What's Your Purpose After The Kids Are Grown?

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Quiz Questions

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What was your dream for your future as a young girl?
- A.
  To be a Mom, nurse, teacher, coach or therapist
- B.
  To be a public figure, leader of a company or a news broadcaster
- C.
  To solve problems, do research, be a city planner or a librarian
- D.
  To be a surgeon, pharmacist, house-flipper or lawyer
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Which statement best describes you?
- A.
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  I love to think and plan! I can spend hours analyzing something but I also quickly see the next step in problem solving
- B.
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  I love people and people love me! My relationships are important to me and making friends usually comes easy to me.
- C.
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  I'm all about getting things done. People trust me with important actions because they know I will always complete what I start.
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  I love to persuade and influence others to my point of view. It's a passion of mine to communicate either through writing or speaking.
3.
You were just asked to give a speech in front of some friends and family. You say…
- A.
  Heck yeah! I was born to speak my mind!
- B.
  Public speaking? Hmmmm....give me some specific details and I'll think about it
- C.
  I would make a detailed list of what needs to be said and a framework for my talk first. I may not love to do it, but I can get it done.
- D.
  As long as the speech is for someone important to me I believe I can do a good job. I prefer one on one or small groups but I'm comfortable in general in social situations.
4.
Your friend who's just moved to town is struggling to make new connections. You…
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- A.
  ...have an organized list of names and numbers in case they need to contact someone specifically. The best plumbers, doctors, hairdressers, etc... in the area.
- B.
  ...spend as much time with them as you can so they won't get lonely while you help them figure out who to talk to and the best way to go about introducing themselves.
- C.
  Need connections? I thought you’d never ask! You take them under your wing and show them how it's done at several parties and events.
- D.
  ...help them make a strategic plan for making new connections if that's what they want. Thinking ahead before jumping into something is always best.
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If you didn't have to work for financial stability, what would you do?
- A.
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  Care for people- i.e. babies, kids or the elderly
- B.
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  I think I would be great at sales!
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  I would still want to exercise my mind in some way
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  I'd probably start a new business or two
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Which of the following would make you the happiest at this stage of your life?
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- A.
  If I had the chance to stay home and just spend time with my friends and family I would in a heartbeat!
- B.
  I would looove to be an accountant or engineer or anything that is analytical in nature.
- C.
  It would be awesome to finally focus on accomplishing some goals that I've had for some time now
- D.
  I would love to put my influence out there...I feel confident in my abilities overall.
7.
Which feeling do you most resonate with regarding having an Empty Nest?
- A.
  I can't imagine not having to take care of my kids' needs on the daily or just not having my kids around! I will miss the opportunities I now have to teach and develop them.
- B.
  I don't really know; I suppose it will be okay as long as my kids go on to do something, complete college or land a promotion.
- C.
  I'm sad and feeling lonely about it all but I feel like it's normal to be feeling really blue at this stage. I plan to maximize the situation as much as I can and possibly write about my experience to help others.
- D.
  I don't want to feel too comfortable with it all. Even if it means I will have more time to focus on me, I plan to devote ample time to thinking everything through so that I'm more prepared for what happens in the future.
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Which words below would your best friend or spouse say would best describe you?
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- A.
  People-oriented, Empathetic, Adaptable
- B.
  Achiever, Task-oriented, Focused
- C.
  Innovative, Creative, Focused on Possibilities
- D.
  Self-Assured, Charismatic, Takes Charge
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Which one is most like your style when getting help with something?
- A.
  I want to find the best coaches in that area and ideally work with one of them
- B.
  I'll look for someone who can help break up my problem into small steps that can be tackled
- C.
  I prefer to really think through everything first. If I can't solve it on my own I usually have trouble finding someone who I trust can see the problem as deeply as I can
- D.
  I have many advisors in my life. I'll usually just turn to someone who knows me well to ask for help.
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Along with seeking more purpose, how are you feeling about your sense of community as your kids are moving on?
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- A.
  I'm somewhat lonely even though I technically have a lot of friends. I'm always searching for deeper connections and to feel understood.
- B.
  I've had some trouble with women friendships at times because I don't care to just sit around and chat about unimportant things. I want more women friendships but only if it's meaningful.
- C.
  I dream about the future when myself and some girlfriends will have adventures together when we're older. I'm lacking that now, but I know it's possible!
- D.
  I don't have trouble making friends but sometimes I have trouble keeping them. I wish I had more support and it would be fun to have more women in my life to compare my struggles with.

Quiz Outcomes

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You are a Diligent Do-er!
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Congratulations! Your superpower is in GSD- "Getting Stuff Done!" You’re a pro when it comes to the “how” and “when” of moving the needle on a house or work project or in general, taking ideas and making them reality.You’re the person everyone comes to when they know the job must be completed. You might not even be the boss! But you're a Mom who understands that actions speak louder than words.Some people may misunderstand your drive to see things through and think that you prioritize tasks over people. But you know the truth, that doing IS caring. You show that you care by DOING things for the ones you love.Friendships don't always come easy to you and you're not always quick to ask for help, even when you should.What does this mean for you when it comes to your Identity and Purpose now that your kids are more independent?If you are a Diligent Do-er, the steps to finding more purpose in your life begins with accepting your unique brilliance... You bring action and the ability to see things through with anything you do! Never forget how highly valued this special ability is, especially to those who are wired differently than you are. Others will always benefit from your "get 'er done" spirit in working with you.Read on for 3 tips to use your superpower to find more meaning and purpose in your Life After Kids.“I never see what has been done; I see only what remains to be done” —Marie Curie, chemist3 Tips to Find More Purpose as a Diligent Do'er 1. Recognize Your Best Roles. When it comes to your Superpower, you get a jolt of energy from completing tasks, in certain people it's as pure as that; in others, you're fueled to move the dial only when you're acting on behalf of your deepest beliefs. Diligent Do'ers make great project planners, supervisors and managers in any capacity. Outside of your career, think about organizing a fundraising campaign or helping a charity reach its objectives. Have you ever thought about being a party or wedding planner? Professional home organizer? These are just a few examples of where you would shine. 2. Be Open to Collaboration. Who in your life has ideas and vision but needs help bringing their ideas to reality? Diligent Do'ers make great partners because they bring intensity and stamina to the tasks at hand. Word of caution- Set up partnerships in such a way as to allow yourself freedom to work at your own pace. Otherwise you will grow resentful of those that are knowingly or unknowingly holding you back in your production.3. Use your superpower to hack your productivity. If you're not doing so already, find an app or planner that will assist you in keeping track of your most important tasks every day. Any discontent you experience could be coming from a lack of clarity around what you are getting done. The clearer you can see what you are accomplishing everyday, the better. Just remember, your sense of purpose will always grow when you figure out how you can use your talents to help others."Time is not refundable; use it with intention." —UnknownHi👋, we're Dr. Brooke Stillwell and Dr. Lynne Mouw, cofounders of Life after Kids! We've been best friends for over 20 years, helping each other and our patients live a healthier, more vibrant life along the way. Now we're using our knowledge and experience to help midlife women live a more purposeful and meaningful Life after Kids with better health, improved emotional balance, and natural beauty.Dr. Brooke has been working with women for over 20 years to help them live a healthier more emotionally balanced life. She has 8 years of college education, with a 4 year degree in biology and a doctorate degree. She specializes in health and wellness and has over 500 education hours in applied clinical nutrition with a focus on women's health, hormones, and digestion. She is also trained in The Enneagram.Dr. Lynne is co owner of a large health & wellness facility in the Midwest, and has been working with clients for over 20 years. She has 8 years of college education with a bachelors degree in biology & a doctorate degree. Dr. Lynne is a certified Gallup Strength Finders Coach, and she is trained in The Enneagram. She helps women understand themselves better so they can live a more meaningful, vibrant life.We curate the tools you need to live a vibrant and fulfilling Life after Kids. Together we can make tomorrow even better than today. There’s nothing we love more than cheering our community members on as they move past their doubts and struggles and begin to live their best midlife!Looking for some quick wins to get unstuck, motivated, and excited about your Life after Kids?1. Check out our Life after Kids Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2179347 We get real, raw and vulnerable on all things midlife. And, we have honest conversation about our struggles and what it really takes to live a meaningful Life after Kids.2. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/life.afterkids We provide and curate content that will help you make this next phase of life your best yet!And if you want more support, connection, friendship, and the ability to engage and coach live with us, be sure to check out THE LIFE AFTER KIDS MEMBERSHIP COMMUNITY
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You are a Magnificent Motivator!
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Congratulations! Your superpower is taking charge, speaking up and making sure others are heard! You’re a pro when it comes to motivating and inspiring others to do, see or think differently.Your ability to point the emotions of others towards your point of view is envy-able! Maybe you're not a celebrity or famous person but you still manage to influence almost everyone you come into contact with. You're a Mom who understands that persuasion is an art, and only the very few are gifted by it.Some people may misinterpret your charismatic nature as fake or feel threatened by your solid sense of inner direction. But you know the truth- that influence is power. You show you care by speaking up for those you care about, especially if they cannot do so easily for themselves.Followers come more easily to you than friendships. You're open to getting help but you want your mentors to match you in presence and charm.What does this mean for you when it comes to your Identity and Purpose now that your kids are more independent?As a Magnificent Motivator, the steps to finding more purpose in your life begins with accepting your unique brilliance... You effortlessly influence others and you instinctively know what your "audience" needs and values Never forget how highly valued this special ability is, especially to those who are wired differently than you are. Others will usually be attracted to your magnetic presence and want to work with you.Read on for 3 tips to use your superpower to find more meaning and purpose in your Life After Kids.“"Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." —Maya Angelou3 Tips to Find More Purpose as a Magnificent Motivator 1. Recognize Your Best Roles. When it comes to your Superpower, you get a jolt of energy from persuading others, in a few of you it's as pure as that; for others, you're fueled to move the dial only when you're comparing your actions to others. Magnificent Motivators make great sales people (retail or other), speakers and leaders in any capacity. Outside of your career, think about speaking up for others via social media, a podcast or by writing a book. Have you ever thought about bringing your talents to writing a blog or starting an online business doing something you're passionate about? Emcee? Lobbyist for Change? Running for Political Office? These are just a few examples of where you would shine. 2. Be Open to Collaboration. Who in your life can help you organize your influence and efforts into tangible results? Magnificent Motivators make great partners because they bring confidence and effortless amplification to a project. Word of caution- Look for partners who understand your need for clarity and directness. You don't like to beat around the bush.3. Use your superpower to hack your productivity. If you're not doing so already, find an appropriate outlet to talk or write about your experiences and feelings to others. Any discontent you experience could be because you're lacking an audience or otherwise not having people in your life who are patient with your outward style of processing. The more you communicate what you can see and what you are moving toward, the better. Just remember, your sense of purpose will always grow when you figure out how you can use your talents to help others."Time is not refundable; use it with intention." —UnknownHi👋, we're Dr. Brooke Stillwell and Dr. Lynne Mouw, cofounders of Life after Kids! We've been best friends for over 20 years, helping each other and our patients live a healthier, more vibrant life along the way. Now we're using our knowledge and experience to help midlife women live a more purposeful and meaningful Life after Kids with better health, improved emotional balance, and natural beauty.Dr. Brooke has been working with women for over 20 years to help them live a healthier more emotionally balanced life. She has 8 years of college education, with a 4 year degree in biology and a doctorate degree. She specializes in health and wellness and has over 500 education hours in applied clinical nutrition with a focus on women's health, hormones, and digestion. She is also trained in The Enneagram.Dr. Lynne is co owner of a large health & wellness facility in the Midwest, and has been working with clients for over 20 years. She has 8 years of college education with a bachelors degree in biology & a doctorate degree. Dr. Lynne is a certified Gallup Strength Finders Coach, and she is trained in The Enneagram. She helps women understand themselves better so they can live a more meaningful, vibrant life.We curate the tools you need to live a vibrant and fulfilling Life after Kids. Together we can make tomorrow even better than today. There’s nothing we love more than cheering our community members on as they move past their doubts and struggles and begin to live their best midlife!Looking for some quick wins to get unstuck, motivated, and excited about your Life after Kids?1. Check out our Life after Kids Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2179347 We get real, raw and vulnerable on all things midlife. And, we have honest conversation about our struggles and what it really takes to live a meaningful Life after Kids.2. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/life.afterkids We provide and curate content that will help you make this next phase of life your best yet!And if you want more support, connection, friendship, and the ability to engage and coach live with us, be sure to check out THE LIFE AFTER KIDS MEMBERSHIP COMMUNITY
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You are a Remarkable Relator!
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Congratulations! Your superpower is in making strong connections that serve as the glue for any team, family or project! You’re a pro when it comes to seeing and hearing others and making others feel important and included.The speed to which you can make a personal connection with others is envy-able! Maybe you're not "flashy" or out in front of the pack like some others, instead your personality is relatable and like-able and you effortlessly put others at ease. You're a Mom who understands that people are important, and at the heart of everything, relationships are the currency that makes the world go around.Some people may misinterpret your harmonious and amiable nature as lacking command or power. But you know the truth- that emotional intelligence cannot be bought- you either have it or you don't. And you have it in spades. Most people easily see you as a caretaker and a giver.Friendships may come easy but you would benefit from self-awareness to help you establish better boundaries. You're very open to getting help when you hit a seemingly insurmountable challenge.What does this mean for you when it comes to your Identity and Purpose now that your kids are more independent?As a Remarkable Relator, the steps to finding more purpose in your life begins with accepting your unique brilliance... You effortlessly negotiate people problems with empathy and skill! Never forget how highly valued this special ability is, especially to those who are wired differently than you are. Others will usually be attracted to your easy-going nature and want to work alongside you.Read on for 3 tips to use your superpower to find more meaning and purpose in your Life After Kids.“Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being." Johann Wolfgang von Goethe3 Tips to Find More Purpose as a Remarkable Relator1. Recognize Your Best Roles. When it comes to your Superpower, you get a jolt of energy from bridging connections with others, in a few of you it's as pure as that; for others, you're fueled to move the dial only when you're responding to each individual's needs in the moment. Remarkable Relators make great managers, team members and leaders in any capacity. Outside of your career, think about opportunities to make more connections. Have you ever thought about bringing your talents to mentorship or by giving your time to those in need?.. Therapist? ..Nurse? ...Coach of a Little League Team? These are just a few examples of where you would shine. 2. Be Open to Collaboration. Who in your life can help you envision and direct your easy relatable style into tangible results? Remarkable Relators make great partners because they bring fun, energy and ease into any environment. Word of caution- Look for partners who are tolerant and quick to praise. You appreciate getting back in kind what you put out.3. Use your superpower to hack your productivity. If you're not doing so already, find appropriate ways to meet others and spend time with new and old connections. Any discontent you experience could be because you're simply not being allowed to prioritize the human side of daily business. The more time you get to spend on building relationships the happier you are. Just remember, your sense of purpose will always grow when you figure out how you can use your talents to help others."Time is not refundable; use it with intention." —UnknownHi👋, we're Dr. Brooke Stillwell and Dr. Lynne Mouw, cofounders of Life after Kids! We've been best friends for over 20 years, helping each other and our patients live a healthier, more vibrant life along the way. Now we're using our knowledge and experience to help midlife women live a more purposeful and meaningful Life after Kids with better health, improved emotional balance, and natural beauty.Dr. Brooke has been working with women for over 20 years to help them live a healthier more emotionally balanced life. She has 8 years of college education, with a 4 year degree in biology and a doctorate degree. She specializes in health and wellness and has over 500 education hours in applied clinical nutrition with a focus on women's health, hormones, and digestion. She is also trained in The Enneagram.Dr. Lynne is co owner of a large health & wellness facility in the Midwest, and has been working with clients for over 20 years. She has 8 years of college education with a bachelors degree in biology & a doctorate degree. Dr. Lynne is a certified Gallup Strength Finders Coach, and she is trained in The Enneagram. She helps women understand themselves better so they can live a more meaningful, vibrant life.We curate the tools you need to live a vibrant and fulfilling Life after Kids. Together we can make tomorrow even better than today. There’s nothing we love more than cheering our community members on as they move past their doubts and struggles and begin to live their best midlife!Looking for some quick wins to get unstuck, motivated, and excited about your Life after Kids?1. Check out our Life after Kids Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2179347 We get real, raw and vulnerable on all things midlife. And, we have honest conversation about our struggles and what it really takes to live a meaningful Life after Kids.2. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/life.afterkids We provide and curate content that will help you make this next phase of life your best yet!And if you want more support, connection, friendship, and the ability to engage and coach live with us, be sure to check out THE LIFE AFTER KIDS MEMBERSHIP COMMUNITY
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You are an Awesome Analyzer!
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Congratulations! Your superpower is absorbing and analyzing information to order to inform better decisions! You’re a pro when it comes to gathering and utilizing information to stretch other's thinking for what is possible.The speed to which your brain works is envy-able! Even if you never thought of yourself as "book smart" (and many of you are extrmely book smart!) your thinking is innovative and creative. You're a Mom who understands that taking some time to consider what's possible in order to avoid making an emotional decision, actually saves time and energy in the long run. Some people may misinterpret your inwardly processing style and analytical nature as being uninterested or reserved. But you know the truth- that your thoughts and intellectual pursuits are often more interesting to you than spending time with others. You can be charming and engaging with people, as long as you've had sufficient time to entertain your thoughts or visions for the future.Friendships may not come easy but you still crave connections with people who can match wits with you. Ironically, you are often drawn to those whose social skills seem to be their primary talent. You're very open to getting help, but you often revert to trying to solve your problems through your own research which isn't alway effective.What does this mean for you when it comes to your Identity and Purpose now that your kids are more independent?As a Awesome Analyzer, the steps to finding more purpose in your life begins with accepting your unique brilliance... You keep everyone focused on what could be and inspire new ideas with your creative thinking! Never forget how highly valued this special ability is, especially to those who are wired differently than you are. Others will be attracted to your visionary nature and will want to work with you to make your ideas become reality.Read on for 3 tips to use your superpower to find more meaning and purpose in your Life After Kids.“My favorite 6 men have taught me all I knew; their names are WHAT and WHY and WHEN and HOW and WHERE and WHO." -Rudyard Kipling3 Tips to Find More Purpose as an Awesome Analyzer1. Recognize Your Best Roles. When it comes to your Superpower, you get a jolt of energy from deep and innovative thinking, in a few of you it's as pure as that; for others, you're fueled to move the dial only when you're learning new things or gathering useful facts for later use. Awesome Analyzer's make great thinkers, strategists and visionary leaders in any capacity. Outside of your career, think about opportunities to stimulate your intellectual pursuits. Have you ever thought about bringing your talents to teaching a class or mastering a new skill to pass on? School Board or Committee Member? Project Planner? Sports Team Manager? These are just a few examples of where you would shine. 2. Be Open to Collaboration. Who in your life can help you bring all of your fascinating ideas to life? Awesome Analyzers make great partners because they bring hope, vision and intentionality into any environment. Word of caution- Look for partners who allow you the time you need to sort through the mental chaos that sometimes is your brain. 3. Use your superpower to hack your productivity. If you're not doing so already, schedule daily time to just sit and think. You will be far more effective if you take time every day to "download" all of the ideas and thoughts you have been accumulating. Any discontent you experience could be because you're simply not being allowed to stretch your brain in new directions. The more time you get to spend learning and challenging your mental facilities the better. Just remember, your sense of purpose will always grow when you figure out how you can use your talents to help others."Time is not refundable; use it with intention." —UnknownHi👋, we're Dr. Brooke Stillwell and Dr. Lynne Mouw, cofounders of Life after Kids! We've been best friends for over 20 years, helping each other and our patients live a healthier, more vibrant life along the way. Now we're using our knowledge and experience to help midlife women live a more purposeful and meaningful Life after Kids with better health, improved emotional balance, and natural beauty.Dr. Brooke has been working with women for over 20 years to help them live a healthier more emotionally balanced life. She has 8 years of college education, with a 4 year degree in biology and a doctorate degree. She specializes in health and wellness and has over 500 education hours in applied clinical nutrition with a focus on women's health, hormones, and digestion. She is also trained in The Enneagram.Dr. Lynne is co owner of a large health & wellness facility in the Midwest, and has been working with clients for over 20 years. She has 8 years of college education with a bachelors degree in biology & a doctorate degree. Dr. Lynne is a certified Gallup Strength Finders Coach, and she is trained in The Enneagram. She helps women understand themselves better so they can live a more meaningful, vibrant life.We curate the tools you need to live a vibrant and fulfilling Life after Kids. Together we can make tomorrow even better than today. There’s nothing we love more than cheering our community members on as they move past their doubts and struggles and begin to live their best midlife!Looking for some quick wins to get unstuck, motivated, and excited about your Life after Kids?1. Check out our Life after Kids Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2179347 We get real, raw and vulnerable on all things midlife. And, we have honest conversation about our struggles and what it really takes to live a meaningful Life after Kids.3. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/life.afterkids We provide and curate content that will help you make this next phase of life your best yet!And if you want more support, connection, friendship, and the ability to engage and coach live with us, be sure to check out THE LIFE AFTER KIDS MEMBERSHIP COMMUNITY

What's Your Purpose After The Kids Are Grown?

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