What  Hidden Trap is Your #1 Dream-Slayer?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When you feel the stirrings of change, what's your FIRST instinct?

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  • A.
    Start talking to people about it.
  • B.
    Double down on what you're working on (or doing) now.
  • C.
    Roll up your sleeves and dive into research.
  • D.
    Make a list or a plan, or a list AND a plan.
• 2.
  What's your relationship with time lately?

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  • A.
    There's never quite enough.
  • B.
    I waste more than I'd like to admit.
  • C.
    It's flying!
  • D.
    Someone is always in need of mine.
• 3.
  Which internal voice tends to be the loudest when you think about making a big change.

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  • A.
    "You're not ... (qualified, ready, able) to do that."
  • B.
    "This just isn't the right time."
  • C.
    "That's too selfish."
  • D.
    "You need to try harder - be more consistent..."
• 4.
  When things feel out of control, how do you usually respond?

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  • A.
    Numb out (scrolling, snacking, etc.).
  • B.
    Consider the way things are supposed to be.
  • C.
    Push through and keep going.
  • D.
    Be sure everyone else is taken care of.
• 5.
  If someone looked at your life from the outside, they'd probably say...

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  • A.
    "She's got it all together."
  • B.
    "She's everyone's go-to person."
  • C.
    "She's a powerhouse."
  • D.
    "She's always doing fine."
• 6.
  When you imagine yourself stepping fully into your next chapter,  what emotion dampens your excitement?

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  • A.
    Numbness - I'm not even sure what that life is yet.
  • B.
    A strange grief - like I'd be leaving something behind.
  • C.
    Guilt and feelings of selfishness.
  • D.
    Pressure - I need to get it right (and FAST).
• 7.
  What's your reaction when someone asks, "but what do you really want?"

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  • A.
    I freeze. I'm not used to asking myself that.
  • B.
    I immediately think about how my answer will affect others.
  • C.
    The real answer scares me and I automatically scale it down.
  • D.
    I inadvertently jump from what I want to how I'd get there and quickly get overwhelmed .

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  🪞Your #1 Dream Slayer is...

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  Your Hidden Trap As you're growing and evolving, some part of you is still living by the old rules — the shoulds, the self-doubt, or the version of you that fit in or succeeded in a past chapter. You may feel a deep readiness for something new, but when it’s time to act, that old voice kicks in and whispers "Who do you think you are?" or "You're not as good as you used to be."In either case, attachment to an old identity is blocking the path to everything you've been dreaming of.Your Unseen SuperpowerYou’ve already outgrown the old story and the longing that you're feeling is evidence that your soul-self is already awakening and preparing for the woman you're becoming.Your Path ForwardRemind yourself of how many times you've grown and evolved into new identities throughout your lifetime.Thank the past-you for all that she's given and all that she's done and release her by letting her know that you're ready for your next metamorphosis.Let your mind look to the future without fear or reservation by visualizing the woman your heart tells you you're becoming.Each day, ask yourself what's one small thing that woman would be doing that you're not...and give it a try.Your New Mantra“I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept.”— Angela DavisHi, I'm Wendy Perrotti,I'm a certified and credentialed master-level coach and I've been guiding people through life's toughest transitions—like career shifts, evolving relationships, retirement, grief, and loss—long before 'life coaching' became a household term.My superpower?Seeing beneath the surface to help you identify and overcome limiting beliefs, reveal your unique strengths and potential, and dare I say, tap into your soul's own magic.These life-stage transitions you're facing? They're like being handed both a blank canvas and a box of infinite possibilities - and yes, it can feel overwhelming.Yes, it might seem easier to stick with the familiar. But here you are—standing at the gate, feeling a mix of excitement, uncertainty, and probably fear. And let me tell you this with absolute certainty: if you're ready for change, you're in the right place.I've got tons of resources to help - check out my BRAND NEW YouTube Channel - and be sure to check your in-box for my weekly message.AND, if you're ready to slay that dragon once-and-for-all and start living into the life you've been dreaming of, let's talk - I'd love to help you get there.
• 2.
  🩶 Your #1 Dream-Slayer is...

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  Your Hidden Trap You’re smart, capable, and wildly empathetic. But somewhere along the line, you learned that being good meant being nice, agreeable, generous — even at your own detriment. You care deeply about the people around you and truly want the best for them. In fact, it feels GOOD to be useful, needed and of service.Until it doesn't. At some point (maybe now?) You begin to wonder who is showing up for you? Why isn't there anyone or anything helping to usher in your dreams?But every time you start to reach, you feel selfish and guilty. And before you have the time to reconcile those feelings, someone else's need emerge and, again, you set yourself aside and go back to helping.In time, this comes to feel exhausting, demoralizing and inescapable.Your Unseen SuperpowerYou already know how...You know how to triumph - how to follow a dream - and how to gather the resources to achieve that dream. How? Because you've helped so many other people follow theirs.Your Path ForwardIn order to use your superpower to help yourself, you must accept that you are equal. Equally worthy, equally deserving, equally justified in wanting more.Then, you'll need to hold your ground while giving the people around your time to assimilate. They're not used to you wanting or needing - many of them probably believe that you're happiest when serving.And this isn't about letting that part of yourself go. Helping will always be a part of your soul's work - you're merely expanding that circle to inculde yourself.Your New Mantra“When you say ‘yes’ to others, make sure you are not saying ‘no’ to yourself.”— Paulo CoelhoHi, I'm Wendy Perrotti,I'm a certified and credentialed master-level coach and I've been guiding people through life's toughest transitions—like career shifts, evolving relationships, retirement, grief, and loss—long before 'life coaching' became a household term.My superpower?Seeing beneath the surface to help you identify and overcome limiting beliefs, reveal your unique strengths and potential, and dare I say, tap into your soul's own magic.These life-stage transitions you're facing? They're like being handed both a blank canvas and a box of infinite possibilities - and yes, it can feel overwhelming.Yes, it might seem easier to stick with the familiar. But here you are—standing at the gate, feeling a mix of excitement, uncertainty, and probably fear. And let me tell you this with absolute certainty: if you're ready for change, you're in the right place.I've got tons of resources to help - check out my BRAND NEW YouTube Channel - and be sure to check your in-box for my weekly message.AND, if you're ready to slay that dragon once-and-for-all and start living into the life you've been dreaming of, let's talk - I'd love to help you get there.
• 3.
  ⏱ Your #1 Dream-Slayer is...

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  Your Hidden Trap You’re the one who gets things done, shows up, and carries the load. But underneath the hustle is a quiet exhaustion — and a nagging sense that your real goals and dreams keep getting shoved to the bottom of the list.Perhaps you feel that you need to clear the decks before you start. Maybe you're waiting for the time when you can do it the 'right' way. It's possible that you believe your productivity is equal to your worth and that it's not ok to slow down enough to allow the next thing to percolate.This trap is a loop - a treadmill that never stops - and no matter how fast you run, no matter how many things you cross off - the daily stream of tasks and obligations just keeps flowing.Of course you're tired. Of course the time never feels right. Following a dream requires both energy and space - and sister, yours is allocated elsewhere.Your Unseen SuperpowerYou do know how to execute. One of the hardest things for people to do is moving things from concept into action - and action is where you thrive. (At least when something is in priority position on your list.)Your Path ForwardYou don't need to scrap your list. But you do need to put yourself on it. EVERY day. If you know what you need to do to move toward your dream, break the first step down to a series of tiny actions and take ONE action each day until it's done. (repeat)If you're life is so completely overcrowded with to-dos that you don't even know where to begin, schedule 15 non-negotionalble minutes of daydreaming each day until you notice a pattern of what you're longing for.Then break any step that moves you closer to fulfilling that longing down into tiny actions and take ONE action each day until it's done. (repeat)Soon, you'll start to notice things shifting. THAT's when it's time to re-prioritize your whole list.Your New Mantra“You can’t be that kid standing at the top of the waterslide, overthinking it. You have to go down the chute.”— Tina FeyHi, I'm Wendy Perrotti,I'm a certified and credentialed master-level coach and I've been guiding people through life's toughest transitions—like career shifts, evolving relationships, retirement, grief, and loss—long before 'life coaching' became a household term.My superpower?Seeing beneath the surface to help you identify and overcome limiting beliefs, reveal your unique strengths and potential, and dare I say, tap into your soul's own magic.These life-stage transitions you're facing? They're like being handed both a blank canvas and a box of infinite possibilities - and yes, it can feel overwhelming.Yes, it might seem easier to stick with the familiar. But here you are—standing at the gate, feeling a mix of excitement, uncertainty, and probably fear. And let me tell you this with absolute certainty: if you're ready for change, you're in the right place.I've got tons of resources to help - check out my BRAND NEW YouTube Channel - and be sure to check your in-box for my weekly message.AND, if you're ready to slay that dragon once-and-for-all and start living into the life you've been dreaming of, let's talk - I'd love to help you get there.
• 4.
  🫖 Your #1 Dream-Slayer...

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  Your Hidden Trap You’ve built a good life. You’re not in crisis. Why rock the boat? After all, everything is just fine, isn't it?And yet… there’s a sense that something’s missing. An inner longing for more clarity, more passion, more you — but comfort and routine keep you where you are. Days pass. So do opportunities. And that little voice inside is quietly beating you up for playing so small.Your Unseen SuperpowerYou've got superior coping skills and know how to regulate yourself back to that sense of ok-ness when things get dicey.Your Path ForwardTrusting that you're ability to cope - to find that inner "it's fine, I'm OK - will follow you even when you step outside of your comfort zone.It's also time to start dialing into that intuition. That inner longing - those whispers that you're playing too small are bubbling up for a reason. The BECOMING is underway. Some part of you is ready to evolve and she's going to have to step out of her cocoon before she can test her wings.Get a piece of paper and set a timer for 10 minutes. Start the timer and without editing yourself in any way, write down as many things as possible that complete the sentence 'Wouldn't it be cool if..."At the end of 10 minutes, read back what you've written. The place for you to start testing those wings is somewhere on that page. Your New Mantra“Another world is not only possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing.”— Arundhati RoyHi, I'm Wendy Perrotti,I'm a certified and credentialed master-level coach and I've been guiding people through life's toughest transitions—like career shifts, evolving relationships, retirement, grief, and loss—long before 'life coaching' became a household term.My superpower?Seeing beneath the surface to help you identify and overcome limiting beliefs, reveal your unique strengths and potential, and dare I say, tap into your soul's own magic.These life-stage transitions you're facing? They're like being handed both a blank canvas and a box of infinite possibilities - and yes, it can feel overwhelming.Yes, it might seem easier to stick with the familiar. But here you are—standing at the gate, feeling a mix of excitement, uncertainty, and probably fear. And let me tell you this with absolute certainty: if you're ready for change, you're in the right place.I've got tons of resources to help - check out my BRAND NEW YouTube Channel - and be sure to check your in-box for my weekly message.AND, if you're ready to slay that dragon once-and-for-all and start living into the life you've been dreaming of, let's talk - I'd love to help you get there.