Discover your Parenting Avatar and Success Roadmap

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  What’s your number one parenting struggle?

  • A.
    I’ve read all the books, watched all the videos, and listened to all the podcasts, yet I feel like I keep missing the script because my kids are running the show and I really want to parent respectfully.
  • B.
    I try really hard to be patient, but I always end up overreacting, feeling guilty about it, and giving in.
  • C.
    My main struggle is that I want my kids to listen and be respectful, but no consequence works to get them to behave.
• 2.
  You give your child a 5-minute warning to finish with their electronics. Once the 5 minutes are over, your child ignores the instruction and keeps watching their iPad. How would you typically respond to this?

  • A.
    I’d start going through my list of parenting tips I learned from books and social media. If it doesn’t work, I feel really defeated.
  • B.
    I’d repeat the instructions and explain the reasons why time is over. If they still ignore me, I’d get angry and probably yell. Then, I’d feel like the worst parent and probably give in to more iPad time.
  • C.
    I’d just take the iPad from their hands and not allow them to use it for the rest of the day, but then I’d feel sad that my child might end up fearing me because I used physical force to get them to follow directions.
• 3.
  What’s the first thought you have whenever you see your child displaying their worst behavior?

  • A.
    I’m so confused. I don’t know what I’m missing or doing wrong.
  • B.
    I’m out of tools!
  • C.
    Why can’t they just listen or stop?
• 4.
  What role does frustration play in your parenting?

  • A.
    I feel frustrated with myself because it doesn’t matter how much I try or how many parenting videos I watch, I can’t get respectful parenting to work for my children.
  • B.
    My frustration is more that it looks like it’s too much to handle. I try hard to be patience but I usually end up running away from my frustration and check out.
  • C.
    I’m frustrated because everything is a battle in my home, and I feel I’m becoming that mean parent I promised myself my children would never have.
• 5.
  When it comes to parenting, what is one thing that you wish you had?

  • A.
    I wish I had effective, personalized guidance, so I stop relying on one-size-fits-all advice that isn’t working for my family.
  • B.
    I wish I had productive parenting tools and the support of a professional to keep me accountable and help me follow through with my plan.
  • C.
    I wish I had the roadmap to get my children to listen without constantly yelling or giving them consequences.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Your Parenting Avatar Is: THE STUDENT. Read Your Success Roadmap Below

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  Your strengths: You’re committed not to repeat the same cycle of bad parenting you grew up in, so you enjoy researching and reading about child development. This makes you stand out from other parents who may handle tantrums, defiance, and whining with traditional parenting methods, like spanking, yelling, threatening, etc.People usually admire you for your patient and loving nature. You may often hear, “I wish I were like you,” or “I wish I were as patient as you.”What keeps you stuck: You’re extremely judgmental of yourself. You may think, “With all the things I know, I shouldn’t be struggling with my parenting the way I do.” Your fear of screwing up your children paralyzes you when you need to set clear limits. They feel it and keep pushing boundaries because they don’t know where those clear limits are. Your parenting success roadmap, 2 important things that’ll get you out of your cycle:1. You’re a great parent! Please repeat that truth every time you can. Your children don’t need a perfect parent, they need the committed parent you already are. 2. Stop relying on books and social media. The problem with relying on general parenting advice from books, podcasts, and social media is that they don’t take nuances into account; it’s mostly genericThese self-paced, general resources don’t know your children’s temperament and sibling relationships, how much support / lack of support you have from your spouse, or your lifestyle and family dynamic. General parenting resources opened your eyes to the possibility of becoming a respectful parent, but they won’t take you any further. Your next step is to access personalized help from professional parenting coaches who have the training, experience, and commitment to learn about you and your family, so you can work together to make an individualized plan to be successful in your parenting.HIC Parenting Education is a parenting coaching agency that’s helped over 10,000 parents bridge the gap from, “I’ve tried it all and nothing works”, to confidently parenting their kids with help from assigned, certified, parenting coaches who hold their hand every step of the way. We’d like to offer you the opportunity to apply and book a FREE CALL with HIC Parenting’s Admission Advisors, so we get to know your particular struggles and desires at a deeper level. And, if we’re a good fit for each other, we’ll offer you the personalized support you need from your HIC Parenting coach in the Parenting With Understanding™ Program. We’ll guide you away from trying everything, but nothing working, to doing exactly what you and your children need to have a peaceful and fun home environment. Click the link below to apply for a FREE call
• 2.
  Your Parenting Avatar Is: THE JUGGLER. Read Your Success Roadmap Below

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  Your strengths: You’re pretty awesome! You’re a busy parent who often juggles multiple things. You’re a multi-tasker and thrive with predictability and routine. You feel confident in your parenting, as long as you manage to keep all the balls in the air, like getting to school / work on time, having a decent bedtime, children eating the dinner you made, children listening and playing peacefully, etc.. What keeps you stuck: You get extremely anxious when the juggler in you starts dropping balls. Maybe it’s the third time you tell your child to stop jumping on the couch or maybe you’re already out of possible meal options and your child keeps refusing to eat dinner. You try to pick up the balls and keep juggling, but after so much effort, you feel defeated and lose control of yourself, dropping all the balls by yelling or checking out. Your parenting success roadmap, 2 important things that will get you out of your cycle:1. Your need to juggle through your parenting comes from your need to control. This need of having everything under control took you down the path of inconsistent responses in your parenting. 2. Sometimes, you’re loving and responsive, but when you feel out of control, you do things that you soon regret.The way to get out of this cycle is to release the need for control by healing your inner child, who feels scared when things are out of control, and to learn how to work cooperatively with your children. It’s possible that you’re already implementing things that provide some autonomy to your children, and that’s great! The problem with doing great things with a controlling mindset is that your children will still feel that your choices and 5 minute warnings are controlling. Parenting tools without parental inner work aren't effective!Tik Toks, reels, and podcasts can only take you so far, but healing and breaking generational cycles takes more than reading about it. It takes deep work that requires the guidance of qualified professionals, who have the training and experience to help you break your cycle. HIC Parenting Education is a parenting coaching agency that has helped 10,000 parents bridge the gap from, “I’ve tried it all and nothing works” to confidently parenting their children with the help of assigned, certified, parenting coaches who hold their hand every step of the way. We want to offer you the opportunity to apply and book a FREE CALL with HIC Parenting’s Admission Advisors, so we get to know your particular struggles and desires at a deeper level. And, if we’re a good fit for each other, to offer you the personalized support you need from your HIC parenting coach in The Parenting With Understanding™ Program. We’ll guide you away from trying everything, but nothing working, to doing exactly what you and your children need to have a peaceful and fun home environment.Click the link below to apply for a FREE call
• 3.
  Your Parenting Avatar Is: THE RULER. Read Your Success Roadmap Below

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  Your strengths: You value structure and routine. This is great because children thrive with these systems in place!You’re driven and have a very clear vision of how you want your family to be. You hold high expectations for yourself and your children, and want them to succeed in every area of their lives. What keeps you stuck: You struggle with flexibility and often feel overwhelmed, maybe even enraged, when your children don’t follow through. You try to teach them lessons and apply consequences, testing to see if they’ll finally listen. While behaviors may improve during a punishment, the defiance, tantrums, and disobedience soon returns.Your parenting success roadmap, 2 important things that will get you out of your cycle: 1. Your lack of flexibility comes from your need to control .The need of having everything under control took you down the path of yelling and punishment. Now, you feel as if your children won’t listen unless you yell and punish them. 2. The way to get out of this cycle is by releasing the need for control by healing your inner child, who feels scared when things are out of control, and learning to work cooperatively with your children without compromising your limits. It’s possible that you’re already implementing things that provide some autonomy to your children, and that is great! The problem with doing great things with a controlling mindset is that your children will still feel like your choices and 5 minute warnings are controlling. Parenting tools without parental inner work aren't effective!Tik Toks, reels, and podcasts can only take you so far, but breaking generational cycles and restructuring your family dynamic takes more than reading about it. It takes deep work that requires the guidance of qualified professionals, who have the training and experience to help you.HIC Parenting Education is a parenting coaching agency that has helped 10,000 parents bridge the gap from, “I’ve tried it all and nothing works” to confidently parenting their children with the help of assigned, certified, parenting coaches who hold their hand every step of the way. We want to offer you the opportunity to apply to book a FREE CALL with HIC Parenting’s Admission Advisors, so we get to know your particular struggles and desires at a deeper level. And, if we’re a good fit for each other, to offer you the personalized support you need from your HIC parenting coach in The Parenting With Understanding™ Program. We’ll guide you away from trying everything, but nothing working, to doing exactly what you and your children need to have a peaceful and fun home environment.Click the link below to apply for a FREE call