What's Your Dating Style?

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Quiz Questions

1.
On your first date, what's the first thing you want to know about him?
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- A.
  What kind of projects he's working on and see if there's any way you can help him (so you can show him how much you have to offer)?
- B.
  If he has his shit together bc you really aren't trying to support a grown ass man.
- C.
  If he likes you and is interested in you as much as you're into him.
- D.
  What's his favorite pizza spot?
2.
Do you tend to plan most of the dates?
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- A.
  If you want it done right, you have to do it yourself.
- B.
  I don't want to put anyone out, so I'm happy to do it.
- C.
  I don't mind doing it sometimes, but I really do like when a man takes the lead in planning dates.
- D.
  Date planning stresses me out.
3.
When the guy you're dating doesn't text you back, what do you do?
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- A.
  Huh? He didn't text back? You're so busy going on other dates that you didn't even notice.
- B.
  You immediately assume he's no longer interested in you and start questioning what you did wrong.
- C.
  You double text to make sure he's ok and if he needs anything.
- D.
  Not on your watch! You text him back and let him know it's not ok to keep you hanging like that.
4.
You feel confident communicating your personal boundaries...
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- A.
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  If someone crosses my boundaries, I usually let them know!
- B.
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  I rarely confront people even if they're making me feel uncomfortable.
5.
You and your significant other got into a fight. How do you fix it?
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- A.
  I take all responsibility for the fight, because chances are it was my fault anyway, and ask him, how I can fix it?!
- B.
  I apologize for hurting his feelings, calmly explain my perspective, and then work towards a solution together.
- C.
  I beg him not to hate me. I'll do whatever it takes to not lose him!
- D.
  I tell him I can't deal with the drama and hit the road. Maybe some time apart will cool things down.
6.
How do you feel about space in a relationship?
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- A.
  I don't know what to do with all this time... Maybe I can surprise him with a home cooked meal.
- B.
  Space is great. I have work projects that I can finally get ahead of.
- C.
  Space makes me really uncomfortable. What if he forgets me or starts talking to someone else?!
- D.
  It's important that I continue to go to the gym and grab drinks with my bestie even if I'm dating someone.
7.
The check comes, and your date offers to pay it. You...
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- A.
  Say "thank you", and graciously accept.
- B.
  Offer to split the bill. You don't want him to think you can't take care of yourself.
- C.
  You quickly grab it and pay for the whole thing.
- D.
  Start getting anxious and avoid eye contact because you don't know what to do.
8.
During your date...
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- A.
  You feel relaxed and are focused on getting to know your date.
- B.
  You're in your head, wondering if you have food stuck in your teeth or if this guy is the "one".
- C.
  You're wondering how you can integrate yourself into his life.
- D.
  You're going through your "to-do" list in your head after the date is over.
9.
After 3-5 dates in...
- A.
  You've started to text/call more often and plan majority of the dates.
- B.
  You're convinced the relationship is about to fizzle out and you won't see him again.
- C.
  You're enjoying getting to know him but still open to meeting other men.
- D.
  You've Googled some of your dates interests/hobbies and are trying to figure out how to join in/stop by.
10.
Once the date ends...
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- A.
  Smile and thank him for a great time.
- B.
  Smile, thank him for a great time, and ask him when you'll see him again.
- C.
  Smile, thank him for a great time, and let him know you'd like to see him again.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Your dating style is... Boss Babe
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Hi, love! According to your responses, your dominant dating style is Boss Babe. You're ambitious, high-achieving, and aren't afraid to roll up your sleeves to get the job done. You have a big heart and tend to love with your whole heart.In your romantic relationships you tend to take charge and usually call the shots. When you do this, you're operating in masculine energy. Although this "doing" energy is great for your career, it's actually blocking you from meeting men that are emotionally available and looking for long-term partnership.Based on the Law of Polarity, the masculine and feminine energies are designed to complete and complement one another. The masculine and feminine are the yin and yang of relationship. Men and women have BOTH the masculine and feminine energies but when/how/where you use these energies depends on the situation you're in.When a woman is in her masculine energy in a romantic relationship, she is subconsciously signaling to her partner that she doesn't trust him to be the protector/provider type or make her happy. This makes the man feel emasculated and he will quickly move on to a woman where he can lead in the relationship.When a woman is in her Empowered Feminine, she is able to get a man out of his head and into his heart. She is soft, present, in touch with who she is and comfortable expressing her emotions. As she expresses her vulnerability in a relationship, she inspires him to also open up. This is how he falls in love with her.Being stuck in your masculine isn't a death sentence. With practice you can learn how to balance your masculine and feminine energies depending on whether you're at work or on a date.Three Tools to Balance Your Masculine and Feminine Energy1. Lean into Your IntuitionGive your analytical "doing" brain a break by tuning into your body's innate wisdom. The next time you feel a twinge in your gut, listen to what it's telling you, and, over time, those impulses will become stronger. Meditation is a great tool you can use to practice deepening your intuition. Insight Timer is a free app that you can download and jumpstart your meditation practice.2. Get Creative Whether it's writing, singing, dancing, or painting, set time aside every day to express your creativity. It doesn't need to be a Picasso level masterpiece! Just lean back, relax, and see where it takes you. The goal here is to get present and connect with yourself.3. Embrace Your EmotionsIf you've been pushing them down, it's time to let all your emotions (even the heavy ones) surface. If you struggle with processing your emotions, I would recommend journaling. Here's a few prompts to get you started:What emotion am I avoiding to feel right now?What am I making this emotion mean about myself?How do I want to intentionally feel about myself?Communicating how you feel is healthy for your body and mind and can balance your masculine energy.Hi! Let Me Introduce Myself...Hey there, and welcome — I'm Sy, Dating & Relationship Coach. I'm passionate about helping women deepen their self-worth, become more confident on their dating journey, and find the love of their life.Nothing makes me happier than seeing my clients fully step into their power and own who they are, heal their dating patterns, level up their standards (in life and in love), and start embodying their divine Feminine Energy!Looking for a Little Extra Guidance? Check Out These Resources1.Check out my Dating Done Right Podcast! Dating Done Right is your go to podcast for high-achieving women where we chat about all things dating, confidence, and inner-healing. I'll show you exactly how to get dating done right so that you can find your person and finally have the relationship of your dreams. 2. Follow me on TikTok! Let's be friend over on TikTok @sythelovecoach. I share daily dating tips and hacks to help you become more confident, mange your mindset, and adjust your relationship energetics so that you can get AND keep the guy!3. Work with me! If you're ready to get started ASAP and want to do dating differently, so that you can get different results, click here to learn more about Courageous In Love. This is my transformational group coaching program designed to give you the curriculum, coaching, and community you need to find & keep the love of your life.Psst... Check Your Inbox, and You'll Find A Message From Me With More Dating & Relationship Tips
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Your dating type is... Savior
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Hi, love! According to your responses, your dominant dating style is Savior. You're a giver, love big, and love to solve problems.Your relationship superpower is your kindness and generosity. Acts of service is your love language and you really love to nurture & spoil your partner. What this means in your romantic relationships is that you may struggle with self-esteem, have a hard time asking for what you need, or setting boundaries. You're most likely operating in the wounded feminine energy. The wounded feminine struggles with her femininity and often feels powerless.Based on the Law of Polarity, the masculine and feminine energies are designed to complete and complement one another. The masculine and feminine are the yin and yang of relationship. Men and women have BOTH the masculine and feminine energies but when/how/where you use these energies depends on the situation you're in.When a woman is in her wounded feminine in a romantic relationship, she is jealous, insecure, and has her guard up. With her walls up, she's untrusting and unable to authentically open up to her partner and be vulnerable. When a woman is in her Empowered Feminine, she is able to get a man out of his head and into his heart. She is soft, present, in touch with who she is and comfortable expressing her emotions. As she expresses her vulnerability in a relationship, she inspires him to also open up. This is how he falls in love with her.Being stuck in your wounded feminine isn't a death sentence. With practice you can learn how to balance your masculine and feminine energies depending on whether you're at work or on a date.Three Tools to Balance Your Masculine and Feminine Energy1. Lean into Your IntuitionGive your analytical "doing" brain a break by tuning into your body's innate wisdom. The next time you feel a twinge in your gut, listen to what it's telling you, and, over time, those impulses will become stronger. Meditation is a great tool you can use to practice deepening your intuition. Insight Timer is a free app that you can download and jumpstart your meditation practice.2. Get Creative Whether it's writing, singing, dancing, or painting, set time aside every day to express your creativity. It doesn't need to be a Picasso level masterpiece! Just lean back, relax, and see where it takes you. The goal here is to get present and connect with yourself.3. Embrace Your EmotionsIf you've been pushing them down, it's time to let all your emotions (even the heavy ones) surface. If you struggle with processing your emotions, I would recommend journaling. Here's a few prompts to get you started:What emotion am I avoiding to feel right now?What am I making this emotion mean about myself?How do I want to intentionally feel about myself?Communicating how you feel is healthy for your body and mind and can balance your masculine energy.Hi! Let Me Introduce Myself...Hey there, and welcome — I'm Sy, Dating & Relationship Coach. I'm passionate about helping women deepen their self-worth, become more confident on their dating journey, and find the love of their life.Nothing makes me happier than seeing my clients fully step into their power and own who they are, heal their dating patterns, level up their standards (in life and in love), and start embodying their divine Feminine Energy!Looking for a Little Extra Guidance? Check Out These Resources1.Check out my Dating Done Right Podcast! Dating Done Right is your go to podcast for high-achieving women where we chat about all things dating, confidence, and inner-healing. I'll show you exactly how to get dating done right so that you can find your person and finally have the relationship of your dreams. 2. Follow me on TikTok! Let's be friend over on TikTok @sythelovecoach. I share daily dating tips and hacks to help you become more confident, mange your mindset, and adjust your relationship energetics so that you can get AND keep the guy!3. Work with me! If you're ready to get started ASAP and want to do dating differently, so that you can get different results, click here to learn more about Courageous In Love. This is my transformational group coaching program designed to give you the curriculum, coaching, and community you need to find & keep the love of your life.Psst... Check Your Inbox, and You'll Find A Message From Me With More Dating & Relationship Tips
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Your dating type is... Anxious
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Hi, love! According to your responses, your dominant dating style is Anxious. This often stems from having an anxious attachment style - you may tend to internalize what you perceive to be a lack of affection and intimacy as not being “worthy of love,” may intensely fear rejection, and are hypervigilant.What this means in your romantic relationships is that you may struggle with self-esteem, have a hard time asking for what you need, or have little capacity to actually hold your feelings and emotions, often letting them overflow or explode. When you do this, you're operating in wounded feminine energy. The wounded feminine struggles with her femininity and often feels powerless.Based on the Law of Polarity, the masculine and feminine energies are designed to complete and complement one another. The masculine and feminine are the yin and yang of relationship. Men and women have BOTH the masculine and feminine energies but when/how/where you use these energies depends on the situation you're in.When a woman is in her wounded feminine in a romantic relationship, she is jealous, insecure, and has her guard up. With her walls up, she's untrusting and unable to authentically open up to her partner and be vulnerable. When a woman is in her Empowered Feminine, she is able to get a man out of his head and into his heart. She is soft, present, in touch with who she is and comfortable expressing her emotions. As she expresses her vulnerability in a relationship, she inspires him to also open up. This is how he falls in love with her.Being stuck in your wounded feminine isn't a death sentence. With practice you can learn how to balance your masculine and feminine energies depending on whether you're at work or on a date.Three Tools to Balance Your Masculine and Feminine Energy1. Lean into Your IntuitionGive your analytical "doing" brain a break by tuning into your body's innate wisdom. The next time you feel a twinge in your gut, listen to what it's telling you, and, over time, those impulses will become stronger. Meditation is a great tool you can use to practice deepening your intuition. Insight Timer is a free app that you can download and jumpstart your meditation practice.2. Get Creative Whether it's writing, singing, dancing, or painting, set time aside every day to express your creativity. It doesn't need to be a Picasso level masterpiece! Just lean back, relax, and see where it takes you. The goal here is to get present and connect with yourself.3. Embrace Your EmotionsIf you've been pushing them down, it's time to let all your emotions (even the heavy ones) surface. If you struggle with processing your emotions, I would recommend journaling. Here's a few prompts to get you started:What emotion am I avoiding to feel right now?What am I making this emotion mean about myself?How do I want to intentionally feel about myself?Communicating how you feel is healthy for your body and mind and can balance your masculine energy.Hi! Let Me Introduce Myself...Hey there, and welcome — I'm Sy, Dating & Relationship Coach. I'm passionate about helping women deepen their self-worth, become more confident on their dating journey, and find the love of their life.Nothing makes me happier than seeing my clients fully step into their power and own who they are, heal their dating patterns, level up their standards (in life and in love), and start embodying their divine Feminine Energy!Looking for a Little Extra Guidance? Check Out These Resources1.Check out my Dating Done Right Podcast! Dating Done Right is your go to podcast for high-achieving women where we chat about all things dating, confidence, and inner-healing. I'll show you exactly how to get dating done right so that you can find your person and finally have the relationship of your dreams. 2. Follow me on TikTok! Let's be friend over on TikTok @sythelovecoach. I share daily dating tips and hacks to help you become more confident, mange your mindset, and adjust your relationship energetics so that you can get AND keep the guy!3. Work with me! If you're ready to get started ASAP and want to do dating differently, so that you can get different results, click here to learn more about Courageous In Love. This is my transformational group coaching program designed to give you the curriculum, coaching, and community you need to find & keep the love of your life.Psst... Check Your Inbox, and You'll Find A Message From Me With More Dating & Relationship Tips !
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Your dating type is... Secure
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Hi, love! According to your responses, your dominant dating style is Secure. You're comfortable both on your own and with others, and while you enjoy going on dates, you don't depend on the guy for your own wellbeing.In romantic relationships, you are confident in yourself. You don't worry about rejection or lose yourself in your partner's personality. You know your boundaries and how to express them without coming off cold. Based on your results, your masculine and feminine energies are mostly likely balanced and need to be maintained.Based on the Law of Polarity, the masculine and feminine energies are designed to complete and complement one another. The masculine and feminine are the yin and yang of relationship. Men and women have BOTH the masculine and feminine energies but when/how/where you use these energies depends on the situation you're in. When a woman is in her wounded feminine in a romantic relationship, she is jealous, insecure, and has her guard up. With her walls up, she's untrusting and unable to authentically open up to her partner and be vulnerable. When a woman is in her Empowered Feminine, she is able to get a man out of his head and into his heart. She is soft, present, in touch with who she is and comfortable expressing her emotions. As she expresses her vulnerability in a relationship, she inspires him to also open up. This is how he falls in love with her. With practice you can learn how to balance your masculine and feminine energies depending on whether you're at work or on a date.Three Tools to Balance Your Masculine and Feminine Energy1. Lean into Your IntuitionGive your analytical "doing" brain a break by tuning into your body's innate wisdom. The next time you feel a twinge in your gut, listen to what it's telling you, and, over time, those impulses will become stronger. Meditation is a great tool you can use to practice deepening your intuition. Insight Timer is a free app that you can download and jumpstart your meditation practice.2. Get Creative Whether it's writing, singing, dancing, or painting, set time aside every day to express your creativity. It doesn't need to be a Picasso level masterpiece! Just lean back, relax, and see where it takes you. The goal here is to get present and connect with yourself.3. Embrace Your EmotionsIf you've been pushing them down, it's time to let all your emotions (even the heavy ones) surface. If you struggle with processing your emotions, I would recommend journaling. Here's a few prompts to get you started:What emotion am I avoiding to feel right now?What am I making this emotion mean about myself?How do I want to intentionally feel about myself?Communicating how you feel is healthy for your body and mind and can balance your masculine energy.Hi! Let Me Introduce Myself...Hey there, and welcome — I'm Sy, Dating & Relationship Coach. I'm passionate about helping women deepen their self-worth, become more confident on their dating journey, and find the love of their life.Nothing makes me happier than seeing my clients fully step into their power and own who they are, heal their dating patterns, level up their standards (in life and in love), and start embodying their divine Feminine Energy!Looking for a Little Extra Guidance? Check Out These Resources1.Check out my Dating Done Right Podcast! Dating Done Right is your go to podcast for high-achieving women where we chat about all things dating, confidence, and inner-healing. I'll show you exactly how to get dating done right so that you can find your person and finally have the relationship of your dreams. 2. Follow me on TikTok! Let's be friend over on TikTok @sythelovecoach. I share daily dating tips and hacks to help you become more confident, mange your mindset, and adjust your relationship energetics so that you can get AND keep the guy!3. Work with me! If you're ready to get started ASAP and want to do dating differently, so that you can get different results, click here to learn more about Courageous In Love. This is my transformational group coaching program designed to give you the curriculum, coaching, and community you need to find & keep the love of your life.Psst... Check Your Inbox, and You'll Find A Message From Me With More Dating & Relationship Tips

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