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Your Style is... Executor
Preface: I’m excited to share your Leadership Personality Wheel results with you. This framework grew out of more than a decade of coaching leaders across industries, continents, and cultures — and watching thousands of people realize, often for the first time, that there is nothing “wrong” with the way they are wired. In fact, their natural way of moving through the world is their leadership advantage.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from training over 10,000 leaders from 56+ countries is this: we don’t see the world as it is — we see it as we are. We assume others think like us, communicate like us, make decisions like us, and care about the same things we do. Sometimes they do. Often, they don’t. And when they don’t, we typically conclude that something is off — with them or with us.
You’ve probably experienced this at some point:
Someone rubbed you the wrong way, not because they lacked competence or character, but because their natural style clashed with yours. Or maybe you were the one who felt out of place — the round peg trying to squeeze into a square hole — and you wondered whether you were the problem.
Let me assure you: you are not the problem.
You are simply you — shaped by your experiences, culture, personality, upbringing, values, strengths, and yes, even your quirks. Every leader sees through a different lens. And those differences, when understood and valued, are exactly what make teams unstoppable.
Yet most of us were taught a simplified version of empathy: “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” A lovely sentiment — but incomplete. It assumes everyone wants the same things, communicates the same way, or thrives under the same conditions. After years of coaching leaders around the world, I’ve learned a better principle:
Don’t treat others the way you want to be treated. Treat them the way they want to be treated.
That requires awareness — of yourself and of others. It requires understanding that some people like to start meetings with warm conversation, and others want to jump straight to the agenda. Some need time to process before deciding; others decide on instinct. Some crave harmony; others crave momentum. Some want data; others want vision.
The Leadership Personality Wheel helps you recognize these patterns — in yourself and in the people around you — so you can lead with more empathy, nuance, and precision. Most people have a primary personality type and a secondary one. A rare few are true “unicorns” who move flexibly between all five, adjusting seamlessly to what a moment requires.
As you explore your type, you will learn:
• what energizes you
• what drains you
• where you naturally excel
• where friction shows up
• how to adapt in environments that differ from your style
• how to collaborate with people who operate very differently
You’ll also learn how to build and lead teams where differences aren’t just tolerated — they’re leveraged. And you’ll discover that when you stop trying to be good at everything, and instead lead from your strengths, your clarity, confidence, and impact grow exponentially.
I hope this guide supports you in becoming a more effective leader — and in building teams that thrive because of the rich mix of personalities within them. If you’d like to explore training or leadership development for your organization, Empower Global specializes in helping leaders harness their strengths and build high-trust, high-performing teams.
Let’s dive in.
Your strengths:You are great at GSD (getting stuff done). You love challenges, and you are capable of rising to them. You work well under pressure and naturally take charge of projects. You know how to break a task into small parts to bring it to fruition, and you can laser focus to get everything done. You tend to be competitive, which means you also tend to win more than those who don’t care about coming out on top. You aren’t afraid to communicate directly and are honest and transparent. You are organized, diligent, and reliable. People know that you are efficient and get straight to the point. Your growth edges:You may be easily frustrated by other styles that move more slowly and love small talk. Relationship builders, for example, like to chat before they start into items of business. If you are in a relationship-building culture (Latin America, the American South, etc.), they won’t even DO business with you until they form a relationship with you first. Only some people like to get to business right away. You might want to start a meeting with, hi, how are you, or How are your kids before you jump right into agenda items. Some people need authentic human connection, and they will feel put off if you are always all business. They won’t feel valued. You must also realize that not everyone is as efficient as you are. Express patience and help find out what they need from you and the team to execute on time. Also, make sure to allow for other voices to come to the table – we know you are smart, but there are likely other intelligent people around you whose ideas you are missing out on if you always need to have control. Relax, take a deep breath, and smile You are a direct communicator, which creates clarity for people as they never wonder what you are thinking, but be careful not to come off too direct or harsh, especially in cultures that prefer indirect feedback, especially if it’s negative. Try utilizing downgraders, or offer feedback as “suggestions,” “growth opportunities,” and “constructive criticism” to soften your feedback so that people aren’t threatened or feel as if you are rude. Also, make sure that you LISTEN. Try to ask more questions rather than make statements. Sometimes your brain moves so fast that focusing on someone else's words can be challenging. You want to listen to understand, not listen to respond. Try this technique from mediation – when someone says something, repeat it or paraphrase it back to them, then ask if you got it right before you move on. As Brene Brown says, if you don’t address people’s fears and feelings, you cannot address problematic behavior. Your best partnersFor decision-making and conflict prevention:The Harmony Seekers and InfluencersThe Harmony Seekers are good at slowing you down and bringing other people to the table. They will want to get people to a consensus, so they resist the urge to be impatient because it takes longer when many people are involved. Even if you are convinced that your decision or plan of action is the right one, people are much more likely to go along with and buy into a decision if they were involved in the process versus receiving a top-down decision. They are excellent listeners and know how to make people feel heard. They are softer and can round out an executor’s sharper edges. For influencing:The InfluencersThe relationship builders are natural salespeople and lobbyists. They could sell sand in the desert. They are also excellent at bridging divides and making people feel good. They tend to be extroverted and the life of the party, which means you can hand them the plan you want to execute, and they will be masters at getting people to buy in. Don't stick them behind a computer screen all day. Get them on calls, zooms, and in person conversations as much as possible - they are people persons and will suffer in front of a computer and not do their best work. For business partnership:The InnovatorsThe Innovators will drive you up the wall and inspire you. They are non-linear and to executors can seem like chaotic messes. However, where they excel is that they tend to be able to see the big picture and the grand strategy, forecasting trends way ahead of everyone else. They love to try out and experiment with new ideas, and just when you think hope is lost, they will have an idea for how to change or fix something. They are also early adopters who will likely be able to help you adjust to a new technology or system because they embraced it without hesitation. Your job is to keep them on task and help them follow their ideas. They can inspire people to follow their vision and cross the Red Sea, but when it comes to creating a step-by-step process to implement it, they desperately need your master execution skills and detail orientation. They also lean towards optimism and idealism, which can counter your more realism-grounded mentality. Before We Go Any Further – Let Me Introduce MyselfHi there, I’m Samantha Karlin, founder and CEO of Empower Global.We are experts in all things leadership, be it inclusive leadership, leading innovation, women's leadership, cross-cultural leadership, and beyond.We believe that leadership is not about telling people what to do - it's about enabling people to reach their full potential.We also teach and frame DEI in terms of leadership to make it resonate with your company, rather than having it be a proverbial eye roll. 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