How Do You Show Up In Your World?

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Quiz Questions

1.
I allow time for deep reflection...
- A.
  Very seldom. I focus on quality, intimate time with my family, my team, and my friends.
- B.
  Now and again. However, it usually leads to thinking about the past. The stuff that has happened to me and how things could be different.
- C.
  Almost never. I have big dreams and spend my time achieving them.
- D.
  Often. I am always seeking out new information and ways to improve myself and the world.
2.
I am Happiest when...
- A.
  I am with the people that I love.
- B.
  I am helping others.
- C.
  I am as strong and as competent as possible.
- D.
  I am learning and reflecting on myself and the world around me.
3.
Even when I was a kid I...
- A.
  Didn't like to be alone.
- B.
  Gathered all the kids together to play and laugh.
- C.
  Wanted to win at everything and worked hard to get what I wanted.
- D.
  Was always playing pretend.
4.
One Word About You...
- A.
  Love
- B.
  Generous
- C.
  Strong
- D.
  Wise
5.
One of my deepest fears is...
- A.
  Being Alone.
- B.
  Being seen as selfish by those around me.
- C.
  Being seen as weak by those around me.
- D.
  Being seen as ignorant by those around me.
6.
I feel the most vulnerable when...
- A.
  I don't feel loved.
- B.
  I don't feel appreciated.
- C.
  I feel incompetent.
- D.
  I don't understand.
7.
What matters to me the most is...
- A.
  To be in relationships with people, work and surroundings that I love.
- B.
  Serving and helping others.
- C.
  To work hard, overcome obstacles and achieve goals that I have set for myself.
- D.
  To continue to grow and learn.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Caregiver
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You are a beautiful mix of generosity and love. You feel so full of joy when you are giving love and receiving love from the special people in your life. ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’. ‘Do unto others as you would have them do unto you’. These are words that you live by. Your friends, family, and work mates can always count on you.As a Caregiver you are always helping others, often at the expense of your own well-being. Taking time for yourself is something that sits low on your list of priorities. Be sure to take a step back now and again to see clearly where, and with who, you are focusing your time and attention. Time is one of your most precious assets.You have a strong desire to please others and you say yes most of the time. You are someone that people can count on. However, it is important to be aware of the importance of saying no. You don’t want to feel resentment while you are giving or critical of the people you are giving to. You don’t want to be thinking ‘but I did so much for them….’. You don’t want to feel exhaustion from burning the candle at both ends. Be aware of who the most important people are in your life and where you should be spending most of your wonderful energy. You are loving and generous all of the time, and this is a beautiful thing. Be aware of expecting that same love and generosity from others. This will leave you feeling unappreciated, manipulated, and disappointed. It is easier said than done, but you will be happiest if you can have no expectations from anyone, ever.Your generous, kind, loving nature are part of who you are. Your challenge is that you also have a deep need for love and approval. This constant state of ‘searching’ for the truth outside of yourself can lead to feelings of not being enough, competing, comparing, judging, evaluating, explaining, blaming and most importantly internal suffering. With some work, some time and attention to your thoughts you can feel joy, laughter, confidence, love, compassion, understanding and inner peace. Not to expect anything from anyone but to simply appreciate and love and be open to receiving what does come your way.Your time and attention are spent primarily on others because of the big heart that you have. The thing is you are often spread too thin. You feel guilty for not being here or not being there, or not doing this or not doing that. Learn to really be with the people that you are with, to be in the moment, and remember to take time to love and be generous with the most important person in the world…and that is you.A little bit about meHello, my name is Wendy Rovers. I am the Founder and CEO of Divorce Thrive– a place to create vision and take action for the evolution of you. I am a mother of six amazing boys, married to a great guy, a life strategist, and have been an entrepreneur my whole life. After years of successes, and many failures, I have realized that the most important work I do, is the work I do on myself. I choose to learn and grow every day and life has never been better.I must let go of the bad habits, the negative stories that I am believing, the negative thoughts always bouncing around in my mind. I must go to people that I have hurt, with humility and love, and say sorry. I choose to do the work every minute of every day to understand and love me just the way that I am.In conclusionYour superpower is your heart and your magical mix of generosity and love. People can count on you; they know that you will be there to listen to them and to help them in any way that you can. When you open your heart to receiving you will have all that you want in life.Cheers to youfirst,Wendy ♥
2.
The Hero
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You are the perfect balance of competence and courage. You have big dreams and you implement them. This is a powerful combination. Many people have great ideas and don’t know where or how to begin. You have both. You imagine what is possible, and you do the work to make it happen.As a Hero you are always up for a challenge. With an open mind and great persistence, you make your dreams come true. It is important to be aware of who you are when there is no challenge present in your life. Rather than feeling unmotivated or complacent take this time to connect with yourself, to meditate or exercise, visit with a friend, or take your child to the movies. This may feel like a waste of time to you, but it is not. You have big dreams and an unstoppable work ethic which makes you more financially successful than most. Earning money is not a problem for you. However, money mastery is challenging for most people. You will need a team of trusted people to create a plan with you. Money mastery is figuring out how make money, how to spend money, how to save money, how to invest money, and how to give money. Learn this and you will have space in your mind to continue to create and dream.People will want to participate in your projects if you invite them. Your vision is contagious, and they want to be a part of that. Take time to build your tribe. You thrive when your inspired ideas are implemented with fun and enthusiasm and teamwork.You are courageous and brave. Often misunderstood as arrogant and prideful. You have the best intentions for the people in your life that you care about, but they don’t always know that. You are perceived by many as a reliable role model and leader. Remember to be humble and know that it is ok to show people your softer side. You will be surprised at how your team, your partner, your children will respond. You love a challenge and are willing to work hard to see it through. Be aware of overworking yourself in pursuit of your goals and not paying attention to your overall health and well-being. Burn out is a real thing. Take a step back and give yourself permission to look after your own physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. Eat well. Exercise. Quality sleep. Meditation. Spend quality time with those that you love. A little bit about meHello, my name is Wendy Rovers. I am the Founder and CEO of Divorce Thrive – a place to create vision and take action for the evolution of you. I am a mother of six amazing boys, married to a great guy, a life strategist, and have been an entrepreneur my whole life. After years of successes, and many failures, I have realized that the most important work I do, is the work I do on myself. I choose to learn and grow every day and life has never been better.I must let go of the bad habits, the negative stories that I am believing, the negative thoughts always bouncing around in my mind. I must go to people that I have hurt, with humility and love, and say sorry. I choose to do the work every minute of every day to understand and love me just the way that I am.In conclusionYour superpower is your competence and courage. People look up to you as a role model and leader. Your dreams and vision are contagious. Take the time to build your tribe, a circle of friends and advisors that you can trust and can run your ideas by. Be willing to open your heart up to them and you will be in for a fun and exciting ride.Cheers to youfirst,Wendy ♥
3.
The Lover
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You are the perfect balance between intimacy and experience. Your passion and constant desire to enjoy and be with the people you love most in life makes you a partner, friend, and team builder that people can count on and love to have in their lives.As a Lover, you have a strong desire to create lasting, meaningful relationships and you thrive in situations that bring you closer to this realization. You are committed, passionate and devoted to the people and things that you love. You go all in with the important people in your life which is something to watch as it can lead to physical, emotional, and/or spiritual exhaustion. Make sure to take a step back from time to time to prioritize and understand why you are doing what you are doing.You have a strong desire to please others and you say yes almost all of the time. You are someone that people can count on. However, it is important to be aware of the importance of saying no. You don’t want to feel resentment while you are giving or critical of the people who are on the receiving end. You don’t want to be thinking ‘but I did so much for them….’. You don’t want to feel exhaustion and resentment from burning the candle at both ends. Be aware of who the most important people are in your life and where you should be spending most of your wonderful energy. You are loving and passionate, and this is a beautiful thing. Be aware of expecting that same love and passion from others. This will leave you feeling unappreciated, manipulated, and disappointed. It is easier said than done, but you will be happiest if you can have no expectations from anyone, ever.You're generous, kind, loving nature are part of who you are. Your challenge is that you also have a deep need for love and approval. This constant state of ‘searching’ for love, approval, and truth outside of yourself can lead to feelings of not being enough, competing, comparing, judging, evaluating, explaining, blaming and most importantly internal suffering. With some work, and some time and attention to your thoughts, you can feel joy, laughter, confidence, love, compassion, understanding and inner peace. Not to expect anything from anyone but to simply appreciate and love and be open to receiving what does come.Your time and attention are spent primarily on others because of the big heart that you have. The thing is you are often spread too thin. You feel guilty for not being here or not being there, or not doing this or not doing that. Learn to really be with the people that you are with, to be in the moment, and remember to take time to love and be generous with the most important person in the world…and that is you.A little bit about meHello, my name is Wendy Rovers. I am the Founder and CEO of Divorce Thrive – a place to create vision and take action for the evolution of you. I am a mother of six amazing boys, married to a great guy, a life strategist, and have been an entrepreneur my whole life. After years of successes, and many failures, I have realized that the most important work I do, is the work I do on myself. I choose to learn and grow every day and life has never been better.I must let go of the bad habits, the negative stories that I am believing, the negative thoughts always bouncing around in my mind. I must go to people that I have hurt, with humility and love, and say sorry. I choose to do the work every minute of every day to understand and love me just the way that I am.In conclusionYour superpower is your heart and your magical mix of passion and fun. People love to be with you, to share in your enthusiasm and be a part of your adventures. The world is your oyster…Cheers to youfirst,Wendy ♥
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The Sage
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You are the perfect balance between knowledge and self-reflection. You are highly intelligent and have a constant curiosity for learning new things. You are a wise person and spend much of your time seeking out new information and self-reflecting to analyze and understand the world.As a Sage, you pride yourself on your vast amount of knowledge and wisdom, and you love to share the information you have learned with others. You are deeply curious and inquisitive; always searching for the truth. This seeking for perfection can leave you feeling very critical of yourself and others, and leave you stranded in judgmental thinking. Be sure to leave room for other people’s thoughts and opinions and see the value in each person (even when they do not appear to be as intelligent as you think they should be). You do not need to be critical of any thought that you have. Just recognize the thought, question the thought. Is it true? And let it go.You are constantly evaluating what you know to be right. Your love for studying, analyzing, and reevaluating can leave you feeling stuck in your own understanding. Do you feel paralyzed by the knowing and the not knowing? People need to hear you. Be willing to take a chance and share the infinite wisdom that you have learned in your life. Don’t shy away from what you may consider ignorant or ‘dull’ conversations. Use your voice to add a new perspective, shed a new light, and inspire these same conversations to a new level. You may be surprised at the renewed relationships in your life.You are honest and diligent in your search for truth. This same quality often leaves you feeling disappointed in others when they appear to ‘lack intelligence’. Be careful in your judgements of others and feelings of superiority toward them. Although you may feel more intelligent than anyone else in the room, consider how you perceive others and how that projection may be seen by them. You may know the truth without a doubt, but no one will care if you are not able to connect with them in a loving and kind way. You are intelligent and deeply curious. Often misunderstood as superior and prideful. You have the best intentions for the people in your life, but they don’t always know that. You are often perceived by others as the most intelligent person in the room and this can be seen as arrogance. Remember to be humble and know that it is ok to show people your softer side and to really listen to them. You will be surprised at how your team, your partner, and your children will respond. You will be amazed at the opportunities that come knocking on your door.You love to learn and to seek the truth. Understand that physical growth and overall health and well-being are equally important. Your dependence on learning and intellect leaves little room for this. Take a step back and give yourself permission to look after your own physical well-being. Eat well. Exercise. Quality sleep. Meditation. Spend quality time with those that you love. A little bit about meHello, my name is Wendy Rovers. I am the Founder and CEO of Divorce Thrive – a place to create vision and take action for the evolution of you. I am a mother of six amazing boys, married to a great guy, a life strategist, and have been an entrepreneur my whole life. After years of successes, and many failures, I have realized that the most important work I do, is the work I do on myself. I choose to learn and grow every day and life has never been better.I must let go of the bad habits, the negative stories that I am believing, the negative thoughts always bouncing around in my mind. I must go to people that I have hurt, with humility and love, and say sorry. I choose to do the work every minute of every day to understand and love me just the way that I am.In conclusionYour superpower is your knowledge and your constant curiosity for learning. When you can take that knowledge and put it into action anything is possible for you.Cheers to youfirst,Wendy ♥

How Do You Show Up In Your World?

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