DO YOU HAVE HOLY BOUNDARIES?

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Quiz Questions

1.
Someone unknown to you places a hand on your shoulder unexpectedly from behind and you find it unsettling. You...
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  Don't want to make a big deal about it so you swallow your discomfort and don't adjust your body. Definitely don't want to make the other person feel bad!
- B.
  Start thinking a lot about what might be wrong with you...why does this small thing bother you so much?
- C.
  Begin to feel the emotion arise slowly from the chest into the throat. Maybe it's anger, annoyance...or some sadness but it's difficult to tell. Best to keep it to yourself.
- D.
  You feel off both in the physical touch but also the energy of it. You send the energetic message that you want space and wait for the stranger to get the message.
- E.
  Immediately sidestep in a way that releases the touch and sends a clear message that unexpected touch from a stranger is not welcome. You feel strong in your choice and know that clarity is kindness.
- F.
  Feel your body tense and a trauma response begin - a freeze occurs. But you shrug it off as your problem...this person is certainly nice enough.
2.
You suddenly realize you have a deadline at work that you have forgotten! Time to...
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- A.
  Get really anxious and feel the adrenaline rise in your body. Time to get a double espresso and cancel all fun plans for the evening!
- B.
  Start berating yourself for procrastinating yet again! How could you be so lazy/forgetful/_____ (enter the word you most often call yourself when you've made a mistake)
- C.
  Start crying immediately to release some of the pressure. Then maybe grab something sweet or text your partner looking for some support to clear your head so you can get back to work.
- D.
  Begin to wonder if your boss or coworkers dislike you. Does the office feel off today? Are you a good fit here? Suddenly one mistake means maybe this isn't the place for you.
- E.
  Take a deep breath and get clear on the situation. How long will the misplaced item take? Then readjust the calendar to allocate time for the task. If necessary, sending the humble email clearly stating the task will require 'X' amount of more time and offer a reasonable new timeline. No need to stress... we are all human!
- F.
  Begin frantically clearing your space and focusing on all the accumulated clutter. You can't possibly think until the desk is clear, then the office... then you might need a walk to calm down before getting to work.
3.
You are meeting a very new friend for tea at a place of their choosing. During the conversation you...
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- A.
  Find yourself asking a lot of questions and inviting them to talk about themselves. You get really curious about them but realize afterward that you didn't really share as much about yourself.
- B.
  Feel so relieved to have someone holding space for you that you share some vulnerable stories. You find yourself misty eyed and sharing details that are very personal, but you feel so connected.
- C.
  Feel into the energy of the scenario, noticing the flow in the conversation - is it effortless or crunchy? Hmmm, having difficulty saying... Do you like the place they've chosen to meet with you? Something feels uncomfortable but you can't say what...
- D.
  Pay attention to their body cues. Do they seem relaxed around you? How can you adjust your body to make them feel more comfortable, you wonder.
- E.
  Are noticing if the exchange feels equal. You share stories and feelings but also want to take your time with this person before diving too deep. They are new and your time and energy are very valuable.
- F.
  You make several shifts in your calendar to meet this persona at the place of their choosing even though you already know you don't enjoy tea...but hey thats what good friends do!
4.
You are at a party when suddenly the hair rises on the back of your neck and you know someone is staring at you... In response you:
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  Start to worry that there might be something out of place...is there toilet paper stuck to your shoe? Did you sit in something?
- B.
  You sense the person and the energy feels familiar. Does it feel safe, kind...or intrusive? It's hard to tell.
- C.
  Feel a bit anxious or excited - it's difficult to decipher which. You just suddenly feel! Your heart races a bit, your palms might be getting a little sweaty... time to turn around and see who it is!
- D.
  Immediately turn around to see who is sending energy and attention your way. No need to question yourself or consider your actions, something feels intrusive.
- E.
  Run your hand through your hair and give a little flirty shake just in case they are attractive.
- F.
  Turn and make eye contact. You know them and find their reputation unattractive, but smile anyway as they walk in your direction. It never hurts to be nice.
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You've made plans for some much needed self care & solitude this evening - when a casual friend texts that she could use some listening time after a hard day. You:
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  Drop your plans and invite her over... who needs alone time anyway?
- B.
  Get into a back and forth mentally about what to do...should you? Shouldn't you? Finally resentful, you tell her you aren't available tonight...but instead of enjoying your evening, you now feel agitated and not present.
- C.
  Immediately step into empathy and begin to take on the feelings of your friend. What does she need? How can I support? Does she need to cry?
- D.
  You can sense your friend is in need and imagine maybe you both are experiencing similar things... that is why she chose you! It's okay to cancel plans with self anyway...no one else will know.
- E.
  Text back sharing that you have some important self care tonight and you really care about her. Is she available tomorrow for lunch? You trust that both of you can do self care and respect each other's process.
- F.
  Invite her over to do the same self foot massage rituals with you... but instead of quiet shared self care as you had hoped, you end up rubbing her feet and giving her the attention you had been craving for yourself.
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Your partner (or housemate) has started taking over a larger portion of the shared space with clutter that you find distracting...
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  You obsess over the items in your mind, constantly getting distracted by them and finding yourself agitated. You plan different strategies for solving the situation but never execute them.
- B.
  You get really angry...inside. And then really sad that they don't see what an impact their actions are causing. Then you go into quiet cold shoulder mode... if they can't figure it out, it's not your problem to solve!
- C.
  You feel so influenced by their clutter that you find yourself getting more cluttered as well. Like attracts like and if you can't beat 'em, you have to join them, right?
- D.
  You notice you are being negatively impacted and decide to request a house meeting to discuss the subject and find a solution that meets your need for clear spaces.
- E.
  You physically gather all the items in a basket and leave them in their closet. Again and again and again.
- F.
  You notice your vitality getting more and more drained when you are home... so you begin working at coffee shops and making more plans away to compensate.
7.
After some avoidance, you set aside time to get your financial life and goals on paper. You put the date in your calendar...it is today! During this scheduled commitment, you:
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  Suddenly lose all energy and momentum. This subject is not high vibe enough... so you skip your date with yourself and watch Good Witch on Netflix instead.
- B.
  Feel numb inside. It feels way too overwhelming to consider all this information...makes you want to cry in frustration (but you can't cry because you feel frozen). So you grab some ice cream and start scrolling IG to settle yourself.
- C.
  Get a bit nauseous and your foot starts tapping nervously. You suddenly realize you don't have the papers you need...this was a silly task anyway. It's all gonna work out!
- D.
  Catch yourself calling yourself names like idiot as you try to wrangle all the paperwork.
- E.
  You celebrate making this date with yourself by having some good music, candles and yummy snacks while doing this really important task.
- F.
  You knew this date was coming for weeks but put off every effort to prepare physically. So now you spend the allotted time gathering documents, printing email receipts...oops time for dinner! Guess the actual project will wait til next time...whenever that is.
8.
You just experienced a really painful break up and you know you need time to heal and find your responsibility in the situation. So you:
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  Make plans every weekend night to go out to the bar and get wasted... no need to feel ALL the feelings!
- B.
  Get all dolled up and get your tush back in the game asap...snag the first available person and proceed to re-live the last relationship because you didn't take responsibility for your own baggage. And apparently you need to learn the lesson yet again!
- C.
  Decide it was either all your fault...or all their fault! There is no way you both had a role in this mess!
- D.
  Order a big shipment of snacks online and face care products off Instagram and prepare for a long year of staying in pajamas and avoiding social activities. Suffering is the only solution.
- E.
  Have a few good long cries. Then make some intimate plans with close friends. Journal. Maybe invest in some therapy or working with a healer. This is time for YOU right now.
- F.
  Hop immediately on all the dating apps...sex will help. It doesn't matter who.
9.
Someone insists a task is your responsibility when you did not give consent. You:
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  Want the person to like you, so you enthusiastically take on the chore. But it doesn't seem to improve the relationship.
- B.
  Get overheated in your response and express inappropriate anger followed by remorse...and end up doing the task later in shame.
- C.
  Don't do the task and begin looking for ways to make your lack of compliance the reasonable choice.
- D.
  You calmly answer "I disagree. If you would like to ask for my assistance or negotiate a new agreement I am available for that conversation."
- E.
  Say yes but begin fantasizing about ways you would have responded if you were braver/bolder/prepared etc.
- F.
  Begin to disagree but become uncomfortable in the physical proximity of the person and their growing agitation...so you acquiesce. It won't take long anyway, so why fight?

Quiz Outcomes

1.
PHYSICAL BOUNDARIES
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Your Holy Boundaries Quiz Result:You could benefit from clearer, stronger Physical Boundaries!Physical Boundaries are made up of so many things....Our BodyOur EnvironmentOur SpaceOur PossessionsPhysical boundaries seem like the easiest to understand, right? This is my body and that is not my body...Yet, external physical boundaries get crossed often and women can so easily talk themselves out of the feelings that arise when a boundary is crossed.Some of the things I've heard from clients over the years...Maybe he didn't mean to touch me as he walked past?Maybe I am overreacting or being too much?They need me to be there physically, even if I am tired or working.My husband needs sex...it doesn't matter if I'm not in the mood.I don't want to make a big deal about it.I don't want to be a bitch.Maybe I gave mixed signals and its my fault?All of these examples have been given during sessions in which we were exploring physical boundaries and the discomfort each woman was feeling in her body after a boundary had been crossed.It is like a silent, pervasive illness in our culture - most women are so uncomfortable owning their bodies for fear of being judged or shamed that they will gaslight themselves instead in order to feel safe and like they belong.Physical boundaries are the bare bones of a Holy Boundary practice. The body is where boundaries begin.Luckily, within Physical Holy Boundaries we also find our pleasure and JOY!When a woman owns her Holy Boundaries,When she becomes the Queen of her Yes and No...Everything changes!To investigate your Physical Holy Boundaries, consider the following journal prompts and see what arises within you....How do you enjoy being touched by a lover? A friend? A co-worker? Your family?Do you truly believe your body is your own and that you have the right to always say no without explanation?Review a time in the past when you think your physical boundaries were crossed - how did you respond? What does your body need to feel safe?After exploring these questions...what arose within you?Did you find some sticky or uncomfortable feelings?It's totally ok if so!That's what Liberation work is all about...Finding the incongruity within us, feeling the feelings and letting all that shit go so we can move forward feeling empowered, alive and in full ownership of our MAGIC as women!If feeling your joy and magic is not an easy thing to do, I got you.That is why I built theWYLD FEMPYRE.It is a place for women who are healing themselves to gather together and explore self intimacy, Holy Boundaries™, Initiations, Liberation, Intuition and all things magnetic...AND we play in the realm of Divination with Tarot and Great Mystery!The FEMPYRE is for all the women in this world who know in our bones we are Priestesses in the guise of homemakers and employees.We are magical creatures AND mothers.Witchy women AND seductive lovers.Resourceful, wealthy AND instinctually intuitive.This is my vision of "having it all"...as in having all the parts of my womanhood - and NOT pretending to be a man like I did for so long when I was a single mother.It ALL begins with Holy Boundaries™Here is some gentle guidance to further explore and expand into your Holy Boundaries...1. Bring awareness to your body and her Yes and No with some added sensuality practices! When Physical Boundaries are missing, we lose connection with both our integrity AND our pleasure. So consider adding connection rituals into your week and enJOY having a body with boundaries! Some suggestions for this are body oiling, using Wyld's Magic Pussy Butter as an adornment and ritual, dancing sensually for yourself in the mirror, getting a massage, asking your lover to touch you in a specific way or soaking in a hot spring or bath. Really listen to your body during these activities and get curious about what truly lights you up physically!2. Choose to own your boundaries and needs for being grounded and for owning your physical space. Having boundaries around your time and space can be challenging when we are learning about our physical boundaries. Remember that your No is just as needed as your Yes! Even if you are socially oriented, we all need to have spaciousness to reorganize ourselves and remain peaceful within. If BOUNDARIES are a place of discomfort for you... consider joining my 28 day Holy Boundaries Email Challenge below! ~ Better Boundaries in one Moon cycle guaranteed ~(or your money back!)3. Give some attention to your physical surroundings and relationships and confirm they are supporting your wellbeing. Often we ignore the red flags because we don't want to be "too much" or "high maintenance". This is your permission slip to be too much and high maintenance! You deserve surroundings and relationships that respect your best interests and boundaries... and only you can tell if you are being respected! Pay attention to those small feelings inside, track how those closest to you cause a response in your physical body. You get to choose who and what gets the privilege of your attention!🔥 Welcome to the Wyld Fempyre 🔥I am Wyld Lee, The Feral Oracle, Priestess, Creatrix and the heART behind Wyld Fempyre. My Soul Mission is to burn down our collective programming and conditioning one woman at a time by embracing the magnetic and guiding others to remember and own their magic. My message is simple: Unravel your own domestication and you will rebirth yourself.Life suddenly transforms when we fully return to our power, our essence and our sovereignty.My body of work includes intimate individual healing packages, group programs and containers, The Transformation Map and my signature Rebirth Initiation coaching packages.I would be honoured to support you in your liberation process!Looking for support in unraveling your domestication? Ready to be wyld once again?Begin your personal liberation journey here...1. Book an introductory Tarot Truth Transmission to begin working together. Use code HOLY to receive 20% off your initial session!2. Join my FREE private WYLD FEMPYRE Facebook Group and stay connected! Also on Instagram @wyldfempyre3. Join my signature Holy Boundaries™ 28 Day Email Challenge! An email a day for one Moon Cycle that includes a deep yet easy to digest lesson, journal prompt, Altar Map and more. 15 minutes a day for one moonth and you too could have Holy Boundaries (or you can get a full refund). Seriously...I want EVERY woman to have this knowledge risk free so we can actually begin healing together!Be sure to check your inbox for a love note from me soon... adding me to your safe list guarantees we won't miss connecting!I'm so delighted to share sacred space with you here in the Wyld FempyreLet's undo our domestication...together.
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MENTAL BOUNDARIES
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Your Holy Boundaries Quiz Result:You could benefit from clearer, stronger Mental Boundaries!Mental Boundaries are made up of so many things....Our ThoughtsOur MindsetOur Self TalkOur Beliefs and ExpectationsMental boundaries can seem challenging to understand, right? How do we create Holy boundaries within ourselves?Yet mental boundaries get crossed often and are imperative for creating a life that feels juicy, joyful and on purpose.Some of the things I've heard from clients over the years...I'm so stupid for doing X,Y,Z.I'm sorry (even when they did nothing wrong)I couldn't say that - it's not my place.I made my bed, now I have to lie in it.I married him - now I don't have a choice.They will never change so I guess there's nothing I can do.All of these examples have been given during sessions in which we were exploring boundaries and the discomfort each woman was feeling around a boundary that had been crossed.It is like a silent, pervasive illness in our culture - most women are so uncomfortable owning their Holy Boundaries for fear of being judged or shamed that they will gaslight themselves instead in order to feel safe and like they belong.Mental boundaries are one of the bones of a Holy Boundary practice. The mind is where many boundaries begin.Luckily, within Mental Holy Boundaries we also find our pleasure and JOY!When a woman owns her Holy Boundaries,When she becomes the Queen of her Yes and No...Everything changes!To investigate your Mental Holy Boundaries, consider the following journal prompts and see what arises within you....What is one Mental Boundary you see that could use some improvement?How do you regularly speak to yourself?What is one area of your life where you have given away your power mentally? (Or is there someone/something that you regularly blame for your dissatisfaction?)How would you like your mental landscape to feel?After exploring these questions...what arose within you?Did you find some sticky or uncomfortable feelings?It's totally ok if so!That's what Liberation work is all about...Finding the incongruity within us, feeling the feelings and letting all that shit go so we can move forward feeling empowered, alive and in full ownership of our MAGIC as women!If feeling your joy and magic is not an easy thing to do, I got you.That is why I built theWYLD FEMPYRE.It is a place for women who are healing themselves to gather together and explore self intimacy, Holy Boundaries™, Initiations, Liberation, Intuition and all things magnetic...AND we play in the realm of Divination with Tarot and Great Mystery!The FEMPYRE is for all the women in this world who know in our bones we are Priestesses in the guise of homemakers and employees.We are magical creatures AND mothers.Witchy women AND seductive lovers.Resourceful, wealthy AND instinctually intuitive.This is my vision of "having it all"...as in having all the parts of my womanhood - and NOT pretending to be a man like I did for so long when I was a single mother.It ALL begins with Holy Boundaries™Here is some gentle guidance to further explore and expand into your Holy Boundaries...1. Bring awareness to your body and her Yes and No with some added sensuality practices! When Mental Boundaries are missing, we lose connection with both our integrity AND our pleasure while we spin out in our head. So consider adding some body reconnection rituals into your week and enJOY having a body with boundaries! Some suggestions for this are body oiling, using Wyld's Magic Pussy Butter as an adornment and ritual, dancing sensually for yourself in the mirror, getting a massage, asking your lover to touch you in a specific way or soaking in a hot spring or bath. Really listen to your body during these activities and get curious about what truly lights you up with pleasure!2. Choose to own your boundaries and needs for being grounded and for owning your mental space. Having boundaries around your time and headspace can be challenging when we are learning about our mental boundaries. Remember that your No is just as needed as your Yes! Even if you are socially oriented, we all need to have spaciousness to reorganize our minds and remain peaceful within. If BOUNDARIES are a place of discomfort for you... consider joining my 28 day Holy Boundaries Email Challenge below! ~ Better Boundaries in one Moon cycle guaranteed ~(or your money back!)3. Give some attention to your recurring thoughts and self talk and confirm they are supporting your wellbeing. Often we ignore the negative mind trips because we have been trained to think that negativity equals being responsible, down to earth or humble and not selfish. This is your permission slip to make your inner expereince a top priority in your life! You deserve peaceful thoughts and affirming self talk that respects your best interests and boundaries... and only you can tell if you are being respectful to yourself! Pay attention to those small feelings inside, track how those thoughts cause a response in your physical body. You get to choose what thought gets the privilege of your attention!🔥 Welcome to the Wyld Fempyre 🔥I am Wyld Lee, The Feral Oracle, Priestess, Creatrix and the heART behind Wyld Fempyre. My Soul Mission is to burn down our collective programming and conditioning one woman at a time by embracing the magnetic and guiding others to remember and own their magic. My message is simple: Unravel your own domestication and you will rebirth yourself.Life suddenly transforms when we fully return to our power, our essence and our sovereignty.My body of work includes intimate individual healing packages, group programs and containers, The Transformation Map and my signature Rebirth Initiation coaching packages.I would be honoured to support you in your liberation process!Looking for support in unraveling your domestication? Ready to be wyld once again?Begin your personal liberation journey here...1. Book an introductory Tarot Truth Transmission to begin working together. Use code HOLY to receive 20% off your initial session!2. Join my FREE private WYLD FEMPYRE Facebook Group and stay connected! Also on Instagram @wyldfempyre3. Join my signature Holy Boundaries™ 28 Day Email Challenge! An email a day for one Moon Cycle that includes a deep yet easy to digest lesson, journal prompt, Altar Map and more. 15 minutes a day for one moonth and you too could have Holy Boundaries (or you can get a full refund). Seriously... I want EVERY woman to have this knowledge risk free so we can actually begin healing together!Be sure to check your inbox for a love note from me soon... adding me to your safe list guarantees we won't miss connecting!I'm so delighted to share sacred space with you here in the Wyld Fempyre Let's undo our domestication...together.
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EMOTIONAL BOUNDARIES
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Your Holy Boundaries Quiz Result:You could benefit from clearer, stronger Emotional Boundaries!Emotional Boundaries are made up of so many things....Our FeelingsOur ReactionsOur ResponsesOur Boundaries around how many emotions from others we are willing to take in/take onEmotional Boundaries can feel difficult to understand, right? Feelings seem so messy and illogical.Yet, Emotional Boundaries get crossed often and women can so easily talk themselves out of the feelings that arise when a boundary is crossed... or worse, get so disconnected from their suppressed feelings that they have to explode each moonth when PMS arrives so some of the pressure releases. Or these feelings get stored in the body until perimenopause insists on letting that anger flow along with powerful hot flashes!Some of the things I've heard from clients over the years...Maybe he didn't mean what he said...I'm just going to let it go.Maybe I am overreacting or being too much?They need me to be there emotionally, even if I am tired or working.My husband needs to blow off steam...it doesn't matter if it hurt my feelings.I don't want to make a big deal about it.I don't want to be a bitch about it.Maybe I its my fault?All of these examples have been given during sessions in which we were exploring boundaries and the discomfort each woman was feeling in her body after a boundary had been crossed.It is like a silent, pervasive illness in our culture - most women are so uncomfortable owning their boundaries for fear of being judged or shamed that they will gaslight themselves instead in order to feel safe and like they belong.Emotional boundaries are one of the bones of a Holy Boundary practice. The heART is where many boundaries begin.Luckily, within Emotional Holy Boundaries we also find our pleasure and JOY!When a woman owns her Holy Boundaries,When she becomes the Queen of her Yes and No...Everything changes!To investigate your Emotional Holy Boundaries, consider the following journal prompts and see what arises within you....Do you actively give yourself permission to feel all your feelings? Even the "ugly" or "mean" ones like anger, disappointment, grief... (even glee and joy can be hard to access if we are suppressing our energy flow!)Often we have one emotion that we have decided is part of our personality and is our go to anytime we get triggered. Most often it is either hot anger or deep sadness if we are suppressing our full range of experience. What is your "easiest" emotional expression?Do you feel emotionally held in your closest relationships? If not, what feels like it's missing?After exploring these questions...what arose within you?Did you find some sticky or uncomfortable feelings?It's totally ok if so!That's what Liberation work is all about...Finding the incongruity within us, feeling the feelings and letting all that shit go so we can move forward feeling empowered, alive and in full ownership of our MAGIC as women!If feeling your joy and magic is not an easy thing to do, I got you.That is why I built theWYLD FEMPYRE.It is a place for women who are healing themselves to gather together and explore self intimacy, Holy Boundaries™, Initiations, Liberation, Intuition and all things magnetic...AND we play in the realm of Divination with Tarot and Great Mystery!The FEMPYRE is for all the women in this world who know in our bones we are Priestesses in the guise of homemakers and employees.We are magical creatures AND mothers.Witchy women AND seductive lovers.Resourceful, wealthy AND instinctually intuitive.This is my vision of "having it all"...as in having all the parts of my womanhood - and NOT pretending to be a man like I did for so long when I was a single mother.It ALL begins with Holy Boundaries™Here is some gentle guidance to further explore and expand into your Holy Boundaries...1. Bring awareness to your body, your feelings and your Yes and No with some added sensuality practices! When Emotional Boundaries are missing, we lose connection with both our integrity AND our pleasure. So consider adding body connection rituals into your week and enJOY having a body with feelings and boundaries! Some suggestions for this are body oiling, using Wyld's Magic Pussy Butter as an adornment and ritual, dancing sensually for yourself in the mirror, getting a massage, asking your lover to touch you in a specific way or soaking in a hot spring or bath. Really listen to your body during these activities and get curious about what truly lights you up physically AND emotionally!2. Choose to own your boundaries and needs for being grounded and for owning your emotional space. Having boundaries around your time and space can be challenging when we are learning about our emotional boundaries. Remember that your No is just as needed as your Yes! Even if you are socially oriented, we all need to have spaciousness to reorganize ourselves around our feelings so we can remain peaceful within. If BOUNDARIES are a place of discomfort for you... consider joining my 28 day Holy Boundaries Email Challenge below! ~ Better Boundaries in one Moon cycle guaranteed ~(or your money back!)3. Give some attention to your emotions and relationships and confirm they are supporting your wellbeing. Often we ignore the feelings because we don't want to be "too much" or "high maintenance". This is your permission slip to be too much and high maintenance! You deserve surroundings and relationships that respect your best interests and boundaries... and only you can tell if you are being respected! Pay attention to those small feelings inside, track how those closest to you cause a response within you. You get to choose who and what gets the privilege of your attention!🔥 Welcome to the Wyld Fempyre 🔥I am Wyld Lee, The Feral Oracle, Priestess, Creatrix and the heART behind Wyld Fempyre My Soul Mission is to burn down our collective programming and conditioning one woman at a time by embracing the magnetic and guiding others to remember and own their magic. My message is simple: Unravel your own domestication and you will rebirth yourself.Life suddenly transforms when we fully return to our power, our essence and our sovereignty.My body of work includes intimate individual healing packages, group programs and containers, The Transformation Map and my signature Rebirth Initiation coaching packages.I would be honoured to support you in your liberation process!Looking for support in unraveling your domestication? Ready to be wyld once again?Begin your personal liberation journey here...1. Book an introductory Tarot Truth Transmission to begin working together. Use code HOLY to receive 20% off your initial session!2. Join my FREE private WYLD FEMPYRE Facebook Group and stay connected! Also on Instagram @wyldfempyre3. Join my signature Holy Boundaries™ 28 Day Email Challenge! An email a day for one Moon Cycle that includes a deep yet easy to digest lesson, journal prompt, Altar Map and more. 15 minutes a day for one moonth and you too could have Holy Boundaries (or you can get a full refund). Seriously...I want EVERY woman to have this knowledge risk free so we can actually begin healing together!Be sure to check your inbox for a love note from me soon... adding me to your safe list guarantees we won't miss connecting!I'm so delighted to share sacred space with you here in the Wyld FempyreLet's undo our domestication...together.
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ENERGETIC BOUNDARIES
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Your Holy Boundaries Quiz Result:You could benefit from clearer, stronger Energetic Boundaries!Energetic Boundaries are made up of so many things....Our EnergyOur VitalityOur SpaceOur SovereigntyEnergetic Boundaries can seem difficult to understand, right? You can't "see" your energy, so how do we create boundaries around it?Yet, energetic boundaries get crossed often and women can so easily talk themselves out of the feelings that arise when a boundary is crossed.Some of the things I've heard from clients over the years...I feel so drained after spending time with X.Maybe I am overreacting or being too much?They need me to be there, even if I am tired or working.My husband needs sex...it doesn't matter if I'm not in the mood.I don't want to make a big deal about it.I don't want to be a bitch.Maybe its my fault because I said yes even though I don't want to?All of these examples have been given during sessions in which we were exploring boundaries and the discomfort each woman was feeling after recognizing a boundary had been crossed.It is like a silent, pervasive illness in our culture - most women are so uncomfortable owning their boundaries for fear of being judged or shamed that they will gaslight themselves instead in order to feel safe and like they belong.Energetic Boundaries allow us to be our authentic selves without feeling beholden to the energy of a room, group, or experience.Energetic Boundaries are one of the bones of a Holy Boundary practice. The Energy Body is where many boundaries begin.Luckily, within Energetic Holy Boundaries we also find our pleasure and JOY!When a woman owns her Holy Boundaries,When she becomes the Queen of her Yes and No...Everything changes!To investigate your Energetic Holy Boundaries, consider the following journal prompts and see what arises within you....How do you enjoy rejuvenating your energy when depleted?Do you truly believe your energy is your own and that you have the right to always say no without explanation?Review a time in the past when you think your energetic boundaries were crossed - how did you respond? What does your energetic body need to feel safe? Space? Alone time? Quiet?After exploring these questions...what arose within you?Did you find some sticky or uncomfortable feelings?It's totally ok if so!That's what Liberation work is all about...Finding the incongruity within us, feeling the feelings and letting all that shit go so we can move forward feeling empowered, alive and in full ownership of our MAGIC as women!If feeling your joy and magic is not an easy thing to do, I got you.That is why I built theWYLD FEMPYRE.It is a place for women who are healing themselves to gather together and explore self intimacy, Holy Boundaries™, Initiations, Liberation, Intuition and all things magnetic...AND we play in the realm of Divination with Tarot and Great Mystery!The FEMPYRE is for all the women in this world who know in our bones we are Priestesses in the guise of homemakers and employees.We are magical creatures AND mothers.Witchy women AND seductive lovers.Resourceful, wealthy AND instinctually intuitive.This is my vision of "having it all"...as in having all the parts of my womanhood - and NOT pretending to be a man like I did for so long when I was a single mother.It ALL begins with Holy Boundaries™Here is some gentle guidance to further explore and expand into your Holy Boundaries...1. Bring awareness to your energy body and her Yes and No with some added sensuality practices! When Energetic Boundaries are missing, we lose connection with both our integrity AND our pleasure. So consider adding self connection rituals into your week and enJOY having a body with energetic boundaries! Some suggestions for this are body oiling, using Wyld's Magic Pussy Butter as an adornment and ritual, dancing sensually for yourself in the mirror, getting a massage, asking your lover to touch you in a specific way or soaking in a hot spring or bath. Really listen to yourself during these activities and get curious about what truly lights you up energetically!2. Choose to own your boundaries and needs for being grounded and for owning your energetic space. Having boundaries around your time and space can be challenging when we are learning about our energetic boundaries. Remember that your No is just as needed as your Yes! Even if you are socially oriented, we all need to have spaciousness to reorganize our energy and remain peaceful within. If BOUNDARIES are a place of discomfort for you... consider joining my 28 day Holy Boundaries Email Challenge below! ~ Better Boundaries in one Moon cycle guaranteed ~(or your money back!)3. Give some attention to your vitality, energy body and relationships and confirm they are supporting your wellbeing. Often we ignore the red flags because we don't want to be "too much" or "high maintenance". This is your permission slip to be too much and high maintenance! You deserve your vitality and relationships that respect your best interests and boundaries... and only you can tell if you are being respected! Pay attention to those small feelings inside, track how those closest to you cause a response in your energy. You get to choose who and what gets the privilege of your attention!🔥 Welcome to the Wyld Fempyre 🔥I am Wyld Lee, The Feral Oracle, Priestess, Creatrix and the heART behind Wyld Fempyre. My Soul Mission is to burn down our collective programming and conditioning one woman at a time by embracing the magnetic and guiding others to remember and own their magic. My message is simple: Unravel your own domestication and you will rebirth yourself.Life suddenly transforms when we fully return to our power, our essence and our sovereignty.My body of work includes intimate individual healing packages, group programs and containers, The Transformation Map and my signature Rebirth Initiation coaching packages.I would be honoured to support you in your liberation process!Looking for support in unraveling your domestication? Ready to be wyld once again?Begin your personal liberation journey here...1. Book an introductory Tarot Truth Transmission to begin working together. Use code HOLY to receive 20% off your initial session!2. Join my FREE private WYLD FEMPYRE Facebook Group and stay connected! Also on Instagram @wyldfempyre3. Join my signature Holy Boundaries™ 28 Day Email Challenge! An email a day for one Moon Cycle that includes a deep yet easy to digest lesson, journal prompt, Altar Map and more. 15 minutes a day for one moonth and you too could have Holy Boundaries (or you can get a full refund). Seriously...I want EVERY woman to have this knowledge risk free so we can actually begin healing together!Be sure to check your inbox for a love note from me soon... adding me to your safe list guarantees we won't miss connecting!I'm so delighted to share sacred space with you here in the Wyld FempyreLet's undo our domestication...together.
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INNER BOUNDARIES
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Your Holy Boundaries Quiz Result:You could benefit from clearer, stronger Inner Boundaries!Inner Boundaries are made up of so many things....Our Agreements with ourselvesOur Discipline and StructureOur HabitsOur Self CareInner boundaries seem easy enough to understand, right? The difficulty occurs because there is no one holding us accountable...Our Inner Boundaries get crossed often and women can so easily talk themselves out of the feelings that arise when an Inner boundary is crossed because it is so painful to see how we betray ourselves.Some of the things I've heard from clients over the years...I canceled my plans because X needed me.I know I need to exercise but there just isn't time.I want to eat better, but first I have to be a mom.I know I said I was doing my homework on my finances in between sessions, but more important things came up.I can always come back to what I want after I help out.I'll take care of myself after the kids move out.All of these examples have been given during sessions in which we were exploring Inner boundaries and the discomfort each woman was feeling after recognizing a boundary had been crossed.It is like a silent, pervasive illness in our culture - most women are so uncomfortable owning their boundaries for fear of being judged or shamed that they will gaslight themselves instead in order to feel safe and like they belong... or in the case of Inner Boundaries - we gaslight ourselves to avoid feeling the pain of self betrayal.Inner Boundaries are one of the bones of a Holy Boundary practice. Our habits are where many boundaries begin.Luckily, within Inner Holy Boundaries we also find our pleasure and JOY!When a woman owns her Holy Boundaries,When she becomes the Queen of her Yes and No...Everything changes!To investigate your Inner Holy Boundaries, consider the following journal prompts and see what arises within you....Descriptively write one memory, where you clearly betrayed yourself and your Inner Boundaries. Notice what sensations and feelings arise in your body and write them down.Now reread that memory and let the impact of that experience fully register in your system. Give yourself time to let it process and allow the feelings to flow, whether they be anger or tears, or another sensation.What might you do in this moment to make repairs for this self-betrayal? How can you make it right with yourself?Can you see the ripples of this particular self-betrayal reflected in your current life experience?Now take a few moments to rewrite the story of this past self-betrayal. How would a new, Holy version of yourself handle this experience?After exploring these questions...what arose within you?Did you find some sticky or uncomfortable feelings?It's totally ok if so!That's what Liberation work is all about...Finding the incongruity within us, feeling the feelings and letting all that shit go so we can move forward feeling empowered, alive and in full ownership of our MAGIC as women!If feeling your joy and magic is not an easy thing to do, I got you.That is why I built theWYLD FEMPYRE.It is a place for women who are healing themselves to gather together and explore self intimacy, Holy Boundaries™, Initiations, Liberation, Intuition and all things magnetic...AND we play in the realm of Divination with Tarot and Great Mystery!The FEMPYRE is for all the women in this world who know in our bones we are Priestesses in the guise of homemakers and employees.We are magical creatures AND mothers.Witchy women AND seductive lovers.Resourceful, wealthy AND instinctually intuitive.This is my vision of "having it all"...as in having all the parts of my womanhood - and NOT pretending to be a man like I did for so long when I was a single mother.It ALL begins with Holy Boundaries™Here is some gentle guidance to further explore and expand into your Holy Boundaries...1. Bring awareness to your needs and her Yes and No with some added sensuality practices! When Inner Boundaries are missing, we lose connection with both our integrity AND our pleasure. So consider adding connection rituals into your week and enJOY having a body with boundaries! Some suggestions for this are body oiling, using Wyld's Magic Pussy Butter as an adornment and ritual, dancing sensually for yourself in the mirror, getting a massage, asking your lover to touch you in a specific way or soaking in a hot spring or bath. Really listen to your body during these activities and get curious about what habits truly light you up!2. Choose to own your Inner boundaries and needs and space. Having boundaries around your time and space can be challenging when we are learning about our Inner boundaries. Remember that your No is just as needed as your Yes! Even if you are socially oriented, we all need to have spaciousness to reorganize ourselves and our habits while also remaining peaceful within. If BOUNDARIES are a place of discomfort for you... consider joining my 28 day Holy Boundaries Email Challenge below! ~ Better Boundaries in one Moon cycle guaranteed ~(or your money back!)3. Give some attention to your physical surroundings and relationships and confirm they are supporting your wellbeing. Often we ignore the external red flags because we don't want to be "too much" or "high maintenance". This is your permission slip to be too much and high maintenance! You deserve surroundings and relationships that respect your best interests and boundaries... and only you can tell if you are being respected! Pay attention to those small feelings inside, track how those closest to you cause a response in your physical body or impact your commitment to your Inner Boundaries. You get to choose who and what gets the privilege of your attention!🔥 Welcome to the Wyld Fempyre 🔥I am Wyld Lee, The Feral Oracle, Priestess, Creatrix and the heART behind Wyld Fempyre. My Soul Mission is to burn down our collective programming and conditioning one woman at a time by embracing the magnetic and guiding others to remember and own their magic. My message is simple: Unravel your own domestication and you will rebirth yourself.Life suddenly transforms when we fully return to our power, our essence and our sovereignty.My body of work includes intimate individual healing packages, group programs and containers, The Transformation Map and my signature Rebirth Initiation coaching packages.I would be honoured to support you in your liberation process!Looking for support in unraveling your domestication? Ready to be wyld once again?Begin your personal liberation journey here...1. Book an introductory Tarot Truth Transmission to begin working together. Use code HOLY to receive 20% off your initial session!2. Join my private FREE WYLD FEMPYRE Facebook Group and stay connected! Also on Instagram @wyldfempyre3. Join my signature Holy Boundaries™ 28 Day Email Challenge! An email a day for one Moon Cycle that includes a deep yet easy to digest lesson, journal prompt, Altar Map and more. 15 minutes a day for one moonth and you too could have Holy Boundaries (or you can get a full refund). Seriously...I want EVERY woman to have this knowledge risk free so we can actually begin healing together!Be sure to check your inbox for a love note from me soon... adding me to your safe list guarantees we won't miss connecting!I'm so delighted to share sacred space with you here in the Wyld FempyreLet's undo our domestication...together.
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HOLY BOUNDARIES!
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Your Holy Boundaries Quiz Result:Amazing! You already have a working knowledge of Boundaries...time to call in your Holy Boundaries!Holy Boundaries are made up of so many things....Our BodyOur MindOur FeelingsOur EnergyOur Time and SpaceYou knew the right answers to choose... yet you still took this quiz!Why?Perhaps while you "know" what to do, you are having difficulty implementing consistent Holy Boundaries in your daily life.Maybe you have been on your healing journey for a bit...you have the lingo but your outer world isn't yet reflecting your inner process.Maybe you live in a place where Holy Boundaries aren't fully respected and you need a commUNITY of like minded women to be supported by on your continued healing journey.Some of the things I've heard from clients over the years...I love my husband/partner. I'm afraid if I really speak my truth our relationship will suffer.Maybe I am overreacting or being too much?They don't even understand what healing means.I don't want to make a big deal about it.I don't want to be a bitch.Maybe I can just change for myself and hide the new parts of myself if its too uncomfortable for my friends and family.All of these examples have been given during sessions in which we were exploring boundaries and the discomfort each woman was feeling after recognizing a boundary had been crossed.It is like a silent, pervasive illness in our culture - most women are so uncomfortable owning their boundaries for fear of being judged or shamed that they will gaslight themselves instead in order to feel safe and like they belong...or worse hide the amazing changes they've made for fear of losing relationships or stability.Holy Boundaries means getting fucking honest with ourselves, honoring what we discover and then sharing our truth with our people in loving ways.Luckily, within Holy Boundaries we also find our pleasure and JOY alongside the discomfort of changing!When a woman owns her Holy Boundaries,When she becomes the Queen of her Yes and No...Everything changes!To investigate your Holy Boundaries, consider the following journal prompts and see what arises within you....Is honesty a value that you find important?Can you ever remember a time when you were dishonest to another? How did that feel mind/body/heart and soul?Can you remember a time that you were dishonest with yourself?What were the repercussions of being dishonest?Can you remember a time when being honest was very uncomfortable?What were the good and bad consequences of your honesty?Do you hold fear around being honest?After exploring these questions...what arose within you?Did you find some sticky or uncomfortable feelings?It's totally ok if so!That's what Liberation work is all about...Finding the incongruity within us, feeling the feelings and letting all that shit go so we can move forward feeling empowered, alive and in full ownership of our MAGIC as women!If feeling your joy and magic is not an easy thing to do, I got you.That is why I built theWYLD FEMPYRE.It is a place for women who are healing themselves to gather together and explore self intimacy, Holy Boundaries™, Initiations, Liberation, Intuition and all things magnetic...AND we get to play in the realm of Divination with Tarot and Great Mystery!The FEMPYRE is for all the women in this world who know in our bones we are Priestesses in the guise of homemakers and employees.We are magical creatures AND mothers.Witchy women AND seductive lovers.Resourceful, wealthy AND instinctually intuitive.This is my vision of "having it all"...as in having all the parts of my womanhood - and NOT pretending to be a man like I did for so long when I was a single mother.It ALL begins with Holy Boundaries™Here is some gentle guidance to further explore and expand into your Holy Boundaries...1. Bring awareness to your body and her Yes and No with some added sensuality practices! When Holy Boundaries are missing, we lose connection with both our integrity AND our pleasure. So consider adding connection rituals into your week and enJOY having a body with boundaries! Some suggestions for this are body oiling, using Wyld's Magic Pussy Butter as an adornment and ritual, dancing sensually for yourself in the mirror, getting a massage, asking your lover to touch you in a specific way or soaking in a hot spring or bath. Really listen to your body during these activities and get curious about what truly lights you up physically!2. Choose to own your boundaries and needs for being grounded and for owning your time and space. Having boundaries around your time and space can be challenging when we are learning about our Holy Boundaries. Remember that your No is just as needed as your Yes! Even if you are socially oriented, we all need to have spaciousness to reorganize our minds and remain peaceful within. If BOUNDARIES are a place of discomfort for you... consider joining my 28 day Holy Boundaries Email Challenge below! ~ Better Boundaries in one Moon cycle guaranteed ~(or your money back!)3. Give some attention to your physical surroundings and relationships and confirm they are supporting your wellbeing. Often we ignore the things that bother us because we don't want to be "too much" or "high maintenance". This is your permission slip to be too much and high maintenance! You deserve surroundings and relationships that respect your best interests and boundaries... and only you can tell if you are being respected! Pay attention to those small feelings inside, track how those closest to you cause a response in your physical body. You get to choose who and what gets the privilege of your attention!🔥 Welcome to the Wyld Fempyre 🔥I am Wyld Lee, The Feral Oracle, Priestess, Creatrix and the heART behind Wyld Fempyre. My Soul Mission is to burn down our collective programming and conditioning one woman at a time by embracing the magnetic and guiding others to remember and own their magic. My message is simple: Unravel your own domestication and you will rebirth yourself.Life suddenly transforms when we fully return to our power, our essence and our sovereignty.My body of work includes intimate individual healing packages, group programs and containers, The Transformation Map and my signature Rebirth Initiation coaching packages.I would be honoured to support you in your liberation process!Looking for support in unraveling your domestication? Ready to be wyld once again?Begin your personal liberation journey here...1. Book an introductory Tarot Truth Transmission to begin working together. Use code HOLY to receive 20% off your initial session!2. Join my FREE private WYLD FEMPYRE Facebook Group and stay connected! Also on Instagram @wyldfempyre3. Join my signature Holy Boundaries™ 28 Day Email Challenge! An email a day for one Moon Cycle that includes a deep yet easy to digest lesson, journal prompt, Altar Map and more. 15 minutes a day for one moonth and you too could have Holy Boundaries (or you can get a full refund). Seriously...I want EVERY woman to have this knowledge risk free so we can actually begin healing together!Be sure to check your inbox for a love note from me soon... adding me to your safe list guarantees we won't miss connecting!I'm so delighted to share sacred space with you here in the Wyld Fempyre Let's undo our domestication...together.

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