Find Out Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men!
It's not bad luck. It's a pattern and it has a name. Answer 12 questions to discover which of the 5 dating patterns is keeping you stuck with emotionally unavailable men.
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Quiz Questions
1.
When you start dating someone new, you usually:
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A.
Feel excited and find yourself initiating most of the texts and plans
B.
Feel anxious and carefully monitor what you say so you don't seem "too much"
C.
Analyze everything they do for signs of compatibility and potential
D.
Feel cautious and protective of your independence
E.
Overthink every text and analyze what it means
2.
On a first date, you tend to:
A.
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Act easygoing and avoid mentioning anything that might create conflict
B.
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Make sure he's having a good time and carry the conversation if needed
C.
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Keep things light and surface-level to protect yourself
D.
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Replay the entire date in your head afterward, analyzing every detail
E.
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Assess whether he meets your standards and has long-term potential
3.
If a guy you like takes hours to respond to your text, you:
A.
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Spiral into anxiety and create stories about what it means
B.
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Feel relieved to have some space
C.
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Tell yourself you're being too needy and try to act unbothered
D.
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Wonder if this means he's not serious enough about dating
E.
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Send another message or find a reason to reach out again
4.
When things are going well early on, you usually:
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A.
Start worrying, you'll mess it up by being yourself
B.
Get more invested and start planning future dates/scenarios
C.
Look for ways it might not work out long-term
D.
Feel a little suffocated and need space
E.
Feel anxious waiting for the other shoe to drop
5.
You're most attracted to men who:
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A.
Have potential to be great if they just made a few changes
B.
Give you plenty of space and don't push for too much closeness
C.
Keep you guessing and don't show their hand too quickly
D.
Need you or seem like they could really benefit from your support
E.
Seem easygoing and won't require too much from you
6.
If you sense he's pulling back, your first instinct is to:
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A.
Analyze what went wrong and what you could have done differently
B.
Pull back too and create distance
C.
Reach out more, try harder, or plan something to reconnect
D.
Act like everything's fine and avoid bringing it up
E.
Obsess over what it means and what you should do
7.
In relationships, you often find yourself:
A.
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Wishing he would step up and meet you at your level
B.
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Doing most of the emotional labor and planning
C.
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Feeling like your independence is being threatened
D.
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Questioning everything and seeking constant reassurance
E.
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Going along with what he wants to avoid conflict
8.
When conflict arises, you tend to:
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A.
Replay it obsessively and worry about what it means for the relationship
B.
Point out what he's doing wrong and how he could improve
C.
Shut down or need space before you can talk about it
D.
Try to fix it immediately and make everything okay
E.
Avoid it or smooth things over quickly
9.
Your friends would say you: :
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A.
Have very high standards and critique your partners
B.
Give too much in relationships and don't get enough back
C.
Lose yourself and become a different person when dating
D.
Overanalyze everything and can't just enjoy dating
E.
Keep people at arm's length and don't let them in
10.
When someone wants to get serious, you:
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A.
Feel panicked and want to run
B.
Feel excited but worried you'll mess it up
C.
Evaluate whether they're truly "the one" or settling
D.
Feel excited and ready to commit
E.
Feel anxious and uncertain if it's the right choice
11.
In past relationships, you've:
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A.
Done more of the pursuing, planning, and relationship work
B.
Ended things when they got too serious or close
C.
Questioned the relationship constantly and drove yourself crazy
D.
Been frustrated that he wasn't living up to his potential
E.
Accommodated his needs while ignoring your own
12.
You know you need to set a boundary when:
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A.
Your anxiety is through the roof
B.
Someone is asking for more closeness than you can handle
C.
You've said "I'm fine" for the hundredth time when you're not
D.
You're compromising on something important to you
E.
You're exhausted from giving so much
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