Single & stuck? Get your personalized Dating Diagnosis for a serious relationship.

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Which of these best describes your current relationship status?

  • A.
    Single, never been married
  • B.
    Single and divorced
  • C.
    In a relationship, not married
  • D.
    Married
  • E.
    Widowed
• 2.
  And which one of these describes YOU? 

  • A.
    I'm a single professional focused on my career. Time is passing me by and I'd love to be in a relationship
  • B.
    I was in a long-term relationship or marriage and know I need to get back out there but I'm not sure where to start
  • C.
    I'm in a long-term relationship or marriage but don't feel fulfilled or supported and would love to change this
  • D.
    I have a habit of getting into unhealthy relationships and want to stop this pattern but have no idea how to do this
• 3.
  Which of these inner dating monologues sound familiar to you? 

  • A.
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    I don't know what I'm doing so what's the point?
  • B.
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    What if he just isn't the right fit for me?
  • C.
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    I just want to be loved. Is that so bad?
  • D.
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    If I fix it or step up, maybe he’ll value me even more
• 4.
  Which of these phrases most closely describes your approach to relationships?

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  • A.
    I always put everyone else's needs before my own
  • B.
    I question everything and approach with extreme caution
  • C.
    I convince myself that it's all completely pointless
  • D.
    I feel responsible for other people’s emotional stability and happiness
• 5.
  Which of the following would be the most helpful to you? 

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  • A.
    Knowing how to stop procrastinating and take purposeful action
  • B.
    Being shown how to sometimes put myself before everyone else
  • C.
    Having the courage to put myself out there regardless of the outcome
  • D.
    To stop feeling like I have to fix everything and be the problem solver in my relationships
• 6.
  What question do you ask yourself most? 

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  • A.
    Why am I always attracted to people who need my help?
  • B.
    Why do I feel so vulnerable when it comes to dating?
  • C.
    Why am I always overcompensating for my shortcomings?
  • D.
    Why do I look for hidden meaning instead of taking action?
• 7.
  Which of the following is holding you back from breaking the ‘single & stuck’ cycle? 

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  • A.
    I’m just not sure what I want. I say one thing and then I get the opposite
  • B.
    Online dating isn’t my thing but I’m too busy or too tired to do anything else
  • C.
    I’m scared of going outside my comfort zone. It’s scary putting yourself out there
  • D.
    Nobody ticks all the boxes on my checklist or meets my standards
  • E.
    I’ve tried everything already and nothing is working
• 8.
  Which movie title best describes your dating experience so far? You don’t have to have the happy ending yet… 

  • A.
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    Clueless - no idea what I’m doing and I’ve followed all the advice I’ve been given but it hasn’t worked
  • B.
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    Love Jones - I can't stop thinking about my Ex and not sure anyone else can live up to that
  • C.
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    Fast and Furious - I’ve had so many dates but none of them ever go anywhere so I’ve given up
  • D.
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    27 Dresses - I’m always helping others but never seem to get my happy ending. I’m destined to be on my own.
• 9.
  You're in a relationship and things are going well. Your tendency is to feel…

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  • A.
    Despondent. I really hope this works out because I don’t want to have to tell everyone what went wrong
  • B.
    Undeserving. Honestly I’m not sure why he'd like me enough to stay with me
  • C.
    Fearful. Things never work out for me so why should this be any different
  • D.
    Insignificant. If I keep agreeing with everything he says he'll stay with me
• 10.
  Which patterns do you notice when you look back at past relationships? 

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  • A.
    I run away at the first sign of commitment as I don't want to get hurt again
  • B.
    I always put a man's needs before my own as I want to be valued
  • C.
    I never find men who are my equals so I end up supporting them
  • D.
    I seem to pick the 'bad boys' because they're exciting but it never lasts
  • E.
    I've never dated for more than a few months so don't have a pattern
• 11.
  If you could crack the code to finding love in a happy and healthy relationship, what would that look like to you?

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  • A.
    Having a partner that supports me and champions me
  • B.
    Being in a relationship that fulfills me and helps me to build a legacy
  • C.
    Feeling like I matter and am somebody's main priority
  • D.
    The jackpot combination of a great career and great relationship
  • E.
    All of the above

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The Avoider
• 2.
  The Fixer
• 3.
  The Nurturer
• 4.
  The Overthinker