Is Your Partner a Narcissist?

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Quiz Questions

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How does your partner view themselves?
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- A.
  They see themselves as superior to others and deserve special treatment.
- B.
  They sometimes boast, but I don't think they believe they're better than everyone.
- C.
  They're humble and see themselves as equal to others.
2.
Do they frequently talk about their achievements or expect constant praise?
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  Yes, they are always talking about their successes and need to be admired.
- B.
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  Occasionally—they like to be acknowledged but aren’t excessive about it.
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  No, they don’t seek attention or praise often.
3.
How does your partner respond to your emotional needs?
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- A.
  They dismiss my feelings and make everything about them.
- B.
  They try to be supportive but struggle to connect emotionally.
- C.
  They are empathetic and care about how I feel.
4.
Does your partner acknowledge when they’ve hurt you?
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- A.
  Rarely—they either deny it, blame me, or turn the situation around to make themselves the victim.
- B.
  Sometimes—they apologize, but it doesn’t feel genuine or lasting.
- C.
  Yes, they apologize and try to make amends.
5.
How does your partner react to other people’s emotions or hardships?
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- A.
  They seem indifferent or irritated, often lacking empathy for others
- B.
  They try to show concern but can seem detached or uninterested
- C.
  They are compassionate and offer help when others are in need.
6.
Does your partner expect you to put their needs ahead of your own?
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- A.
  Yes, it feels like my needs don’t matter, and I’m always catering to them.
- B.
  Sometimes—they expect me to prioritize them but not always.
- C.
  No, they respect my needs and encourage balance in our relationship.
7.
Do you feel as though your partner tries to control you or the relationship?
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  Yes, they control my actions, choices, and decisions in big and small ways.
- B.
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  Occasionally—they can be overbearing but don’t completely control me.
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  No, they respect my independence and decisions.
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Does your partner expect special treatment or get angry when they don’t receive it?
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- A.
  Yes, they believe they deserve more and get upset when things don’t go their way.
- B.
  Occasionally—they get annoyed, but it’s not a constant issue.
- C.
  No, they don’t have unreasonable expectations.
9.
How does your partner handle criticism or feedback?
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- A.
  They become extremely defensive, angry, or lash out when criticized.
- B.
  They get upset but eventually cool down and listen.
- C.
  They accept feedback calmly and use it to improve.
10.
Does your partner believe they are always right or have trouble admitting fault?
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  Yes, they never admit when they’re wrong and blame others.
- B.
  Sometimes—they struggle to take responsibility but eventually do.
- C.
  No, they admit mistakes and take responsibility.
11.
Does your partner constantly seek validation from you or others?
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  Yes, they need to be the center of attention and constantly seek admiration.
- B.
  Occasionally—they look for validation but not excessively.
- C.
  No, they don’t seem to need constant reassurance.

Quiz Outcomes

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Result 1
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Your partner likely exhibits strong narcissistic tendencies. The patterns of control, lack of empathy, and manipulative behaviors suggest that you may be in a relationship with a narcissist. It’s important to take these warning signs seriously, as narcissistic abuse can be emotionally and psychologically damaging. Consider seeking help from a professional coach or counselor to explore your options for healing and reclaiming your power.If you are ready to learn more, check out my webinar, "So They Are A Narcissist. Now What?"
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Result 2
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Your partner may have some narcissistic traits or tendencies, but it’s not clear if they meet the full criteria for narcissism. However, these red flags should not be ignored, as they may still create unhealthy dynamics in your relationship. Reflect on whether your needs are being met and whether the relationship is truly serving your well-being.If you are ready to learn more, check out my webinar, "So They Are A Narcissist. Now What?"
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Result 3
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Your partner does not appear to exhibit significant narcissistic behaviors, and your relationship seems relatively healthy. It’s important to continue fostering mutual respect and emotional support in the relationship. However, if you ever notice changes or warning signs, trust your instincts and seek support.