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Luisa and Isabela: From an “I Got This” Culture to a “Let’s Do This” Culture
If you got this result, you might have a hard time expressing who you really are to your friends, especially any weaknesses or insecurities. This may come out in one of two ways: Maybe like Luisa, you’re great at getting things done and tend to tough things out without slowing down to let your friends know how you’re really doing and what you need. Or maybe, like Isabela, you try to seem happy and put together, painting a picture-perfect version of yourself, but no one knows the real you. Either way, this creates a culture of pride and independence rather than humility. When you’re constantly trying to prove yourself or get people’s approval, there’s no room for closeness or connection.1 Corinthians 12:20-22,25-26 NLTYes, there are many parts, but only one body. [21] The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.” [22] In fact, some parts of the body that seem weakest and least important are actually the most necessary. [25] This makes for harmony among the members, so that all the members care for each other. [26] If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it, and if one part is honored, all the parts are glad.God put you in the lives of your friends not only so you could help them, but so they can help you. Your weaknesses are just as important as your strengths, and when you create a culture of expressing need and a willingness to learn, you can grow to become who you’re meant to be together. Take some time this week to pray through the things you are afraid to express, and decide to ask a friend for help!Further study:Why Humility Makes You a More Loving FriendThe Necessity of Failing and the Joy of Moving Forward