You have a high relationship IQ
Your high IQ score suggests that you have had some people in your life who modeled healthy relationship and communication skills and that’s fantastic! And, if you’re like most people, there are some situations or people that are very difficult for you, and it stresses you and/or the other person.
Your rating is a guide regarding your competence with these skills; however, if you answered generically and didn’t consider your difficult relationships than it’s not as useful for knowing what to do when you hit a bump or a boulder! .
It’s human to have challenges in relationships. The benefit of the quiz isn’t really the rating of high, medium, or low. The value is in looking at those relationships that are important or impactful where you are not navigating things as well as you want so you can find a path forward to have the deeper connections you desire.
Even when you are competent, if you have issues with your spouse, boyfriend, best friend, mom or dad, sibling, boss, neighbor and it weighs on you then what matters more is where you struggle. (Sorry for this bad news.)
My commitment - whatever score you got - is to help you build healthy skills so you can have authentic communication and create delicious relationships. How can you know what to do if/when you have not been taught how to navigate your relationships, especially in challenging situations? When you learn the skills, it’s so much easier to navigate these difficult relationships.
I invite you to schedule a follow-up call with me so you can share with me your challenges and we can discuss how your current skills in those situations are sabotaging you. We will also see what skills you can build on so that you have more confidence and are more effective in your relationships!
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