What type of motherless daughter are you?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When you think about the grief related to your mother loss, your first instinct is to...

  • A.
    Set it aside and keep going
  • B.
    Stay busy and focus on what needs to be done instead
  • C.
    Journal, pull a card, or ask the universe for a sign
  • D.
    Try to make sense of it
• 2.
  The idea of slowing down and feeling your grief makes you feel...

  • A.
    Guilty. There's so much on my plate; I don't have time to stop for a cry sesh.
  • B.
    Terrified. What if it swallows me? I'm afraid of getting in and not being able to get out.
  • C.
    Curious. I want to connect more deeply to it. I feel like there could be a message in my grief for me.
  • D.
    Annoyed. I've already dealt with my grief. Been there, done that.
• 3.
  Your relationship with mother loss feels like...

  • A.
    A door I keep shut.
  • B.
    A subject I know a lot about but don't attach feelings to.
  • C.
    A task I never have time to get around to doing.
  • D.
    A quest for meaning.
• 4.
  Your go-to coping mechanism is...

  • A.
    Meditation, journaling, or spiritual practices
  • B.
    Staying busy or distracting myself
  • C.
    Taking care of everyone else
  • D.
    Therapy, workshops, or support groups
• 5.
  Your body often feels...

  • A.
    Tight and on-guard. Like it's holding something in.
  • B.
    Sensitive. Like it's always picking up signs from the world around me.
  • C.
    Tired, overworked, and always buzzing with urgency.
  • D.
    Disconnected. Like I live more in my head than in my body.
• 6.
  When you're having a tough day, your inner voice sounds most like...

  • A.
    "Take care of everyone else first."
  • B.
    "Ask for a sign. Tune in."
  • C.
    "Suck it up and keep going."
  • D.
    "Why can't you just feel something?"
• 7.
  Secretly you worry that...

  • A.
    If I let myself grieve, I'll fall apart.
  • B.
    I'm doing grief "wrong."
  • C.
    I'm only lovable when I'm useful to others.
  • D.
    I've healed as much as I can and this is just how things are now.
• 8.
  What do you most want from healing?

  • A.
    Permission to feel without breaking
  • B.
    A space where I don't have to be "the mother" or the strong one for a little while
  • C.
    A sign that I'm not alone, not crazy, or not lost
  • D.
    A bridge between what I know and how to actually feel it in my body

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  🔒 You are: THE FORTRESS 🔒

  You’ve survived by staying strong. Keeping it all locked in. You learned early that feeling too much wasn’t safe—or welcome. So you became your own container for grief. Unbreakable. Unshakable.But here's the truth you may not want to hear: grief doesn’t go away when you shut it out. It just gets heavier. Quieter. And it waits: for your body to break down, for your relationships to fracture, for some part of you to whisper, “I can’t hold this anymore.”See if this sounds like you:🏰 You get a lump in your throat every time you almost cry, but you swallow it back down.🏰 You’d rather talk about literally anything else than “how you’re doing.”🏰 People always tell you how strong you are, and it exhausts you.🏰 You sometimes feel numb, or disconnected from painful or sentimental memories.🏰 You worry that if you really opened up, everything you've built would come crashing down.There's a place where you belong.Inside The Mother Loss Collective, you’ll find a dedicated space to put down your walls. To slowly, gently, learn how to process mother loss without falling apart.Through monthly calls that connect you to yourself and your mom—led by me, The Mother Loss Therapist—you'll learn how to rewrite the story that you need to be strong and explore your grief in a way that helps you feel safe being vulnerable.Your grief deserves a witness. You deserve softness. No matter how long it's been since your loss, my community of grievHERS is open to you.➡️ Your next step? Lower the drawbridge and let one feeling in. Just one. We'll hold the rest with you.
• 2.
  🏃‍♀️You are: THE OVERFUNCTIONER 🏃‍♀️

  You’re the one who gets things done. The one people lean on. The capable one.But beneath that productivity is pain. You care for everyone else while quietly unraveling inside. You learned to earn love by being useful—maybe even to a mother died too soon, or who could never receive you fully.And now? Your worth is still tied to doing. Fixing. Performing.See if this sounds like you:🎭 You’ve cried in the bathroom between tasks, wiped your face, and kept going.🎭 You can’t remember the last time someone asked how you are.🎭 You’ve been told you’re “so together," even when you’re falling apart inside.🎭 Rest makes you feel guilty or twitchy.🎭 You’re always showing up for others… but rarely for yourself.There's a place where you belong:The Mother Loss Collective isn’t another thing to do. It’s a space to be. To let the weight fall off your shoulders. To finally learn how to care for the one person that seems to always get left behind: you.Through monthly calls that connect you to yourself and your mom—led by me, The Mother Loss Therapist—you'll learn how to rewrite the story that love is earned by doing and explore your grief in a way that helps you offer consistent care to your heart.Your grief deserves to be held. You deserve tending to. No matter how long it's been since your loss, my community of grievHERS is open to you.➡️ Your next step? Rest isn’t weakness. It’s a radical act of healing.
• 3.
  🔍 You are: THE SEEKER 🔍

  You know there’s more to grief than crying and moving on. You’ve felt the energetic ties. You’ve asked the big questions. You’ve tried to connect with your mom's spirit—or at least with some sort of meaning in her loss.But sometimes, even your soul work feels… empty. Like something’s still missing. You want more than just talking about it; you want truth. Presence. Spiritual healing that actually resonates.See if this sounds like you:🔮 You’ve drawn oracle cards, had dreams, or seen signs and still feel unsure of your connection to your mom.🔮 You sometimes wonder if you’re “doing your grief wrong.”🔮 You crave something more mystical or meaningful, but you don’t want fluff.🔮 You often feel like you're in-between worlds—stuck between Planet Earth and the place where your mom is.🔮 You want community, but only if it’s real.There's a place where you belong:Inside The Mother Loss Collective, we blend psychospiritual tools, soulful rituals, and grounded community support to help you remember what your soul already knows: you are not alone. She’s not lost. And neither are you.Through monthly calls that connect you to yourself and your mom—led by me, The Mother Loss Therapist—you'll learn how to use spiritual and therapy-based tools to deepen your relationship with your mom and join a community of fellow motherless daughters who are on their own unique soulful journeys.Your grief deserves to be explored. You deserve the assurance that comes from a strong connection to your mom's spirit. No matter how long it's been since your loss, my community of grievHERS is open to you.➡️ Your next step? Stop seeking. Start diving deep.
• 4.
  🧐 You are: THE INTELLECTUALIZER 🧐

  You’ve done the therapy. Read the books. Maybe even taught others about grief and healing.You’re brilliant at understanding what’s happening. But that doesn’t mean you’ve felt it. And deep down, you know something’s off: why, if you know so much, are you still here, circling the same ache?Your mind is a library of knowledge. But grief doesn’t live in the mind. It lives in your belly. Your heart. Your breath. And no amount of analyzing will set it free.See if this sounds like you:🧠 You can explain your grief timeline with perfect clarity—but feel strangely detached.🧠 You’ve tried to “solve” or “complete” grief like a project.🧠 You get frustrated when feelings don’t respond to logic.🧠 You’re emotionally intelligent but feel blocked from actually accessing your heart.🧠 You know there’s more to feel… you’re just not sure how to get there.There's a place where you belong:The Mother Loss Collective invites you to get out of your head and into your body, your soul, and your feeling self. This isn’t about solving your grief. It’s about integrating it.Through monthly calls that connect you to yourself and your mom—led by me, The Mother Loss Therapist—you'll learn how to translate knowledge into feelings and practice embodying the wisdom you've spent so long learning.Your grief deserves to be felt, not just studied. You deserve to connect to your mom through every outlet, including your heart. No matter how long it's been since your loss, my community of grievHERS is open to you.➡️ Your next step? Let go of the “why” and the "how." Let yourself feel.