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Your Spending Type is… The Avoider!
🙈 When it comes to managing your money, your go-to strategy is: don’t look, don’t know. If you just ignore the numbers, maybe they’ll magically sort themselves out. (Spoiler alert: they won’t.)You might’ve grown up around guilt, fear, or shame when it came to money; maybe you were told it was greedy to want more, or selfish to save when others had less. Now, every time you open your banking app, it feels like a panic attack waiting to happen.Here’s the truth: ignoring your money doesn’t protect you. It traps you. And you deserve to feel safe, informed, and in control of your financial life.“Once I started paying attention to my money, it stopped controlling me.” — Lynn Richardson💡 3 Tips to Gently Rebuild Your Financial ConfidenceStart With a 5-Minute Money DateI get it, this gives you the ick...but you know you need it! Set a timer for five minutes. That’s it. Peek at your bank balance. Breathe through it. The goal isn’t action it’s exposure. Little by little, this rewires your fear response.Automate the Hard StuffUse automatic transfers to cover bills, savings, and even spending money. This means you don’t need to constantly touch your finances while still taking care of them.Use Set and Forget Tools, Not SpreadsheetsDitch the complex budget and work out what you need to pay when, then split your accounts so that your direct debits are separate from your spending. It can feel more empowering and less intimidating.I am Phoebe Blamey and I have been where you are!You’re smart. You earn good money. You’ve built a career, maybe a business, maybe a family as well.And yet… your money still feels messier than it should.That’s the problem I help women solve.For more than 25 years I worked in financial services, 18 of those in an award-winning finance business. I helped people finance some of the biggest decisions of their lives and I got to see he difference between people who were good with money and those that are not.I’ve also been the woman lying awake at 2am wondering how the next bill cycle was going to work. I’ve felt the shame of overdraft fees and the quiet panic of trying to hold everything together while pretending everything was fine.So when I teach money now, it isn’t theory.It’s practical. It’s behavioural. It’s about how we actually manage money in complicated lives.Because safety and security doesn’t come from earning more.It comes from understanding your money behaviour and building systems that support the life you’re creating.That’s exactly what we do inside The Happy Money Society.It’s a space for capable, driven, busy people who want to feel calm, clear and even powerful with their money.Inside you’ll learn the habits, systems and financial skills that turn income into security, freedom and long-term wealth.If you’re ready to stop winging it with money and finally feel like you’re running the show, come and join us in The Happy Money Society.