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The Basic Bitch
This is your PRIMARY ARCHETYPE, however most women can see parts of themselves in all 4 archetypes - The Mother Hustler, Basic Bitch, The Control Freak & The Good Girl(check your email for a complete breakdown of all the archetypes)YOUR PRIMARY 👉 THE BASIC BITCHThe Basic Bitch wants so much to fit in and be accepted that she ends up becoming like everyone else to belong.She lost herself long ago and while desires to be loved and accepted for who she is, she doesn’t actually know the real her.Her fear of being ordinary makes her constantly afraid she isn’t enough, so she’s always striving to be better in all areas, however this perfection chasing and people pleasing makes her exactly what she fears - basic and boring.She’s afraid to embrace and share the imperfect, quirky, silly, messy parts of herself so know one can really get to know and love the real her…because of this she often feels alone, misunderstood, and unseen, and..her desire to belong keeps her stuck in mediocrityShe’s afraid of rising above the crowd, being judged for wanting more, or being accused of thinking she’s “better than others” so she subconsciously plays smalls and holds herself backShe judges herself harsher than anyone elseShe lets external circumstances and other’s opinions determine her self worth, even though she “knows” betterShe’s starting to realize that her life isn’t her own, that many of her relationships are shallow, and that she might never get to know, celebrate, and appreciate the REAL her.Her desire to know herself well and be herself fully is beginning to crowd out her desire to belong.She doesn’t know how to separate the “real her” from the woman the world has shaped her to become but she’s ready to figure it out.THE BASIC BITCH is LONGING FOR MORE: SELF LOVE- acceptance of who she really is- self expression, connection, and courage to be the real her- deeper relationships, realness, and authenticity - passion, excitement, energy, and FUN - feelings of presence, knowing, and certainty- confidence and courage to be the real her- wild, ‘reckless’ imperfect, bold action - freedom from other’s opinions, judgements, or beliefs- self knowing, self trust, and self leadership instead of asking the world who to beSIGNS + SYMPTOMS of a BASIC BITCH:- worried about fitting in, getting it right or being accepted - not sure what YOU actually want- don’t trust yourself and tend to ask others input before making decisions- flip flop, change your mind, and feel confused and uncertain, often- judge yourself harshly- lets external markers of success determine your worth- ridiculously high standards for yourself in all areas- afraid of people misunderstanding you- feel alone, misunderstood, and unseenHE LIE DRIVING THE BASIC BITCH:“If I blend in and stay agreeable, I’ll belong.”THE PATTERN:Disowning her weird, wild edges to avoid rejection. Performs likability instead of radiating authenticity.THE COST:Disowning her weird, wild edges to avoid rejection. Performs likability instead of radiating authenticity.THE BREAKTHROUGH TRUTH:Disowning her weird, wild edges to avoid rejection. Performs likability instead of radiating authenticity.The quiz revealed what your pain is trying to teach you... now it's time to do something about it.The quiz revealed what your pain is trying to teach you... now it's time to do something about it.And before your mind jumps into what to fix, change or how to “apply” this insight ...pause.Whether you’re the Good Girl, Control Freak, Basic Bitch, or Mother Hustler, knowing your archetype isn’t the same as understanding how it’s been running your life.The next step is being able to see it clearly and how it shows up in your day-to-day decisions, your marriage, parenting, work, and ability to create the life and results you know you're meant for.Without deeper context and understanding, nothing changes. You need to understand where this conditioning is holding you back, how the other 3 archetypes show up in your life (because you carry pieces of each), and how to let your true self, the guid-ess within, take the reigns.You abandoned a lot of yourself to get ahead, reclaiming it all is what comes next.it's time to reclaim it all You don't need another thing to "be better" at.You need to break the blind allegiance to the patterns you think make you safe & successful, but only hold you back. You need to reclaim the relationship with yourself and with all the things you thought you had to sacrifice to get ahead.THE RECLAIM IT ALL 4 PART AUDIO SERIES IS HOW YOU BEGIN4 audio trainings (20–30 min each):One for every archetype. Listen to yours (and the others you see yourself in).Each audio helps you:💥 See the core lie driving the archetype💥 Understand the truth that helps dismantle it💥 Shift your perspective so you can recognize the pattern while it's happening💥 Practice a simple interruption that creates immediate relief 💥 Remember who you are and what you want beneath the conditioning This is NOT another fluffy pep talk.It’s a deeper way of understanding how you were trained to survive, succeed, and stay acceptable...and how to begin loosening those patterns so your life can start to feel like it actually belongs to you.Inside Reclaim It All you will... 💥Learn exactly how each archetype drains your time, energy, money, and joy💥See the real cost of continuing to live by the patterns that built your current life💥Begin interrupting those patterns without blowing everything up or starting life over.Each audio is 20–30 minutes.Short. Potent. No fluff. No homework.Just clarity, awareness, and a new way of relating to yourself that creates space to breathe again.You’ll walk away with:💥A clearer understanding of the rules you've outgrown💥A powerful reframe that dissolves guilt, self-doubt, and confusion💥A grounded way to start honoring your desires without forcing change💥And this truth: it's not your fault but what comes next is your responsibility CHECKOUT THE RECLAIM IT ALL AUDIO SERIES NOW👇🏻
