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You’re Purpose is to... Use Your Strength to Support Others
You don’t really need to (or want to) take center stage and be in the limelight. You shine when you are there to offer support, a listening ear, and a helping hand. Whether at work or home, you are the office mom, the active member of the PTA, and can always be counted on to be there and help others get through. You don’t need showy titles, special roles, or projects to be in charge of. It’s enough that you show up for everyone on your team. You're reliable, dependable approach naturally soothes conflicts.You are a team player, and you know how to make arguing individuals see the value in another’s perspective. Peace is the name of your game. You foster patience and empathy, and you have no problem pushing your ego aside to get the job done. Here’s the thing though, your sensitivity might sometimes become a little self-destructive. You tend to take criticism to heart…even if it’s minor. So make sure you acknowledge your inherent worth. “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” – Helen Keller3 Quick tips to help you find your life’s true direction...1. Get Clear on Your Current CircumstancesIt’s hard to see a path forward without knowing where you stand. If you have spent hours sorting out what you want, what you love, and how to be yourself, you are not alone. It’s normal to feel frozen by all the choices out there. But when this happens, you’ve got to take action…if you don’t you willingly turn over your power. Instead, try turning inwards and taking inventory of your current experiences. What is lifting you up? What is weighing you down? Why haven’t you taken the necessary steps towards your dream future? Once you are clear on where you are currently, where you want to be, and what’s stopped you thus far, carving out a clear path becomes as simple as 1, 2, 3. And taking the steps becomes a reflex. 2. Investigate Your Limiting BeliefsSometimes it’s the smallest things that hold you back most—this isn’t to suggest that beliefs are something to turn your nose up at. Beliefs are your driving force, rooted in your old stories. And yet they are so often overlooked. Why? Well, it’s hard to objectively examine something you’ve always understood as a fundamental truth. Maybe no one has ever encouraged you to turn your gaze inward and examine the thoughts that underlie your actions & inaction. I want to be that person. Because I’m willing to bet your beliefs have everything to do with your current circumstances. Limiting beliefs- a state of mind or belief that you think to be true that limits you in some way. Could be a belief about you. Ex. I’m not good with technology., your interactions with people, or with the world and how it works. 3. Take Small Steps Towards Your GoalOnce you’ve gained a bit of clarity about your life’s purpose, it’s time to set some mini goals to help you get there. Think of things you can take immediate action on that will move you towards your goals. If your goal is to find a fulfilling job, make a commitment to check sites like Indeed on a consistent basis (pick the frequency and then stick to it). If you are looking to get involved or make connections, explore your desired community for opportunities to say yes. Setting Yourself bite-sized action-oriented tasks will give you a sense of achievement and build your confidence so when it’s time and big opportunities flow in, you’ll be ready! Wait a minute – let me introduce myself...Hey there, I’m Pam Godbois 👋 I’m a Life Coach who specializes in helping mamas find their true path, the path that will light them up and help them answer the question- ‘now what?’ after major life and role changes. (Like when your littles go off to school, graduate, move out, or have babies of their own). After 2 decades as a therapist helping women move through the obstacles that were keeping them stuck, and my own brush with an unfulfilling life, I have shifted gears to help moms like you find the path that aligns your inner being, with your true purpose. Maybe you’re thinking, I'm not ready, or, what do I have to offer? Maybe you have tried to lean into your true purpose but you keep getting hung up with thoughts like I don't even know where to begin... Whatever your roadblock, I pinkie promise 🤙, I can help you move beyond it, and step into the life you desire!Extra resources to help you attract all that aligns with your life’s purpose...1. Check out my Podcast- The Out of Your Mind Podcast - Posted weekly, you’ll find episodes that reach, inspire and shift perspective. With some great interviews and solo episodes. Whatever your life conundrum, maybe I’ve got you covered. 2. Follow me on Tiktok & Instagram to stay up on what we are teaching both on the platform and in our regular workshops and training. You won’t find me doing any fun dances, but you will find me challenging your thinking on the regular. Jump in at any point for life-transforming tips!3. If you are ready for the next steps to expand into a version of you that is aligned with your greatest purpose, check out my self-paced 30-Day program ALIGNED. And learn the practices to remove the roadblocks that are standing in your way of success. So that you can take big brave steps into your next chapter!P.S. Expect to see me in your inbox sharing all my favorite life-transforming tips!