Relationship Readiness Quiz

Image Source

Quiz Questions

1.
My Vision, Values, and Life Purpose (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I have a clear vision of what I want for my life and my future relationship
- B.
  I am clear about my core values and live by them
- C.
  I have clearly defined my life purpose and put it into action
2.
My Relationship Requirements (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I know what I will not tolerate in a relationship
- B.
  I am clear about what personality/character traits and qualities I most value in a partner
- C.
  I know that only I can be responsible for my own life and happiness
3.
My Relationship Needs (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I am clear about my boundaries and how to enforce them to get my needs met
- B.
  I am comfortable asking for what I need and want and taking responsibility for the outcome
- C.
  I do not expect a relationship to meet all my needs and make me happy
4.
My Relationship Patterns (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I understand which positive and negative relationship patterns I risk repeating
- B.
  I am aware of habits, patterns, and values I have inherited from my family
- C.
  I understand what did and didn’t work for me in previous relationships
5.
My Emotions (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I am aware of and own, my emotional issues when they arise in a relationship
- B.
  I have forgiven people who have hurt me
- C.
  I can/have forgive (en) myself for my past mistakes
6.
My Communication (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I deal positively with misunderstandings and disagreements when they occur
- B.
  I regularly practice active listening, give validation, and express appreciation
- C.
  I clearly communicate what I want and need; I don’t make people guess
7.
My Community (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I spend my social time with healthy, happy, emotionally stable people
- B.
  I am aware of how I come across and affect others
- C.
  I am a member of two or more communities (hobby, spiritual, professional, etc)
8.
My Lifestyle (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I am satisfied with my work/career
- B.
  I have no substantial financial or legal problems
- C.
  I am happy and content with being single
9.
My Dating Patterns (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I do not expect my relationships to “rescue” me from emotional or financial problems
- B.
  I am authentic and do not try to make myself more appealing to attract a partner
- C.
  I do not interpret infatuation, attraction, attachment, and/or good sex, as ”Love”
10.
My Relationship Plan (Select all that are true).
Image Source
- A.
  I am clear on whether I am seeking a short-term recreational relationship or am ready to seek a long-term committed relationship
- B.
  I effectively disengage from prospective partners who are not a fit for me
- C.
  I am balancing my partner search with investing in myself and living my vision

Quiz Outcomes

1.
You're Off To A Good Start!
Image Source
Woot woot — you did it, friend! By completing this quiz, you've shown your commitment to striving to be more conscious about your readiness for a meaningful, long-lasting relationship. According to your responses, you are on your way to healthier, happier relationships but there are a few things to focus on along your journey.Now let me fill you in on what that actually means...Although you are off to a good start, you still might find yourself struggling. Putting yourself out there can be daunting. Especially if it’s been some time since you’ve been in a relationship or negative dating experiences are clouding your judgment. But there's nothing to fear, friend, there are skills you can learn to become more resilient and ready for love.How to Strengthen Your Relationship Readiness and Build a Life You Love1. Start with Awareness Start by simply taking stock of your dating mindset and motives. This can help put things into perspective. This is the time to focus on what you want and need in your life. Take the time to appreciate yourself,  get in touch with your emotions and purpose, and get clear on the vision you have for your future.2. Take a Proactive Approach to HealingHealing takes time. Getting comfortable with your independence is good for your healing journey. This is when your goals, dreams, and perspectives become a priority again. Seek out relationship resources and support to help you along the way.3. Seek Support Where You Need It Relationships come with all sorts of ups and downs. Seek out healthy relationship resources and support to help make wise choices along the way. Every great relationship has the right team to provide guidance and expertise. Who Am I to Tell You How to Navigate Your Dating Life? Let Me Fill You In.Hey there, I'm April Nowlin, a Divorce Recovery and Dating Coach. I support ambitious, professional women (just like you) in creating a personalized dating strategy that empowers them to be in a position for a meaningful, lasting relationship. From careers to romantic relationships, our current circumstances are a result of our choices. Once we begin to make wiser choices, we lead healthier, and more confident lives. Then, we can start visualizing and planning for the relationships we deserve.After three failed marriages, I had no clue what I wanted in a future relationship. I just knew I didn't want to date anyone who reminded me of my previous husbands. Getting back out there was terrifying and I made several mistakes along my journey. It finally occurred to me that if I wanted a healthy relationship, I had to change everything I knew about dating. If you’ve tried the apps and the blind dates to no avail. If you’re tired of getting the same results, instead of hoping and praying that life will change, let’s spend some time together focusing on practical steps that help you do relationships differently.Ready to take the next step? Kickstart your transformation with a no-cost 30-minute discovery call.CHAT WITH MELet's Connect: YouTube | LinkTree | Facebook | Instagram | Website P.S. Expect to See Me in Your Inbox Soon (But Not Too Often) With More Tips to Help You Do Dating Differently.
2.
You're On Your Way!
Image Source
Woot woot — you did it, friend! By completing this quiz, you've shown your commitment to striving to be more conscious about your readiness for a meaningful, long-lasting relationship. According to your responses, you are on your way to healthier, happier relationships but there are a few things to focus on along your journey. Now let me fill you in on what that actually means... You are well on your way to the life and relationship you really want! There is no such thing as being perfectly ready. What matters is that you are clear and conscious about whether or not you're currently (meaning NOW) ready for the relationship of your dreams. How to Strengthen Your Relationship Readiness and Build a Life You Love 1. Start with Awareness Start by simply taking stock of your dating mindset and motives. This can help put things into perspective. This is the time to focus on what you want and need in your life. Take the time to appreciate yourself and get in touch with your emotions, seek purpose, and get clear on the vision you have for your relationships. 2. Take a Proactive Approach to Growing Growing takes time and is a never-ending process. As you begin or continue your relationship journey get solid on your goals, dreams, and desires to ensure they stay a priority. The concept of growing individually in a relationship means that you are getting better in all areas of your life. Don’t forget about yourself, as you become “we”. 3. Seek Support Where You Need It Relationships come with all sorts of ups and downs. Seek out healthy relationship resources and support to help make wise choices along the way. Every great relationship has the right team to provide guidance and expertise. Who Am I to Tell You How to Navigate Your Dating Life? Let Me Fill You In.Hey there, I'm April Nowlin, a Divorce Recovery and Dating Coach. I support ambitious, professional women (just like you) in creating a personalized dating strategy that empowers them to be in a position for a meaningful, lasting relationship. From careers to romantic relationships, our current circumstances are a result of our choices. Once we begin to make wiser choices, we lead healthier, and more confident lives. Then, we can start visualizing and planning for the relationships we deserve.After three failed marriages, I had no clue what I wanted in a future relationship. I just knew I didn't want to date anyone who reminded me of my previous husbands. Getting back out there was terrifying and I made several mistakes along my journey. It finally occurred to me that if I wanted a healthy relationship, I had to change everything I knew about dating. If you’ve tried the apps and the blind dates to no avail. If you’re tired of getting the same results, instead of hoping and praying that life will change, let’s spend some time together focusing on practical steps that help you do relationships differently.Ready to take the next step? Kickstart your transformation with a no-cost 30-minute discovery call.CHAT WITH MELet's Connect: YouTube | LinkTree | Facebook | Instagram | Website P.S. Expect to See Me in Your Inbox Soon (But Not Too Often) With More Tips to Help You Do Dating Differently.
3.
You've Got The Green Light!
Image Source
Woot woot — you did it, friend! By completing this quiz, you've shown your commitment to striving to be more conscious about your readiness for a meaningful, long-lasting relationship. According to your responses, you are on your way to healthier, happier relationships but there are a few things to focus on along your journey.Now let me fill you in on what that actually means...You are well on your way to the life and relationship you really want! There is no such thing as being perfectly ready. What matters is that you are clear and conscious about whether or not you're currently (meaning NOW) ready for the relationship of your dreams.How to Strengthen Your Relationship Readiness and Build a Life You Love1. Start with Awareness Start by simply taking stock of your dating mindset and motives. This can help put things into perspective. This is the time to focus on what you want and need in your life. Take the time to appreciate yourself and get in touch with your emotions, seek purpose, and get clear on the vision you have for your relationships.2. Take a Proactive Approach to Growing Growing takes time and is a never-ending process. As you begin or continue your relationship journey get solid on your goals, dreams, and desires to ensure they stay a priority. The concept of growing individually in a relationship means that you are getting better in all areas of your life. Don’t forget about yourself, as you become “we”.3. Seek Support Where You Need It Relationships come with all sorts of ups and downs. Seek out healthy relationship resources and support to help make wise choices along the way. Every great relationship has the right team to provide guidance and expertise. Who Am I to Tell You How to Navigate Your Dating Life? Let Me Fill You In.Hey there, I'm April Nowlin, a Divorce Recovery and Dating Coach. I support ambitious, professional women (just like you) in creating a personalized dating strategy that empowers them to be in a position for a meaningful, lasting relationship. From careers to romantic relationships, our current circumstances are a result of our choices. Once we begin to make wiser choices, we lead healthier, and more confident lives. Then, we can start visualizing and planning for the relationships we deserve.After three failed marriages, I had no clue what I wanted in a future relationship. I just knew I didn't want to date anyone who reminded me of my previous husbands. Getting back out there was terrifying and I made several mistakes along my journey. It finally occurred to me that if I wanted a healthy relationship, I had to change everything I knew about dating. If you’ve tried the apps and the blind dates to no avail. If you’re tired of getting the same results, instead of hoping and praying that life will change, let’s spend some time together focusing on practical steps that help you do relationships differently.Ready to take the next step? Kickstart your transformation with a no-cost 30-minute discovery call.CHAT WITH MELet's Connect: YouTube | LinkTree | Facebook | Instagram | Website P.S. Expect to See Me in Your Inbox Soon (But Not Too Often) With More Tips to Help You Do Dating Differently.