WHICH INNER GIRL ARE YOU?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When thinking about your credit card debt, are you

  • A.
    Hoping it will go away, maybe even secretly wishing an anonymous benefactor will just take care of it
  • B.
    Sticking with your current card interest rate and fee structure even though you know you can get a better deal, you don’t want to rock the boat
  • C.
    Feel ashamed and berating yourself for having debt in the first place, you shouldn’t have been so stupid to get in this situation
  • D.
    Grateful that you got it under control when you did, and have strategies in place to manage your money.
• 2.
  What kind of person are you in a coffee shop queue?

  • A.
    You’re mentally occupied judging yourself for standing too close/too far away/ worried about your body odour etc
  • B.
    Having a laugh with the person behind you and creating a genuine connection, or wondering what's the most delicious way you can treat yourself
  • C.
    You let several people in front of you even though you’re in a hurry because they look more important than you
  • D.
    You don’t say anything when someone pushes in front of you as even though you’re pretty sure, you question whether maybe they were here first
• 3.
  What animal do you identify with?

  • A.
    Dog – obedient, puts owners needs ahead of their own
  • B.
    Cat – people might not see it but there's a lot of negative noise in your head
  • C.
    Mouse – hiding away hoping no-one notices you
  • D.
    Unicorn – majestic as f*ck and proud of it
• 4.
  Your birthday is coming up – how do you celebrate it?

  • A.
    Wait for someone else to organise something, no need to make a fuss
  • B.
    Something quiet, means you don't have to handle the attention/expressions of love
  • C.
    By doing what feels good to celebrate you, whatever that is this year – with who you want
  • D.
    Organise a group dinner at a venue that suits everyone invited, they all should be comfortable
• 5.
  You’re wearing a new outfit and a stranger gives you a compliment on how good you look. Do you

  • A.
    Accept the compliment and offer gratitude for their generosity in saying something kind
  • B.
    Bat the compliment away, you know you still look too “insert typical internal insult here”
  • C.
    Immediately compliment the other person so that you’re the one who is being kind
  • D.
    Talk about the shop/clothing brand to deflect away from your own contribution
• 6.
  Someone bumps into you when they weren’t looking where they were going. Do you 

  • A.
    Apologize to them for being there, even though they’re at fault
  • B.
    Feel annoyed at yourself for not anticipating you should have got out of the way
  • C.
    Scurry out of the way and don’t give them a chance to apologise even though you deserve it
  • D.
    Find a way to make light of the situation and move on
• 7.
  What’s your most typical holiday scenario?

  • A.
    Bali – it’s cheap so that’ll do even though you’d prefer Port Douglas
  • B.
    Camping and fishing – or whatever makes the partner (and kids) happy as that’s what’s important
  • C.
    Whichever destination is due to be ticked off the bucket list!
  • D.
    Wherever I choose is going to be rubbish because I always choose the wrong destination, my holidays never look as good as other people's

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  LITTLE GIRL

  Hello to you and your tender little heart. We see you, and the little girl inside you who is probably calling more of your shots than you realise. Who is this Little Girl you ask?She is the voice in your head keeping you small. She’s the one waiting for the charming prince perhaps? She’s looking for the adults to take responsibility because she was never empowered to take it herself. The little girl is keeping you safe - this is important to know! She is a defense mechanism that your inner self has created to keep you out of harms way. By driving you to shirk the hard decisions and conversations, you’re avoiding conflict, right? She keeps you comfortable. Which, until now, has been a good thing.BUTDoing this quiz tells me that you’re looking for more. You feel the deep rumble within telling you it’s time to find your voice, your self-responsibilty and your power. And that’s what I’m here for. That's what the Midlife Rebel movement is all about. Discovering and launching your hell yeah self and embracing the force you know is within you.Little Girls who have participated in my Midlife Rebel coaching program have reported feelings of empowerment and accountability. These women have unlocked the courage to try new things and launch into lifelong dreams. And they feel like they have their shit together. Because they do. Click the button below to get started!
• 2.
  GOOD GIRL

  Hello there to you Ms Good Girl! You’re the delightful people pleaser keeping everyone around you happy and comfortable, right? Has that come at a cost though? Can you feel the growing discomfort and frustration you feel at how unsatisfied YOU are, while you’re exhausted from keeping everyone else happy? Feeling a bit invisible? Has it been so long since you tried asking for what you needed, that you’re not even sure what that is anymore?Girl, it’s time for change. It’s time to discover your inner rebel. We don’t mean flipping off the police and setting fire to trash cans kind of rebel, We mean flipping off other peoples needs coming first and setting fire to your subservient ways. Time to embrace what YOU need (and ironically, this authenticity actually makes life better for everyone around you. True story!)Good Girls who sign up to my Midlife Rebel coaching program have reported feeling empowered, energised and motivated in whole new ways. Is it time?Click the button below to get started!
• 3.
  MEAN GIRL

  Howdy Mean Bean. Hello to you and *that* voice😔Now, we’re sure you’re not mean on the outside. In fact, you’re probably absolutely adorable! But we see you. We know how mean you are to yourself on the inside. We know how hyper-critical and uncompromising you are towards yourself. We know how achingly dreary and depressing it is to only hear that voice telling you that you’re not good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, worthy enough. The thing about that inner mean girl (the one that developed so early in your life that you probably don’t remember any different) is that she tells lies. She creates an inner dialogue of distress to keep you small. To keep you from being courageous and authentic. She’s the opposite of intuition and she can’t be trusted. Ouch.She can be silenced though. She can learn to redirect the small mean thoughts into empowering, supportive energy. She can harness that unhelpful dialogue and transform it into self belief. Self compassion. Self love. Imagine life without that voice dumping on you.Mean Girls who have participated in my Midlife Rebel coaching program have reported new dizzying feelings and inner-dialogue that has them feeling (and being!) courageous, bold, curious and loving. Anything can be possible when we’re not occupied with hating ourselves. Click the button below to get started!
• 4.
  REBEL

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  HELLO REBEL, YOU ARE ON FIRE! You’re kicking ass and we’re so proud of you. You’re a leader. A bright light. Are you wanting to shine brighter or unlock new ways to lead yourself and other women into the Rebel way of being? There is still so much to uncover in being a Midlife Rebel and so much you can achieve. Let's chat if you’d like to explore more of how you can continue elevating and bringing other women with you. Remember, as women, when we climb, we lift others with us. It lifts us all. Go you good thing. We need you as a model to show other women - up and coming Rebels of all ages - what is truly possible. Want even more? Click the button below to get started!