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You're logical, organized, and practical. Part of the romance of a wedding for you is delighting in the details.Your perfect wedding is carefully planned. You love making lists, creating and sticking to a budget, and narrowing down your perfect playlist.Because you absolutely love to plan, you may taste 20 different kinds of cake until you decide on that perfect morsel. Or try on 30 shades of lipstick 'til you discover your gorgeous hue. Which is cool, because the planning process gives you joy!Your great listening skills help your partner to feel like you've taken all of their needs into account.You're like the Marie Kondo of brides...putting together all the details is an act of love.Your natural intelligence and care for others means that you will have thought of everything you need to make the day a success. All of this care pays off, because to you...quality is everything.Wedding styles that are classic, clean, down to earth, and elegant put you at ease.Here are some tips to feel confident and serene on your big dayโฆAlthough you really enjoy the planning process, try to let go of the tendency to want everything to be perfect. Remember to enjoy, relax, and savor.Let your quirky side express itself, so that you feel like every part of you is being expressed through this masterpiece that you have so carefully planned."One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love." โ Sophocles๐๐A PIECE OF CAKE๐๐Here Are the 3 Tools You Need to Savor Your Big Day1. Stay in the attitude of gratitudeMany brides get the jitters when it comes to planning their wedding. There are almost always more details than you anticipate. Family members who have different ideas and expectations may rock the boat. Last minute changes to your venue or dress can be nerve-wracking.A great way to keep your stress in check before your wedding is to start a gratitude practice.Every day, write down ten things about your relationship that you're grateful for in a gratitude journal.Before going to bed, you and your fiance can read your gratitude journals to each other.2. Ask for what you needBrides often think they have to do everything themselves, even when they have a wedding planner.But a wedding is a rite of passage traditionally witnessed by a whole community. So gather your community. Ask your friends and loved ones for their help and support. The next time someone asks you "can I help you with anything?" Really think about what you need.If you're feeling stuck, here are some things you can ask for:๐ Style advice. If you're picking between a few options, have a few friends on call that you send photos to on the fly. They'll love being involved!๐ A massage. If your shoulders are tensing up with all the big details, tell your people you need a massage and you might be surprised by how many gift cards show up in your inbox (or mailbox, if your friends are oldschool like that).๐ Planning help. You do not have to do all the planning alone. If planning isn't your thing, find the person that you absolutely trust that you can also delegate to. Tell them exactly how you need help.As a bride, it's extremely important to let yourself receive. It's a time to be lavished with love. Ask for what you need, and then allow yourself to fully receive the gifts of support.3. Take breaks with your honeyAs the wedding approaches, it may seem like all anyone can talk about is wedding details.Once a week, take a wedding break with your fiance. Resolve to do an activity that you love to do together that has nothing to do with wedding planning.One of the best ways you can reset together is get out into nature. Breathe in fresh air, let trees ground you, and get lost together for a while.Want more ideas? Check out this blog post for 10 ways to recharge with your beloved before the big day.Dream a little dream with me...Hey there, blushing bride! I'm Michelle Putnam, Wedding Planner extraordinaire, lover of design, travel, luxury candles, pilates and proud mom of 2.With a background in Hotel Sales & Events, I help couples tie the knot with a style and elegance. My superpower is finding ways to incorporate little unexpected details that make your wedding truly unforgettable. My wedding planning skills have been called "an absolute godsend" by newlyweds, Kathy & BobI believe that every relationship is unique. Every wedding is a chance to showcase your love and passion with the world. It's an honor to help you create a wedding that absolutely lights you up. So that you can relax and enjoy your big day... and savor these memories for the rest of your life. ๐๏ธ๐ Let's Chat ๐๐๏ธ๐**Need help planning your wedding? Schedule a ConsultationWhatever your wedding style, I'll help you get clear on exactly what you need to walk down the aisle feeling calm, confident, and fancy-free. A Match Made in HeavenNow that we're connected, check your email for your quiz results.You'll be hearing from me over the next few days with the first 3 things to-do before you start planning a wedding.Thanks for getting to know your bridal style, beautiful! Understanding what kind of wedding you truly want sets you up for the celebration of a lifetime.โค๏ธ Here's to the happy couple! โค๏ธ