What Energy Are You Actually Bringing Into Your Relationships?

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Quiz Questions

1.
You enjoy living alone because
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- A.
  You don't have to deal with other people.
- B.
  You have more time after work.
- C.
  You enjoy the time it affords you after work, to please yourself.
2.
You and your fiancé are buying a house. You have more money to invest than he does. What do you do?
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- A.
  Put in more money.
- B.
  Put in your half share only.
- C.
  Expect him to provide a house for you.
3.
You enjoy working more than playing because
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- A.
  Playing is "feeling-centered" and you do not want to waste time.
- B.
  Work produces money with which you can exert influence and greater control.
- C.
  Your father or mother expected performance from you and rewarded you with love.
4.
Your boyfriend likes to take camping trips, but it isn't your thing. What do you do?
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- A.
  Go with him and make the best of it.
- B.
  Stay home because you don't want to go.
- C.
  Try to get him into a hobby you like instead.
5.
You and your fiancé are saving for a summer rental, and he wants to control your money. What do you do?
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- A.
  Refuse to do it.
- B.
  Do it with a guaranteed monthly allowance for yourself.
- C.
  Require that you alternate control monthly.
6.
Your car has broken down. What do you do?
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- A.
  Call your boyfriend and ask him to come get you and assist.
- B.
  Leave the car and take an Uber home.
- C.
  Call AAA to get it towed.
7.
You're in a relationship with an up-and-coming man and you want to develop your own career, but he wants you to marry him and raise your kids. What do you do?
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- A.
  Break-up with him and prioritize pursuing your career.
- B.
  Accept his idea as being best for your future marriage and life together.
- C.
  Say yes, and after you marry go back to prioritizing your career.
8.
You have a fiancé who is more powerful and successful than you are. What do you do?
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- A.
  "Battle with him" with him for equality in your relationship.
- B.
  Surrender to his leadership and fight only over ethical and moral issues.
- C.
  Keep him and see if he will surrender to you, and if not, dump him.
9.
You have a fight with your gentle, feminine boyfriend, who then has a problem with impotence. What do you do?
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- A.
  Accept him as he is and help him feel safer and more relaxed.
- B.
  End the relationship and on to the next man.
- C.
  Try to teach him with books and articles how to do it.
10.
You are married and have dual-careers, but your husband expects you to do the most of the house work, as his mom did. What do you do?
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- A.
  Do it to prove you are better than his Mom.
- B.
  Refuse to do more at home than he does, and fight with him about it.
- C.
  Negotiate a fair split of chores, or leave him until he is willing.
11.
Your boyfriend earns twice as much as you do but expects you to share 50-50 on dates. What do you do?
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- A.
  Accept this 50-50 deal for all dates to keep him happy.
- B.
  Expect him to pay for everything as the man.
- C.
  Compromise by each paying for dates you request of the other.
12.
You're a newlywed, and you travel a great deal for your work. What do you do?
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- A.
  Enjoy socializing (non-sexually) with men out of town with your husband's acceptance.
- B.
  Do not socialize with men out of town because you're considerate of your husband's possible hurt feelings.
- C.
  Socialize secretly with men when you're out of town and don't tell him.
13.
Your husband has been passed over for a promotion at his company. You have been invited to his company's social event. What do you do?
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- A.
  You go to the event, but you're so angry that after a few drinks, you confront that company executive about the situation.
- B.
  You refuse to go to the event out of anger, even though it will reflect negatively on him.
- C.
  You go to the event and act like a supportive woman.
14.
Both you and your husband work long hours during the week and have little time for sex. What do you do?
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- A.
  Let him decide when to ask and say "No thank you" if you are too tired.
- B.
  Initiate it when you're feeling in the mood.
- C.
  Negotiate to have sex only on weekends.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Masculine energy is currently your primary polarity in romantic relationships.
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It's more important to you that your partner respects your thinking over prioritizing and cherishing your feelings. If you've scored mostly MASCULINE ENERGY as your polarity in romantic relationships, you should decide if you really want to be leading with your masculine energy moving forward. If you do, then you'll need to find a feminine energy man/person to partner with. If not, you must learn how to authentically embody more of your FEMININE ENERGY in your romantic relationships. Are you new to the idea of polarity -or- interested in a deeper understanding of Masculine and Feminine relationship dynamics? If yes, I can provide real life application to catalyze a powerful shift in your love life and individual growth. Hello Lovely! I'm Kelli.My mission is to help high-achieving women navigate the journey of modern love, and to reach their relationship goals. Single, dating or committed, if you're ready to take the journey I can guide you each step of the way.I’m academically trained as a Depth Psychotherapist, have conducted graduate level research and helped literally thousands of people apply this integrated body of knowledge to their lives and relationships. A special thank you to my academic mentor Dr. Allen who taught me how to apply this body of knowledge and encouraged me to carry the work forward. Personally, I'm blessed to be married to an extraordinary Masculine Energy man that I received as a result of applying this knowledge to my own life. After a decade of full-time private practice I have evolved to offering transformational education, on-line intensives and resources. To learn more visit us at LoveBravelyAcademy.comLet's explore how we can support you right now on your relationship journey.
2.
Feminine energy is currently your primary polarity in romantic relationships.
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It's more important to you that your partner listens to and cherishes your feelings, over respecting your rational thinking.If you've scored mostly FEMININE ENERGY, as your polarity in romantic relationships, you will partner well with a masculine energy man/person. Still, you should note when you move into MASCULINE ENERGY and intentionally bring more of your FEMININE ENERGY into these areas, otherwise you risk conflict in your romantic relationships. Are you new to the idea of polarity -or- interested in a deeper understanding of Masculine and Feminine relationship dynamics? If yes, I can provide real life application to catalyze a powerful shift in your love life and individual growth. Hello Lovely! I'm Kelli.My mission is to help high-achieving women navigate the journey of modern love, and to reach their relationship goals. Single, dating or committed, if you're ready to take the journey I can guide you each step of the way.I’m academically trained as a Depth Psychotherapist, have conducted graduate level research and helped literally thousands of people apply this integrated body of knowledge to their lives and relationships. A special thank you to my academic mentor Dr. Allen who taught me how to apply this body of knowledge and encouraged me to carry the work forward. Personally, I'm blessed to be married to an extraordinary Masculine Energy man that I received as a result of applying this knowledge to my own life. After a decade of full-time private practice I have evolved to offering transformational education, on-line intensives and resources. To learn more visit us at LoveBravelyAcademy.comLet's explore how we can support you right now on your relationship journey.
3.
Narcissistic energy is currently your primary polarity in romantic relationships
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Trying to use logic and feelings equally, which ultimately neutralizes both and kills intimacy through competitive conflict.If you have scored mostly NARCISSISTIC ENERGY, you should decide whether you wish to primarily operate from MASCULINE or FEMININE ENERGY moving forward. If you don't choose to clearly embody one of these, you will most definitely struggle with attaining a successful long-term relationship or marriage. Are you new to the idea of polarity -or- interested in a deeper understanding of Masculine and Feminine relationship dynamics? If you are, I can provide real life application to catalyze a powerful shift in your love life and individual growth. Hello Lovely! I'm Kelli.My mission is to help high-achieving women navigate the journey of modern love, and to reach their relationship goals. Single, dating or committed, if you're ready to take the journey I can guide you each step of the way.I’m academically trained as a Depth Psychotherapist, have conducted graduate level research and helped literally thousands of people apply this integrated body of knowledge to their lives and relationships. A special thank you to my academic mentor Dr. Allen who taught me how to apply this body of knowledge and encouraged me to carry the work forward. Personally, I'm blessed to be married to an extraordinary Masculine Energy man that I received as a result of applying this knowledge to my own life. After a decade of full-time private practice I have evolved to offering transformational education, on-line intensives and resources. To learn more visit us at LoveBravelyAcademy.comLet's explore how we can support you right now on your relationship journey.