Discover Your Feminine Sovereign Archetype

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Quiz Questions

1.
If your energy were a drink, what would it be?
- A.
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  A latte—dependable, but sometimes over-poured for others.
- B.
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  Herbal tea—gentle, comforting, and filled with potential.
- C.
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  A sparkling soda—bubbly and energetic.
- D.
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  A bold espresso—intentional, focused, and carefully measured.
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  A fine wine—elegant, balanced, and full-bodied.
2.
When making plans, I usually:
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- A.
  Focus on making sure everyone else is happy, even if it’s not what I want.
- B.
  Carefully explore whether it’s the right choice for everyone involved.
- C.
  Balance my needs with those of others and decide quickly.
- D.
  Take time to ensure it aligns with my energy and priorities.
- E.
  Confidently make plans that reflect my joy and values.
3.
When someone crosses a boundary I’ve set, I typically:
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- A.
  Feel guilty for bringing it up and I smooth things over to avoid conflict.
- B.
  Reassess whether the boundary was too much or not clear enough.
- C.
  Address it, but sometimes struggle to hold firm when it’s challenged.
- D.
  Step back completely to assess whether the relationship still feels safe.
- E.
  Calmly restate my boundary and hold firm.
4.
Be real: What’s your go-to vibe in a group setting?
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- A.
  I’ll take care of everyone—what does everyone need?
- B.
  I wonder if I’m saying the right things and if I’m connecting well.”
- C.
  I’m here to contribute and have fun.
- D.
  I’ll participate, but only where it feels worth my energy.
- E.
  I’m here to shine, inspire, and have fun on my terms.”
5.
When I think about my biggest fear in relationship, it’s usually
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- A.
  Being seen as selfish or unkind for prioritizing myself.
- B.
  Failing or not living up to my own expectations.
- C.
  Being taken advantage of despite my efforts to set boundaries.
- D.
  Letting someone in and getting hurt again.
- E.
  Losing balance and the sense of alignment I’ve worked hard to create.
6.
How would someone close to you describe your biggest strength?
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- A.
  My ability to care deeply for others.
- B.
  My thoughtfulness and ability to consider every perspective.
- C.
  My growing confidence in standing up for myself.
- D.
  My ability to create clear boundaries and protect my energy.
- E.
  My clarity and leadership skills.
7.
You’ve just been asked to lead a big group project. What’s your first thought?
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- A.
  “How can I make sure everyone is happy?”
- B.
  “I want to make sure I understand what’s expected before jumping in.”
- C.
  “I’ll step up and figure it out as I go.”
- D.
  “I’ll lead, but only after making sure the expectations align with my priorities.”
- E.
  “Let’s do this—I’m ready to lead with confidence.”
8.
What’s your Achilles’ heel when it comes to saying no?
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- A.
  I feel guilty and worry about letting people down.
- B.
  Feeling unsure if it’s okay to say no in the first place.
- C.
  I try to say no, but sometimes I give in when it’s tested.
- D.
  Avoiding confrontation by stepping back from the situation entirely.
- E.
  I have no problem saying no when it doesn’t align with my priorities.
9.
If your life were being celebrated with a party, how would you prepare for it?
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- A.
  I make sure everything is perfect for others, even if it’s exhausting.
- B.
  I’d focus on making sure everything feels aligned and welcoming.
- C.
  I ask for help but balance the needs of others with my own energy.
- D.
  I’d carefully plan who’s invited and make sure the event feels aligned with my values.
- E.
  I curate a meaningful and joyful celebration that reflects my growth.
10.
Imagine your past self as a guide on your journey. What would they say to you now?
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- A.
  “It’s okay to put yourself first—you’ve done enough for others.”
- B.
  “You’re learning to trust yourself—it’s okay to take your time.”
- C.
  “You’re stronger than you realize—keep standing up for yourself.”
- D.
  “You’ve done well to protect yourself—now it’s time to trust wisely.”
- E.
  “You’ve come so far—keep leading with grace and confidence.”
11.
When it comes to asking for help, I usually:
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- A.
  Avoid asking for help to avoid burdening others.
- B.
  Worry about whether I’m asking too much or if it’s okay to need support.
- C.
  Ask, but sometimes doubt how it will be received.
- D.
  Carefully evaluate who I can trust before reaching out.
- E.
  Confidently ask when I need support.
12.
What’s your “oops, I did it again” moment?
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- A.
  Saying yes even when I lack the energy.
- B.
  Thinking through every detail before making a decision and missing the moment.
- C.
  Letting someone push a boundary I set and regretting it later.
- D.
  Avoiding a situation entirely because it felt too risky.
- E.
  Taking on a lot but managing it with grace.
13.
When someone compliments me, I usually:
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  Downplay it or redirect the attention to them.
- B.
  Wonder if they really mean it or if I deserve it.
- C.
  Thank them but feel a little awkward.
- D.
  Accept it cautiously, making sure it feels genuine.
- E.
  Accept it fully, knowing it reflects my truth.
14.
Your friend asks for a last-minute favour that disrupts your plans. What do you do?
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  Say yes, even though it stresses me out.
- B.
  Agree but feel anxious about how it will affect everything else.
- C.
  Say yes but explain that I can only help within certain limits.
- D.
  Decline politely, knowing I need to prioritize my plans.
- E.
  Politely but firmly say no, ensuring my needs remain my priority.
15.
You’re feeling emotionally drained after a tough conversation. What’s your next move?
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  Push through and focus on helping others.
- B.
  Reflect deeply on what I could’ve done better, even if it’s exhausting.
- C.
  Take some time to reflect, even if it feels uncomfortable.
- D.
  Retreat completely to rebuild my emotional safety.
- E.
  Use tools like journaling or meditation to process and move forward with clarity.
16.
If your fears were a creature, what would it look like?
- A.
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  A yapping dog that demands constant attention.
- B.
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  A nervous squirrel that hesitates before every move.
- C.
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  A sly fox that occasionally sneaks in and tests my resolve.
- D.
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  A porcupine—looks cute but is defensive but protective at its core.
- E.
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  A wise owl that watches from the shadows, waiting for the right moment to emerge.
17.
In relationships, I tend to:
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  Overextend and give more than I receive.
- B.
  Worry about whether I’m doing enough or being enough.
- C.
  Set boundaries but sometimes give in when they’re tested.
- D.
  Keep my distance until I feel confident about someone’s intentions.
- E.
  Choose relationships that align with my values and feel balanced.
18.
When I look back at my choices, I notice I often
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- A.
  Put others’ needs ahead of my own, even when it costs me.
- B.
  Doubt myself or hesitate to act because I don’t feel good enough.
- C.
  Make progress toward what I want, though I’m still building confidence.
- D.
  Protect myself from situations that might undermine my sense of worth.
- E.
  Stay aligned with my values and take actions that reflect my self-respect.
19.
If your past decision-making style had a theme song, it would be
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- A.
  “Fix You” by Coldplay—I’m always trying to help and heal others.
- B.
  “Wait for It” from Hamilton—thoughtful but hesitant.
- C.
  “Stronger” by Kelly Clarkson—I’m learning to stand firm and grow.
- D.
  “Defensive” by Paramore—I’m cautious about who I trust.
- E.
  “Unstoppable” by Sia—I trust myself and lead with confidence.
20.
If your self-worth were a symbol, it would be:
- A.
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  A candle—flickering but steady, often shining for others.
- B.
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  A mirror—reflecting back things I’m still learning to accept.
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  A river—flowing with strength but still finding its direction.
- D.
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  A shield—protecting what I value most within myself.
- E.
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  A crown—radiant, balanced, and unwavering.
21.
When I reflect on my past challenges in relationships, I often realize
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- A.
  I gave too much of myself without receiving the same in return.
- B.
  I’ve spent a lot of time questioning myself instead of trusting my instincts.
- C.
  I’ve tried to hold my boundaries but lacked the confidence to follow through.
- D.
  I’ve avoided vulnerability, even when it could have led to connection.
- E.
  I grew stronger and more confident with each challenge I overcame.
22.
You’re asked to work overtime on a project. How do you respond?
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- A.
  Say yes, even if it means sacrificing my personal time.
- B.
  Agree to help but double-check whether I’m really the best person for the task.
- C.
  Say yes but clearly communicate my limits.
- D.
  Decline politely, ensuring my boundaries are respected.
- E.
  Say no confidently, knowing it doesn’t align with my priorities.
23.
If a major life transition were a movie, your role would be:
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  Marmee March in Little Women, always putting others’ needs first while quietly carrying the emotional weight.
- B.
  Amélie in Amélie, carefully noticing every detail and finding her way step by step.
- C.
  Bilbo Baggins in The Hobbit, hesitantly stepping into an adventure that transforms them.
- D.
  Katniss Everdeen in The Hunger Games, calculating every move to ensure survival and alignment with her principles.
- E.
  Daenerys Targaryen in Game of Thrones, leading with vision, confidence, and the courage to embrace change.
24.
How do you feel about saying no?
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- A.
  It makes me feel guilty, so I rarely do it.
- B.
  I can do it, but I often replay how I said it and wonder if I was too harsh.
- C.
  I’m getting better at it, though it’s not always easy.
- D.
  I say it carefully, ensuring it aligns with my emotional safety.
- E.
  I say no with clarity and confidence—it’s non-negotiable.
25.
Imagine your boundaries as a fortress. How does it look right now?
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- A.
  The gates are wide open—I rarely guard it.
- B.
  A small wall that I’m still learning how to reinforce.
- C.
  It’s solid but has a few weak spots.
- D.
  It’s high and strong, letting in only those who feel safe and aligned.
- E.
  It’s well-balanced, with clear gates for aligned connections.
26.
How do you respond to setbacks?
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- A.
  Blame myself and wonder what I could’ve done differently.
- B.
  Spend a lot of time reflecting on what I could’ve done differently.
- C.
  Acknowledge the challenge but shift focus to what I can control.
- D.
  Take time to process and reassess before deciding what’s next.
- E.
  See it as a challenge to grow stronger and wiser.
27.
When I think about healing from a difficult experience, I often:
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- A.
  Feel a deep concern for how others are impacted and prioritize their needs.
- B.
  Wonder if I’m really capable of moving forward the “right” way.
- C.
  Take practical actions while reminding myself that progress, not perfection, matters.
- D.
  Protect myself from further pain by being cautious.
- E.
  Trust the process of transformation with confidence.
28.
What’s your vibe when you set a boundary?
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- A.
  I hope they don’t think I’m being selfish.
- B.
  Did I communicate it in the best way possible?
- C.
  I said it—let’s see how it goes.
- D.
  I’ll set it, but I’m watching to see how it’s respected.
- E.
  This is my boundary, and it’s non-negotiable.
29.
You’ve just experienced a breakup or major loss. What’s your next move?
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- A.
  Check in on how the other person is doing and offer support, even if it means setting my own feelings aside.
- B.
  Reflect on what happened and what lessons I can take from it.
- C.
  Seek support from trusted people to regain strength and perspective.
- D.
  Take time alone to reflect and rebuild my emotional safety.
- E.
  Use the experience to grow and step into my power.
30.
Imagine your self-worth as a garden. What does it look like?
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  Overgrown and untended because I’ve been focused on others.
- B.
  Small and hesitant, but I’m learning how to nurture it.
- C.
  Growing steadily, with a few weeds I’m still clearing out.
- D.
  Well-protected, though I’m careful about who gets to enjoy it.
- E.
  Thriving and abundant, reflecting my values and care for myself.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Nurturing Sovereign
2.
The Awakening Sovereign
3.
The Rising Sovereign
4.
The Discerning Sovereign
5.
The Empowered Sovereign