What Identity is Shaping your Reality?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When something in my life goes wrong, my first instinct is...

  • A.
    I try to understand it and fix it.
  • B.
    I manage it quietly so no one notices it's not working.
  • C.
     I let it happen, because fighting it isn't the truer move right now.
  • D.
    I feel swept up in it, with no real say in the outcome yet.
• 2.
   Strip away every role, mother, partner, daughter, professional, what's left?

  • A.
    Honestly, I'm not fully sure yet, and I'm letting that be true. (Collapsed)
  • B.
     Whoever's needed in the room, that's who shows up. (Curator)
  • C.
     I could describe her in detail, she just doesn't get to lead very often. (Captive)
  • D.
     Still me, I show up the same whether anyone's watching or not. (Coherent)
• 3.
   The work I get paid for, right now feels...

  • A.
    Like a true expression of who I am (Coherent)
  • B.
    Crazy busy, I've not stopped for years (Curator)
  • C.
    In question, I'm not sure what my next step is. (Collapsed)
  • D.
    Fulfilling, but I'm not makinhitting a ceiling financially. (Captive)
• 4.
  What feels most true about your relationship with money?

  • A.
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    Money no longer decides what’s possible for me.
  • B.
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    I’ve worked on my blocks, yet I keep hitting the same ceiling.
  • C.
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    I'm beyond caring at this point
  • D.
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    Life will feel better when I finally have enough.
• 5.
  When you think about your future, what feels most true?

  • A.
    I’m fixing all the problems in my life.
  • B.
    I hope things change.
  • C.
    I’m letting go of everything that no longer feels true.
  • D.
    I'm excited for life to keep giving to me.
• 6.
  How are you really feeling right now?

  • A.
    Functioning. Keeping it together. Quietly wondering why none of my life feels right
  • B.
    Self-aware. I've read the books, done the therapy, can name the patterns, but I'm still not living the life I desire.
  • C.
    Clearer than I've ever been. Building from the inside out. Something real is finally taking shape.
  • D.
    Honestly, completely lost
• 7.
  What feels most true about love?

  • A.
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    I understand my patterns, my wounds and my attachment style… yet love still feels hard.
  • B.
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     Love no longer feels like something I have to work at.
  • C.
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     Everything I thought I knew about love is changing.
  • D.
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     Love is hard work
• 8.
  You create big changes in your life...

  • A.
    When I hit a crisis
  • B.
    When I gain other peoples insight
  • C.
    When I'm not quite ready but I want it
  • D.
    By taking conscious action on my desires
• 9.
  What feels most true in your relationships?

  • A.
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    I tend to manage and lead most of my relationships.
  • B.
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    I’ve learned that I can love people without losing myself.
  • C.
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    I’m tired of being the one who always does the work.
  • D.
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    I’m questioning relationships I never thought I’d question.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Curator
• 2.
  Captive
• 3.
  Collapsed
• 4.
  Coherent