Is it time to Ditch Your "Inner Good Girl"?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Do you often find yourself saying "yes" to things you don't want to do, just to please others? 

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  • A.
    Often, and then I regret it.
  • B.
    Sometimes, but I'll think about it before I say yes.
  • C.
    Never. If I don't want to do it, no one is making me.
• 2.
  How comfortable are you setting and enforcing personal boundaries? 

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  • A.
    I struggle with setting and keeping boundaries.
  • B.
    I'm working on it, but can easily be pushed to break those boundaries.
  • C.
    I am confident in setting and maintaining my boundaries
• 3.
  When faced with uncomfortable conversations, how likely are you to address the issue directly? 

  • A.
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    I run away from uncomfortable conversations.
  • B.
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    I try to have hard talks, but I often catch myself giving in so I don't prolong the discomfort.
  • C.
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    I face the hard conversations without hesitation.
• 4.
  How often do you find yourself putting others' needs and desires above your own? 

  • A.
    I always make sure everyone else's needs are met before my own.
  • B.
    I do my best to address my own needs but only when it's convenient and when no one else has anything else going on.
  • C.
    I can't pour from an empty cup so I make time for my needs.
• 5.
  How often do you feel guilty or anxious after saying "no" to someone's request? 

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  • A.
    I always feel guilty and anxious every time I say "no.
  • B.
    Sometimes, depending on the person or situation.
  • C.
    Rarely. I feel confident and secure in my decision to say "no".
• 6.
  When you have an opinion that is different than someone else's, do you voice it?

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  • A.
    Not usually because I don't want to stir up conflict.
  • B.
    It depends on how much the issue means to me.
  • C.
    Absolutely. No one is going to wonder how I feel about something because I always voice it.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  It's time to Ditch Your "Inner Good Girl"

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  You might benefit from ditching your good girl ways and asserting yourself more. Embrace your power and start setting boundaries.Don’t feel bad, every single woman on the planet struggles with this at some point.When you feel overtired, stressed, and mentally drained, the last thing you want to do is start speaking up, setting boundaries, or ruffling feathers.But you are worthy of a life you love and that means you just might need to get comfortable having uncomfortable conversations, saying no, setting boundaries, and getting really clear on what you want from life....because you deserve it all.I wrote the book SHE WHO WINS for women just like you. I'll show you how to ditch your inner good girl and overcome uncertainty so you can win at your life!In it, I teach a really simple formula that will guide you step-by-step into your most aligned version of YOU.I also share lots of stories....my stories, actually, that will make you laugh, cry, and maybe even get a little bit disruptive. Consider it your personal hype-squad.Because, She Who Moves Forward Fiercely is, She Who Wins..Right now when you pre-order my book, you get some super cool free bonuses, including the book Introduction, my signature keynote where I share how I ditched my "good girl" ways, and a downloadable affirmation deck.See what all the buzz is about!“Success is easier to achieve when we are surrounded by those who dare us to think bolder, dream bigger and become someone even greater. By the end of this book, you’ll be inspired to do just that. She Who Wins will show you how to take action and finally create the life you deserve."-Candy Valentino, Founder, Investor and WSJ Best Selling Author“She Who Wins is the anti-rulebook on how to step into your life confidently, boldly, and unapologetically.”-Jenny Taylor, Founder of Jenny Taylor Boudoir studios."As a fellow recovering Good Girl, I loved this book! I’ve always loved Renee’s work and it makes me so happy to have all of her incredible advice in one place!” -Finnerty Steeves actor, screenwriter "Renee has you on a roller coaster of emotions from happiness to heartache and everything in between. She will call you out on your sh*t (in the most thoughtful way!) because she believes we can achieve excellence. It's time we break the rules, trust ourselves, and follow Renee's lead. Bold. Strong. Fierce." -Jennifer Hurvitz, Dating Expert, Best Selling Author, and Host of Doing Relationships Right Podcast Hey there, good girl. My name is Renee Bauer. I'm an Attorney, Author, Host of a Top 2% Podcast, Motivational Speaker, Blended-Family Aficionado, and Lover of books and rescue pups.In my 20 years as a divorce attorney, I found that many of my clients suffer from self-doubt, issues of worthiness, the same self-limiting beliefs and stay stuck in a place where they feel like there has to be more but they don't know what or how to even begin.I decided to shift my career to help others unlock their potential....and because I've been a writer before I am anything else, I know this book was the way I could impact the most lives.Lets Connect!Check out these helpful resources to help you ditch your self-sabotaging ways!1. Let's be Instagram friends. From helpful tips and mindset hacks, to mindfulness reels and Q&A Lives, come say hello here.2. Listen to my Podcast "She Who Wins” here where I share my passion for helping people unlock their potential best. 3. Grab FREE resources here and join my Early Reader's Club where I give away really cool stuff!
• 2.
  You are still holding onto some "good girl" ways that could use some ditching. 

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  You waver between asserting yourself and falling back into some "good girl" ways. It's time to fully embrace your power and start setting boundaries. You're making progress but still have room for growth. Focus on enhancing your self-advocacy skills and becoming more comfortable with discomfort.Don’t feel bad, every single woman on the planet struggles with this at some point.When you feel overtired, stressed, and mentally drained, the last thing you want to do is start speaking up, setting boundaries, or ruffling feathers so sometimes you hold your boundaries and sometimes, it's too much work.But you are worthy of a life you love and that means you just might need to get comfortable having uncomfortable conversations, saying no, setting boundaries, and getting really clear on what you want from life....because you deserve it all.I wrote the book SHE WHO WINS for women just like you. I'll show you how to ditch your inner good girl and overcome uncertainty so you can win at your life!In it, I teach a really simple formula that will guide you step-by-step into your most aligned version of YOU.I also share lots of stories....my stories, actually, that will make you laugh, cry, and maybe even get a little bit disruptive. Consider it your personal hype-squad.Because, She Who Moves Forward Fiercely is, She Who Wins..Right now when you pre-order my book, you get some super cool free bonuses, including the book Introduction, my signature keynote where I share how I ditched my "good girl" ways, and a downloadable affirmation deck.See what all the buzz is about!“Success is easier to achieve when we are surrounded by those who dare us to think bolder, dream bigger and become someone even greater. By the end of this book, you’ll be inspired to do just that. She Who Wins will show you how to take action and finally create the life you deserve."-Candy Valentino , Founder, Investor and WSJ Best Selling Author“She Who Wins is the anti-rulebook on how to step into your life confidently, boldly, and unapologetically.”-Jenny Taylor, Founder of Jenny Taylor Boudoir studios."As a fellow recovering Good Girl, I loved this book! I’ve always loved Renee’s work and it makes me so happy to have all of her incredible advice in one place!” -Finnerty Steeves, Actor, screenwriter "Renee has you on a roller coaster of emotions from happiness to heartache and everything in between. She will call you out on your sh*t (in the most thoughtful way!) because she believes we can achieve excellence. It's time we break the rules, trust ourselves, and follow Renee's lead. Bold. Strong. Fierce." -Jennifer Hurvitz, Dating Expert, Best Selling Author, and Host of Doing Relationships Right Podcast Hey there, "sort of" good girl. My name is Renee Bauer. I'm an Attorney, Author, Host of a Top 2% Podcast, Motivational Speaker, Blended-Family Aficionado, and Lover of books and rescue pups.In my 20 years as a divorce attorney, I found that many of my clients suffer from self-doubt, issues of worthiness, the same self-limiting beliefs and stay stuck in a place where they feel like there has to be more but they don't know what or how to even begin.I decided to shift my career to help others unlock their potential....and because I've been a writer before I am anything else, I know this book was the way I could impact the most lives.Lets Connect!Check out these helpful resources to help you ditch your "good girl" once and for all.1. Let's be Instagram friends. From helpful tips and mindset hacks, to mindfulness reels and Q&A Lives, come say hello here.2. Listen to my Podcast "She Who Wins” here where I share my passion for helping people unlock their potential best. 3. Grab FREE resources here and join my Early Reader's Club where I give away really cool stuff!
• 3.
  You are a boundary badass and have ditched your "good girl" ways.

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  Bravo! You speak up. You speak out. You make "no" a complete sentence. I bet that took years of practice. I know, it took me a long time to get to this point.You are worthy of a life you love and that means you are comfortable having uncomfortable conversations, saying no, setting boundaries, and getting really clear on what you want from life....because you deserve it all.I wrote the book SHE WHO WINS for women just like you. In it, I teach a really simple formula that will guide you step-by-step into your most aligned version of YOU.I also share lots of stories....my stories, actually, that will make you laugh, cry, and maybe even get a little bit disruptive. Consider it your personal hype-squad.Because, She Who Moves Forward Fiercely is, She Who Wins..Right now when you pre-order my book, you get some super cool free bonuses, including the book Introduction, my signature keynote where I share how I ditched my "good girl" ways, and a downloadable affirmation deck.See what all the buzz is about!“Success is easier to achieve when we are surrounded by those who dare us to think bolder, dream bigger and become someone even greater. By the end of this book, you’ll be inspired to do just that. She Who Wins will show you how to take action and finally create the life you deserve."-Candy Valentino , Founder, Investor and WSJ Best Selling Author“She Who Wins is the anti-rulebook on how to step into your life confidently, boldly, and unapologetically.”-Jenny Taylor, Founder of Jenny Taylor Boudoir studios."As a fellow recovering Good Girl, I loved this book! I’ve always loved Renee’s work and it makes me so happy to have all of her incredible advice in one place!” -Finnerty Steeves actor, screenwriter "Renee has you on a roller coaster of emotions from happiness to heartache and everything in between. She will call you out on your sh*t (in the most thoughtful way!) because she believes we can achieve excellence. It's time we break the rules, trust ourselves, and follow Renee's lead. Bold. Strong. Fierce." -Jennifer Hurvitz, Dating Expert, Best Selling Author, and Host of Doing Relationships Right Podcast Hey there! My name is Renee Bauer. I'm an Attorney, Author, Host of a Top 2% Podcast, Motivational Speaker, Blended-Family Aficionado, and Lover of books and rescue pups.In my 20 years as a divorce attorney, I found that many of my clients suffer from self-doubt, issues of worthiness, the same self-limiting beliefs and stay stuck in a place where they feel like there has to be more but they don't know what or how to even begin.I decided to shift my career to help others unlock their potential....and because I've been a writer before I am anything else, I know this book was the way I could impact the most lives.Lets Connect!Check out these helpful resources to help you ditch your self-sabotaging ways!1. Let's be Instagram friends. From helpful tips and mindset hacks, to mindfulness reels and Q&A Lives, come say hello here.2. Listen to my Podcast "She Who Wins” here where I share my passion for helping people unlock their potential best. 3. Grab FREE resources here and join my Early Reader's Club where I give away really cool stuff!