What area in your marriage is your biggest honeymoon phase killer?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  1. In our marriage, there is space to talk about our pasts

  • A.
    No, not really
  • B.
    Sometimes there is
  • C.
    It's like that quite often
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 2.
  2. In everyday life, my spouse and I each have our clear roles. We generally know what to do and what the other's doing, as we work together to our common goals as a team

  • A.
    No, not really
  • B.
    Sometimes we do
  • C.
    We do quite often
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 3.
  3. Sometimes it feels as if I can not be 100% myself with my spouse

  • A.
    No, that's not me at all
  • B.
    Sometimes I feel like that
  • C.
    I feel like that quite often
  • D.
    Yes, that's totally me
• 4.
  4. In our marriage, my spouse and I discuss how men and women are different

  • A.
    That never happens
  • B.
    Sometimes it may happen
  • C.
    We do so more often
  • D.
    We have (had) many of those discussions
• 5.
  5. When my spouse or I give each other feedback, if often feels like we're criticizing each other

  • A.
    No, not at all
  • B.
    Sometimes it may feel that way
  • C.
    Yes, quite often it does
  • D.
    Yes, it definitely feels like critique
• 6.
  6. When my spouse or I see that a problem could arise, we generally tend to tell each other what the other should do to prevent it, rather than taking action ourselves

  • A.
    No, not at all
  • B.
    Sometimes we may do so
  • C.
    That's us quite often
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 7.
  7. In our marriage, we have high highs and low lows

  • A.
    No, not at all
  • B.
    Sometimes we do
  • C.
    We do so more often
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 8.
  8. My spouse or I have struggled with the ways we've changed since getting married

  • A.
    No, not at all
  • B.
    There have been situations like that
  • C.
    It's been like that on many occasions
  • D.
    Yes, the struggle is real
• 9.
  9. In our marriage, when my spouse or I express ourselves too harshly, we typically apologize.

  • A.
    Nope, that's not us
  • B.
    It may happen, but in general that's not our style
  • C.
    Sometimes we do
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 10.
  10. In our marriage, my spouse and I encourage each other to share feedback

  • A.
    No, we don't really
  • B.
    Occasionally we might
  • C.
    We do more often
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 11.
  11. In our marriage, having different opinions can lead to difficulties between my spouse and I

  • A.
    No, not at all
  • B.
    It happens
  • C.
    Quite often, yes
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 12.
  12. When I notice my spouse procrastinating on certain promises they made, I ask them how I can help

  • A.
    No, not at all
  • B.
    Maybe it's happened before, but not regularly
  • C.
    I do so more often than not
  • D.
    Yes, that's me
• 13.
  13. When my spouse and I have 'the hard' conversations, we have a hard time seeking to understand each other

  • A.
    No, not at all
  • B.
    Occasionally it might happen
  • C.
    It happens more often
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 14.
  14. My spouse or I typically are not that receptive when we share our view on how the other can do a better job

  • A.
    No, that's not us at all
  • B.
    Sometimes we are not
  • C.
    We're not that receptive at all
  • D.
    Yes, that's us
• 15.
  15. I feel that I can freely and openly share my deepest feelings and desires to my spouse, knowing that they won't be used against me

  • A.
    No, I can't do that at all
  • B.
    Occasionally I may not
  • C.
    I feel like I often can't
  • D.
    Yes, that's me

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Keep The Fire Alive

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• 2.
  1 Safe Communication

  In reading through this answer, please do keep in mind that it's based on a limited number of questions and standard answers.Therefore this answer may represent a skewed answer.That being said, it does seem that you are living in a good marriage and you sure have all the ingredients to make it a great one.Growing it into a great marriage, based on your answers in this quiz, we would recommend your spouse and you focus on 'communicating safely'.Instilling emotonial safety in the way you and your spouse communicate will lift your intimacy to new levels of high
• 3.
  2 Celebrate Differences

  In reading through this answer, please do keep in mind that it's based on a limited number of questions and standard answers.Therefore this answer may represent a skewed answer.That being said, it does seem that you are living in a good marriage and you sure have all the ingredients to make it a great one.Growing it into a great marriage, based on your answers in this quiz, we would recommend your spouse and you focus on 'celebrating differences'.
• 4.
  3 Leadership

  In reading through this answer, please do keep in mind that it's based on a limited number of questions and standard answers.Therefore this answer may represent a skewed answer.That being said, it does seem that you are living in a good marriage and you sure have all the ingredients to make it a great one.Growing it into a great marriage, based on your answers in this quiz, we would recommend your spouse and you focus on 'leadership'.
• 5.
  4 Crisis Management

  In reading through this answer, please do keep in mind that it's based on a limited number of questions and standard answers.Therefore this answer may represent a skewed answer.That being said, it does seem that you are living in a good marriage and you sure have all the ingredients to make it a great one.Growing it into a great marriage, based on your answers in this quiz, we would recommend your spouse and you focus on 'crisis management'.
• 6.
  5 Sharing is caring

  In reading through this answer, please do keep in mind that it's based on a limited number of questions and standard answers.Therefore this answer may represent a skewed answer.That being said, it does seem that you are living in a good marriage and you sure have all the ingredients to make it a great one.Growing it into a great marriage, based on your answers in this quiz, we would recommend your spouse and you focus on 'feedback'.