What role do you play in love?

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Quiz Questions

1.
What is your current relationship status?
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- A.
  Single and searching for connection.
- B.
  Dating but haven't found anyone special.
- C.
  Currently in a situationship trying to make it work.
- D.
  It's complicated.
- E.
  Dating exclusively but without a title.
- F.
  In a relationship, but feeling unfulfilled.
- G.
  In a relationship and feeling pretty good.
2.
How do your relationships normally end?
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- A.
  With a sense of longing for more.
- B.
  Feeling like I gave too much.
- C.
  Mutual understanding and growth.
- D.
  Feeling unsuccessful at love.
- E.
  He's fine...I'm the one who is left unhappy and hurt.
- F.
  He usually leaves me for someone else.
3.
What makes you most frustrated about your current relationship patterns?
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- A.
  Feeling like my needs are unfulfilled.
- B.
  Always being the one who cares too much.
- C.
  Always feeling like I have to pull teeth to get him to open up.
- D.
  Not being able to communicate.
- E.
  I get tired of him not putting me first.
- F.
  Feeling like I'm not good enough.
- G.
  Wondering if I'm just unloveable.
4.
How do you feel about emotional availability in partners?
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- A.
  Emotional availability is essential but I rarely get it in the guys I date.
- B.
  I often find myself giving more than receiving.
- C.
  I seek partners who are great at expressing their feelings.
- D.
  I tend to date people who are just not there for me when I need them.
- E.
  I often date men who run at the sight of conflict.
5.
What do you dream about when it comes to relationships?
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- A.
  Being with someone who accepts me as I am.
- B.
  Being with a guy who makes me feel heard.
- C.
  Being with a guy who puts me first.
- D.
  Having a relationship that lasts.
- E.
  Having a guy who understands me.
6.
How does bae respond to you during an argument?
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- A.
  He listens and we work together to resolve the issue.
- B.
  He listens but then gets defensive and turns things around on me never discussing the issue.
- C.
  He doesn't respond. He shuts down and either mentally checks out or leaves.
- D.
  He starts to yell and it becomes a yelling match to be heard.
7.
How often do you feel your needs are met in relationships?
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- A.
  Never...I feel like they just don't get it.
- B.
  Rarely, I often feel unfulfilled.
- C.
  Sometimes, but I want more.
- D.
  Often, but it's never enough.
- E.
  Always, I ensure stability and security.
8.
What aspect of relationships makes you the most happy?
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- A.
  My boo being there for me when I need him.
- B.
  Having someone to be with because I prefer a relationship over being single.
- C.
  Having someone to talk and who gets me.
- D.
  The trust and safety we give to each other.
- E.
  Having a successful, happy, and fulfilling relationship.
9.
If you could choose any relationship trait, for your mate, which one would you choose and why?
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- A.
  Visionary, to create our dream relationship.
- B.
  Compassionate, be there for me when things between us get crazy.
- C.
  Adventurous, to explore new horizons together.
- D.
  Nurturer, to make sure my relationship needs are met.
- E.
  Communicator, to always keeps things on track in our relationship.
- F.
  Lover, always knowing when to offer love when I'm feeling insecure.
10.
How do you normally handle problems in your relationships?
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- A.
  I bring up the issue but it usually ends up with me yelling at bae.
- B.
  I bring up the issue where I present previous examples of my point to help him to understand me and how I feel.
- C.
  I bring up the issue but end up feeling unheard or misunderstood.
- D.
  I bring things up but then the guy normally ghosts me or ends the relationship.
- E.
  I bring up the issue in a calm manner and we work together to fix things.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Buoyant Believer
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Your Relationship Role is The Buoyant Believer. You yearn for love and connection, yet it feels like love has been slipping through your fingertips lately. While you remain hopeful, the more frogs you kiss, the more disheartened you may feel. You might find yourself caught in situationships, ambiguous relationships, or seemingly endless first dates. This can lead you to question your own lovability. But trust me, it's not you, sis. It could simply be your approach to love, dating and relationships that needs a refresh. A simple boost in your perspective on dating, love, and relationships might be all you need. We offer several resources that can support you on this journey. At Attachment University, we provide resources to develop a different approach to dating, love and relationships that will leave you feeling more confident and successful about your dating future.Follow Me on Social Media for Daily Healing TipsInstagram: @AttachmentUniversityLinkedIn: Dr. Saudia TwineFacebook: Attachment UniversityYou don't have to stay stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. Personal, Professional and Relational Success are possible. Security is possible. The love and life you want are possible.Welcome to Attachment University. Let's do this together. 💛
2.
The Love Livesaver
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Your Relationship Role is the Love Lifesaver. You go above and beyond to salvage the love in your relationship, but this often comes at a personal cost, leading you to find yourself in relationships that leave you feeling unfulfilled. While you easily give your love and support, it often comes at the cost of neglecting your own needs and your partner not reciprocating the same. You frequently feel unhappy because your partner doesn’t make you feel loved in the way you truly need. You probably drop hints of your true feelings, but without any lasting or meaningful change, or you may communicate in a way that causes an argument where he shuts down, leaving you feeling unheard, misunderstood and disconnected. Sis, you simply need a healthy way to express yourself without jeopardizing the relationship. At Attachment University, we provide resources to help you to achieve a balance between giving and receiving for a more fulfilling relationship.Follow Me on Social Media for Daily Healing TipsInstagram: @AttachmentUniversityLinkedIn: Dr. Saudia TwineFacebook: Attachment UniversityYou don't have to stay stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. Personal, Professional and Relational Success are possible. Security is possible. The love and life you want are possible.Welcome to Attachment University. Let's do this together. 💛
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The Dream Detective
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Your Relationship Role is The Dream Detective. You find it easy to enter into relationships, yet you often feel unfulfilled in them. You tend to shower your partner with love, but he struggles to reciprocate those feelings. You often choose men who are emotionally unavailable, unable to recognize or express their feelings, let alone share them with you. You've likely experimented with various methods to encourage your partner to open up, and you're no stranger to seeking ways to deepen your connection. You've probably tried it all: retreats, workshops, seminars, and more. You're on a mission to discover how to feel closer and more connected to bae. At Attachment University, we can help you turn your dreams into reality, fostering a relationship that fulfills your deepest desires, and creating a stronger connection in your relationship.Follow Me on Social Media for Daily Healing TipsInstagram: @AttachmentUniversityLinkedIn: Dr. Saudia TwineFacebook: Attachment UniversityYou don't have to stay stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. Personal, Professional and Relational Success are possible. Security is possible. The love and life you want are possible.Welcome to Attachment University. Let's do this together. 💛
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The Connection Connoisseur
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Your relationship archetype is The Connection Connoisseur. You may be feeling like you have struck gold in your relationship. You and bae excel at making each other your top priority, expressing love, and ensuring that each feels heard and understood. This is a beautiful thing to have and experience. You sis, are living the dream! Together, you've created a space where you feel safe and secure, relying on one another and knowing that support is always there when needed. While your relationship may not be flawless, it's pretty close to perfection because you complement each other beautifully. Keep up the great work! To support your intimacy and connection growth, at Attachment University we offer live events and other resources to support your focus on intimacy and connection.Follow Me on Social Media for Daily Healing TipsInstagram: @AttachmentUniversityLinkedIn: Dr. Saudia TwineFacebook: Attachment UniversityYou don't have to stay stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. Personal, Professional and Relational Success are possible. Security is possible. The love and life you want are possible.Welcome to Attachment University. Let's do this together. 💛

What role do you play in love?

Discover your unique relationship archetype and unlock the secrets to fulfilling connections. Take this quiz to gain insights into your relationship patterns and approaches to love to find the path to happier relationships. Perfect for those seeking emotional growth and understanding.

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