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Your Spending Type is… The Avoider!
🙈 When it comes to managing your money, your go-to strategy is: don’t look, don’t know. If you just ignore the numbers, maybe they’ll magically sort themselves out. (Spoiler alert: they won’t.)You might’ve grown up around guilt, fear, or shame when it came to money; maybe you were told it was greedy to want more, or selfish to save when others had less. Now, every time you open your banking app, it feels like a panic attack waiting to happen.Here’s the truth: ignoring your money doesn’t protect you. It traps you. And you deserve to feel safe, informed, and in control of your financial life.“Once I started paying attention to my money, it stopped controlling me.” — Lynn Richardson💡 3 Tips to Gently Rebuild Your Financial ConfidenceStart With a 5-Minute Money DateI get it, this gives you the ick...but you know you need it! Set a timer for five minutes. That’s it. Peek at your bank balance. Breathe through it. The goal isn’t action it’s exposure. Little by little, this rewires your fear response.Automate the Hard StuffUse automatic transfers to cover bills, savings, and even spending money. This means you don’t need to constantly touch your finances while still taking care of them.Use Set and Forget Tools, Not SpreadsheetsDitch the complex budget and work out what you need to pay when, then split your accounts so that your direct debits are separate from your spending. It can feel more empowering and less intimidating.Hi, I’m Phoebe Blamey: coach, podcaster bestselling author of The Happy Money Journey, and the founder of Australia’s most empowering financial education community for women over 40.I’m also an MBA graduate with over two decades of experience running an Award Winning Financial Services business. I hold a Graduate Certificate in Financial Planning, a Graduate Certificate in Applied Coaching, and am an ICF-accredited coach and I have used all that to help hundreds of women transform their relationship with money from chaos to clarity, and from shame to strategy.But don’t mistake me for someone who had it all figured out from the beginning.I’ve been broke, heartbroken, buried in debt, and waking up at 2am wondering how I was going to get through the next bill cycle. I know the shame of overdraft fees and the exhaustion of pretending you’ve got it together when your bank account says otherwise. I built this business not just because I can help but because I had to help. Because too many of us are stuck in survival mode, quietly drowning under the weight of everyone else’s needs.💸 I will show you how to reset your finances in 30 days...I created a 30 Day Spend Cleanse for the anyone who is looking for an easier way. You might have tried manifestation, affirmations, or journaling, yet you still feel stuck. Why? Because mindset work without money action is just a pretty distraction.The Spend Cleanse works because it’s 30 days of micro-movements that rewire your financial nervous system. It’s healing your money wounds and fixing your budget. It’s learning your spending type and setting boundaries. It’s tracking your choices, forgiving your patterns, and choosing better bit by bit, dollar by dollar.This isn’t about restriction. It’s about reclamation.And if you’re ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, avoidant or out of control... The Spend Cleanse is the reset button your bank balance (and your nervous system) has been waiting for.