Are you ready to open up your relationship happily?
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Quiz Questions
1.
Have you ever been in an open relationship?
A.
Yes
B.
No
C.
Sort of- it's complicated
2.
My experience in an open relationship was
A.
fantastic- more please!
B.
pretty good- but I'd want it to feel better if I did it again
C.
confusing- I'd like to learn how to do it better
D.
exhausting- it was just one problem after another
3.
How long have you been thinking about opening up?
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A.
For a while but I'm nervous to bring it up with my current partner
B.
For a while & it's possible/likely we're both interested
C.
For a while & I want to explore it with or without my current partner.
D.
It's all new to me!
4.
I want our open relationship to feel...
A.
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Safe, secure, and gently exploratory.
B.
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Playful & focused on staying each other's *person*.
C.
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A once in a lifetime adventure!
D.
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A whole new way of doing relationships- let's reinvent what true love means!
E.
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Um... not sure I wanna answer that!
5.
Why are you considering an open relationship?
A.
My partner is interested, so I'm willing to consider it
B.
I'm all about having more sexual connections.
C.
I'm here for the intimacy- emotional, physical, spiritual, it's all welcome.
D.
I'm worried if I don't, my partner may cheat
6.
What's your biggest challenge together?
A.
Communication 😬 I keep trying but I don't feel understood.
B.
Agreements 🚦 We keep getting stuck trying to figure out the *rules* we need to open up.
C.
Keeping things fair ⚖️ and even-steven.
D.
Secrecy 🤐 I'm a REALLY private person.
E.
We've got big troubles 🆘 send help.
F.
We've got awesome relationship skills & tools 😍
7.
You've achieved your dream relationship. It looks like...
A.
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Learning all the time- every wobble is a growth opportunity.
B.
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We maintain our love by keeping our experiences fair and even.
C.
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It's going well and doesn't require much "relationship work"
D.
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It's all about the two of us, period.
8.
Why do you want an open relationship now?
A.
I feel ready for the challenges & growth it will bring
B.
I think its just the best option for relationship, but I'm not sure my partner is game
C.
I need more than my current partner can give
D.
I've got so much love to give!
9.
When my partner has a friend I don't like I
A.
remind them that we come first- that friendship isn't worth it, babe
B.
grin and bear it- if I try hard enough I'll learn to like them
C.
don't worry about it- not everyone needs to be my cup of tea,
D.
give my partner a chance to explain why they need to be friends with someone I don't like
E.
wait - are you saying I might not like someone my partner wants to date? I'm out.
10.
What's the worst-case scenario for you in a relationship?
A.
Arguing- I hate fights
B.
Feeling controlled
C.
Pretending everything is good when it's not
D.
Being bored
E.
No sexual connection
F.
No emotional connection
11.
My partner & I
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Have lots of individual hobbies & friends
B.
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Do almost everything together!
C.
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Make time for our friends & interests but we are each other's priority
12.
When I have a big feeling I
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get overwhelmed- sometimes I wish the feels would just go away
B.
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look on the bright side- who needs that bad energy
C.
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find a way to hold that big feeling AND feel other things at the same time
13.
When I'm scared to talk about something my go-to move is
A.
Rip off the bandaid and just say it.
B.
Take it to my best friend first.
C.
Let it be, some things are best left unsaid.
D.
Calm my nervous system and set us up for a successful (if difficult) conversation.
14.
Talking about sex with my partner is...
A.
Easy & free flowing
B.
Not really a thing we do much
C.
Exciting, but pretty tough to do
D.
Used to be easier, something's changed
15.
Your partner had quite the sexy adventure last night, what's YOUR biggest struggle today?
A.
I'm dying to set up a date for myself now to balance things out.
B.
I'm so curious- want all the details!
C.
I'm jealous- my stomach is in knots
D.
I'm feeling distant- I'm not sure how we should reconnect
E.
I'm feeling *off* and can't seem to stay calm.
16.
What three words best describe your relationship?
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Curious, growth-oriented, transparent
B.
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Organized, reliable, tame
C.
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Wild, intrepid, courageous
D.
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Practical, streamlined, uncomplicated
E.
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Tender, rollercoaster-y, emotional
17.
You just won $5k on a scratch ticket — what do you two do with it?
A.
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We planned a sexy vacation at a well known swinging or kink event
B.
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We decided to invest in relationship support and self-care activities
C.
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We fought over whether to save it or spend on some pleasurable activities.
D.
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We're savers- it went right into the bank.
E.
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Who's this we?? One of us bought the ticket so one of us decides what to do with it.
18.
Why did your last open relationship end?
A.
We decided to be monogamous again & stayed together
B.
It just came to a natural conclusion- no hard feelings
C.
I was struggling to handle being open so we split
D.
My partner was struggling with being open so we split
Quiz Outcomes
1.
Looks like you're ready to open up (But is your partner?)
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Now it's time to explore the options together!
2.
You might be ready and it seems like you have questions & concerns. Your partner might too...
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You're pretty interested, but it's natural to have lots of questions when you're trying something outside the mainstream.
3.
You might be ready. Seems like you've tried this before and want to do it even better this time!
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You've got some experience, enough to know that open relationships deserve special attention.
4.
You need some foundations first - good catch!
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So glad you caught this now! Opening from a strong foundation is ideal.
