Why Does My Marriage Feel Off?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  1. What do you want MOST in your marriage?

  • A.
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    To have more fun together in our marriage.
  • B.
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    To have more trust.
  • C.
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    To have more romance in our marriage.
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    Less conflict or less time spent arguing.
• 2.
  2. What do you think is standing between you & the marriage that you want?

  • A.
    We don’t prioritize dates with each other
  • B.
    I have resentment towards him for something
  • C.
    I feel a lack of intimacy with my husband.
  • D.
    I don’t feel confident communicating what I want.
• 3.
  3. How many dates each month do you prioritize having?

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  • A.
    0-1
  • B.
    2-3
  • C.
    4
  • D.
    5+
• 4.
  4. What is your communication style with your husband?

  • A.
    I have a difficult time communicating my boundaries to him.
  • B.
    I avoid communication with him or withdraw.
  • C.
    I don’t want to be a burden, so I don’t ask for what I want.
  • D.
    I don’t clearly communicate my expectations to him.
• 5.
  5. What does your mind tell you most often about your marriage?

  • A.
    My marriage lacks romance & intimacy.
  • B.
    The conflict in our marriage is exhausting & never ends.
  • C.
    I want more time to connect with my husband.
  • D.
    I wish I could trust my husband and let go of my resentment.
• 6.
  6. What area of your marriage do you feel least confident about?

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  • A.
    Our Communication
  • B.
    Our Physical Connection
  • C.
    Our Love For Each Other
  • D.
    Our Trust With Each Other.
• 7.
  7. Do you feel lonely or not understood in your marriage?

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  • A.
    Yes! I wish the walls weren’t up between us.
  • B.
    Yes! I wish we had more 1 on 1 time together.
  • C.
    Not Really. We have a strong connection, but sometimes communication is tough
  • D.
    No. I love where my marriage is at.
• 8.
  8. I value most in marriage_____ (Fill in the blank)

  • A.
    Quality time spent together
  • B.
    Meaningful & clear communication
  • C.
    Physical connection & intimacy
  • D.
    Letting go of resentment & having forgiveness
• 9.
  9. What is going well that you don’t want to change in your marriage?

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    We have great communication skills in resolving conflicts or fights.
  • B.
    We do a great job of prioritizing dates together.
  • C.
    We have a great physical connection.
  • D.
    I want to see improvements in all of these areas.
• 10.
  10. What would you like to see happen in your marriage as soon as possible?

  • A.
    I want to have deeper or more meaningful conversations with my husband.
  • B.
    I want to be able to trust my husband more.
  • C.
    I want more romance & not feel like only roommates, co-parents, or their caretaker.
  • D.
    I want my husband to help out more in our home & take the initiative more in our marriage.
• 11.
  11. When do you feel most loved by your husband?

  • A.
    When he hugs me or kisses me.
  • B.
    When he actively listens to me.
  • C.
    When he plans things for us to do together.
  • D.
    When he follows through on his word.
• 12.
  12. What couple do you feel models most closely your ideal marriage?

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    Marshall & Lily (How I Met Your Mother)
  • B.
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    Luke & Lorelai (Gilmore Girls)
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    Jim & Pam (The OFFICE)
  • D.
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    Monica & Chandler (From FRIENDS)

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Your Marriage Blind Spot Is.... A Lack of Boundaries

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  O.K. hot stuff, you’ve got it going on! You’re a major risk taker—‘no’ just ain’t in your vocab. You’re unfazed by circumstances that’d have The Rock sweating. Your secret? You live for the thrill.Your straight-talking sensibility is Syrah-level intoxicating. Friends trust you to cut through the BS. From lipstick to international politics, you’ve got something to say about everything.When you want something, you ask for it—loudly. Exes may have called you ‘demanding.’ But you’re not about to surrender your high standards...You’ve probably got a mile-long list of your ideal mate’s traits. Fun-loving but well-mannered. Witty but sensitive as a touchscreen. You love imagining your special someone. But actually loving him or her is a whole other question...“We love the things we love for what they are.” — Robert FrostReady To Meet Your Soul-Match? For Personalized Tips, Read On!1. Give a little and get a lot. I love that you set your sights sky-high. But maybe you’re missing out on what’s right in front of you. Take a chance — try dating outside your usual ‘type.’ Even just for fun...2. Face your fear of being taken advantage of. Love and vulnerability go hand n’ hand — wanting one without the other is a toxic relationship waiting to happen. Practice expressing your inner self through journaling.3. Don’t set out to ‘win the game.’ Unlike many aspects of your life, love ain’t a competitive sport. Don’t set out to find the most good-looking or most intelligent partner. Simply find someone who makes you tick.Hello, lovely 👋 I’m Talia Tahir. And I help millennials (yep, just like you) find their romantic soul-matches—no swiping necessary.After a few tedious months of meeting other singles through Tinder and Bumble, I felt more alone than ever before — I’m talking vegan Ben & Jerry’s alone in my apartment every Saturday night...The up-swing? I had loads of time to figure out where I was going wrong in my approach to love. Hint? It’s all about self-worth. If your heart doesn’t trust that you deserve affection, potential partners are going to mirror that belief.Through my coaching, I’m going to help you get to the bottom of what’s holding you back in love. Once you embrace yourself, I promise others will, too ✨Three Quick Steps To Set You Up For Lasting Romance ⤵️1. Download the Chapter 1 of my new PDF guide Love in the Time of Bumble. It’s going to show you why the disconnection you’re likely feeling is so common among millennials.2. Connect with me on Facebook and Instagram for daily dating tips!3. Need a quick fix? Book a one-on-one Skype consultation with me. Remember—I’m here to help you love yourself. So you can attract someone who treats your beautiful, brilliant soul with the care it deserves!What can I say? I just can’t get enough of you! So don’t be surprised to see me in your inbox with more relationship tips and tricks.
• 2.
  Your Marriage Blind Spot Is.... Holding Onto Resentment

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  Your social calendar is as lit as the top of a birthday cake. People gravitate towards you for your shining personality. You make your friends feel comfortable in the most awkward of circumstances…There’s a reason people count on you. You’ve got a big heart and will make time to hear them out. Just make sure you’re paying enough attention to yourself. And what you need to feel loved.In relationships you bend over backwards to meet your partner’s every need. Sometimes it’s worth asking whether they’re doing the same in return. You’re worthy of a love that matches your shine. Let me point you in the right direction…“If you can’t love yourself, how in the *heck* are you going to love somebody else.” — RuPaulReady To Meet Your Soul-Match? For Personalized Tips, Read On!1. Give a little and get a lot. I love that you set your sights sky-high. But maybe you’re missing out on what’s right in front of you. Take a chance — try dating outside your usual ‘type.’ Even just for fun...2. Face your fear of being taken advantage of. Love and vulnerability go hand n’ hand—wanting one without the other is a toxic relationship waiting to happen. Practice expressing your inner self through journaling.3. Don’t set out to ‘win the game.’ Unlike many aspects of your life, love ain’t a competitive sport. Don’t set out to find the most good-looking or most intelligent partner. Simply find someone who makes you tick.Hello, lovely 👋 I’m Talia Tahir. And I help millennials (yep, just like you) find their romantic soul-matches—no swiping necessary.After a few tedious months of meeting other singles through Tinder and Bumble, I felt more alone than ever before — I’m talking vegan Ben & Jerry’s alone in my apartment every Saturday night...The up-swing? I had loads of time to figure out where I was going wrong in my approach to love. Hint? It’s all about self-worth. If your heart doesn’t trust that you deserve affection, potential partners are going to mirror that belief.Through my coaching, I’m going to help you get to the bottom of what’s holding you back in love. Once you embrace yourself, I promise others will, too ✨Three Quick Steps To Set You Up For Lasting Romance ⤵️1. Download the Chapter 1 of my new PDF guide Love in the Time of Bumble. It’s going to show you why the disconnection you’re likely feeling is so common among millennials!2. Connect with me on Facebook and Instagram for daily dating tips.3. Need a quick fix? Book a one-on-one Skype consultation with me. Remember—I’m here to help you love yourself. So you can attract someone who treats your beautiful, brilliant soul with the care it deserves!What can I say? I just can’t get enough of you! So don’t be surprised to see me in your inbox with more relationship tips and tricks.
• 3.
  Your Marriage Blind Spot Is.... Loss of Intimacy

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  There’s nothing you like more than sitting on your back porch listening to the chickadees and feeling the sun on your cheeks. You’ve probably got every yoga mat colour on the rainbow.Your naturally nurturing energy attracts a diverse group of friends. You’re so empathetic you can pretty much read peoples’ thoughts.I don’t want to have to be the one to tell you this, but sometimes safety ain’t your friend. While love doesn’t always mean taking a massive risk, you can’t fall for someone without putting your heart on the line.Embrace the beauty of uncertainty. We can’t learn if we’re not challenged.“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” — Lao TzuFind a Love as Unique as You With Your Three Personalized Steps!1. Make a commitment to hold your ground. Instead of shapeshifting to suit your ideal partner’s needs, be true to yourself.2. Face your fear of rejection. Love and vulnerability go hand n’ hand — wanting one without the other is a toxic relationship waiting to happen. Practice expressing your inner self through journaling.3. Accept the changes that’ll result from your new relationship. You’re comfortable with your current life and the thought of evolving (even if it’s for the better) scares you. Let it go, friend. Life is never constant.Hello, lovely 👋 I’m Talia Tahir. And I help millennials (yep, just like you) find their romantic soul-matches—no swiping necessary.After a few tedious months of meeting other singles through Tinder and Bumble, I felt more alone than ever before — I’m talking vegan Ben & Jerry’s alone in my apartment every Saturday night...The up-swing? I had loads of time to figure out where I was going wrong in my approach to love. Hint? It’s all about self-worth. If your heart doesn’t trust that you deserve affection, potential partners are going to mirror that belief. Through my coaching, I’m going to help you get to the bottom of what’s holding you back in love. Once you embrace yourself, I promise others will, too ✨Three Quick Steps To Set You Up For Lasting Romance ⤵️1. Download the Chapter 1 of my new PDF guide Love in the Time of Bumble. It’s going to show you why the disconnection you’re likely feeling is so common among millennials!2. Connect with me on Facebook and Instagram for daily dating tips.3. Need a quick fix? Book a one-on-one Skype consultation with me. Remember—I’m here to help you love yourself. So you can attract someone who treats your beautiful, brilliant soul with the care it deserves!What can I say? I just can’t get enough of you! So don’t be surprised to see me in your inbox with more relationship tips and tricks.
• 4.
  Your Marriage Blind Spot Is.... Miscommunication

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  Nothing can steer you off course. You’ve got crazy focus and can achieve anything when you dedicate your heart to it 100%.You friends know to come to you for an objective opinion. When in need of comfort, your calm demeanor is as relaxing as an Epsom salt bath.My tip for you? Get comfortable putting yourself out there. So what if someone rejects you. You’re still every bit as wonderful as the day you were born.Often we fear that we’ll express ourselves completely and still have to deal with rejection. I’m giving you permission to drop that package on the conveyor belt and take off!“This is a good sign, having a broken heart. It means we have tried for something.” — Elizabeth GilbertFind a Love as Unique as You With Your Three Personalized Steps!1. Make a commitment to hold your ground. Instead of shapeshifting to suit your ideal partner’s needs, be true to yourself. 2. Face your fear of rejection. Love and vulnerability go hand n’ hand—wanting one without the other is a toxic relationship waiting to happen. Practice expressing your inner self through journaling.3. Accept the changes that’ll result from your new relationship. You’re comfortable with your current life and the thought of evolving (even if it’s for the better) scares you. Let it go, friend. Life is never constant.Hello, lovely 👋 I’m Talia Tahir.And I help millennials (yep, just like you) find their romantic soul-matches—no swiping necessary.After a few tedious months of meeting other singles through Tinder and Bumble, I felt more alone than ever before — I’m talking vegan Ben & Jerry’s alone in my apartment every Saturday night...The up-swing? I had loads of time to figure out where I was going wrong in my approach to love. Hint? It’s all about self-worth. If your heart doesn’t trust that you deserve affection, potential partners are going to mirror that belief.Through my coaching, I’m going to help you get to the bottom of what’s holding you back in love. Once you embrace yourself, I promise others will, too ✨Three Quick Steps To Set You Up For Lasting Romance ⤵️1. Download the Chapter 1 of my new PDF guide Love in the Time of Bumble. It’s going to show you why the disconnection you’re likely feeling is so common among millennials!2. Connect with me on Facebook and Instagram for daily dating tips.3. Need a quick fix? Book a one-on-one Skype consultation with me. Remember—I’m here to help you love yourself. So you can attract someone who treats your beautiful, brilliant soul with the care it deserves!What can I say? I just can’t get enough of you! So don’t be surprised to see me in your inbox with more relationship tips and tricks.