.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I have a hidden fear of being abandoned or rejected
- B.
  I feel like there's something inherently wrong or bad about me + that others can sometimes see this too
- C.
  I'll do whatever I need to, to secure a connection + commitment - even if it means accepting behaviour + treatment that I know isn't healthy for me
- D.
  I feel suffocated in relationships often + tend to push people away when they get too close or want too much from me
13.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I often attract friends + partners who are emotionally unavailable
- B.
  I tend to keep people at arms length, it feels better that way
- C.
  I have to try and be a particular way to be loved - I can't just be me
- D.
  I feel resentful sometimes about how much I give to others + yet they often don't reciprocate
14.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  I'm afraid that everyone else will see that I'm not enough somehow too
- B.
  I feel shame deep within me
- C.
  I have a history of being rejected or rejecting others
- D.
  I don't like too much attention on me
15.
Which of these statements do you relate to the most?
- A.
  Even though I know it's not true, part of me feels like my feelings + needs don't matter or they're not important
- B.
  I often feel like others don't respect my boundaries
- C.
  I have a tendency to look for people who can protect me and often they end up being the ones who hurt you
- D.
  I often feel disconnected from my emotions + can compartmentalise them quite easily

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Self Abandonment
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Low Self-Worth
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Anxious Attachment
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Dismissive Avoidant Attachment
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Not Good Enough
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Rejection
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Unsafe + Insecure
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Shame
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Fear of Speaking Up
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10.
Emotional Abandonment
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Setting Boundaries
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Unloved + Unloveable
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Discover the Inner Child trauma that's keeping you most stuck...

Take this quiz to see which of the 12 Inner Child Archetypes is most dominant in your life right now.Learn what patterns are keeping you stuck + what to focus on healing first.@jenpeters_soulguide_healer

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