Are You Stuck On the Husband Treadmill?

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Quiz Questions

1.
When it comes to dating, how do you feel about timelines?
- A.
  I know what I want, but sometimes I worry I’m running out of time.
- B.
  I feel like I’m racing against a clock. I should have been married already.
- C.
  I trust that the right relationship will come at the right time
2.
What makes you most excited about dating?
- A.
  Creating meaningful and lasting bonds.
- B.
  The adventure of meeting new people.
- C.
  Finding someone who fits my life plan.
- D.
  Meeting my soulmate.
3.
After a dating disappointment, what’s your inner monologue sound like?
- A.
  Great. There’s literally no one left.
- B.
  That sucked... but maybe the next one will be better.
- C.
  If it’s not aligned, it’s a redirection, not a rejection
4.
Which statement feels most true for you?
- A.
  I believe love takes work, but I still secretly hope for a perfect fit
- B.
  I believe great relationships are built, not found
- C.
  There’s one person out there for me, and I need to find them fast.
5.
How do you usually handle red flags or dealbreakers early on?
- A.
  I address them directly and walk away if I need to.
- B.
  I overlook them and hope they get better with time.
- C.
  I feel conflicted. Sometimes I stick to my standards, sometimes I rationalize.
6.
When you’re dating, how do you manage your needs for connection and intimacy?
- A.
  I try to balance it, but sometimes it’s hard not to get attached too fast.
- B.
  I sometimes stay in situations that aren’t right just to not feel alone.
- C.
  I feel capable of balancing my own life while being excited for a new connection.
7.
When you don’t hear back from someone you like, what’s your first reaction?
- A.
  Panic or obsess over what I did wrong.
- B.
  Feel disappointed, then try to brush it off.
- C.
  Feel momentary disappointment, then refocus on myself and my goals.
8.
If you could wave a magic wand, what would your dating life look like?
- A.
  Intentional and aligned. I'd trust myself to choose people who fit my life and values
- B.
  Fun and freeing. I'd enjoy the process without all the pressure.
- C.
  Effortless. I'd meet someone fast and skip all the game
9.
How would you describe your belief about finding a healthy relationship?
- A.
  I’m cautiously optimistic, but scared it might not happen for me.
- B.
  I want to believe it’s possible, but it feels unlikely sometimes.
- C.
  I fully believe it’s possible and that I won’t settle for less.
10.
Pick the one that sounds most like your current dating energy
- A.
  Where is my person already?!
- B.
  Trying not to lose hope but... yikes.
- C.
  I’m dating with curiosity and standards.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
You’re Hustling Hard (and Burning Out)
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On the Husband TreadmillRight now, dating can feel like a race you’re sprinting to win—and it’s exhausting.You might be chasing timelines, questioning your worth after every text, or feeling like every date is a high-stakes audition.You may be carrying the pressure of society’s timeline... or your own. (Yes, the biological clock is real. And no, you’re not crazy for feeling it.)But urgency isn’t the path to love. Self-connection is.✨ Opportunity for Growth ✨Slow down. Reconnect with who you are beneath the hustle.Start dating from your power, not your pressure so you can attract connections that match the life (and love) you actually want. Ready to step off the treadmill for good? Consider working with Dr. Husband inside her dating coaching program.Just a quick reminder that the information provided here is for educational use only and does not replace professional mental health care.
2.
In Transition — Shedding Old Patterns
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You’re In the Middle of a Dating ResetYou’re waking up to the patterns that no longer serve you and that’s powerful. Maybe you still get pulled into old loops sometimes (scarcity, second-guessing, settling), but you're no longer asleep to them.You crave real connection without shrinking yourself, self-abandoning, or performing to be chosen.You’re not back at square one. You’re evolving.And every moment you notice what doesn't feel right is a step closer to the kind of love that does.✨ Opportunity for Growth ✨This is your season to deepen your standards, sharpen your boundaries, and date from the identity of the person you’ve worked so hard to become.You’re closer than you think.And with the right support, dating can actually feel clear, energizing, interesting and (yes) even fun again. Ready to build a dating life that fits who you are now? Consider working with Dr. Husband inside her dating coaching program.Just a quick reminder that the information provided here is for educational use only and does not replace professional mental health care.
3.
Dating From Your Power
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You’re Already Leading with Self-WorthYou’re doing a lot right, and that’s worth celebrating! You’re dating from a place of clarity, not desperation. You trust your value, you hold your standards, and you’re learning to trust the timing of your life.You’re not chasing connection. You’re inviting it.But even the most self-aware women deserve support to keep refining their instincts and navigating the complex modern dating landscape.. ✨ Opportunity for Growth ✨This is your season to fine-tune your strategy, deepen your self-trust, and call in the kinds of relationships that match the woman you’ve become.You're not starting over. You're leveling up. Want high-level support as you move into your next chapter? Apply for 1:1 Dating Coaching with Dr. Husband.Quick reminder, the information provided here is for educational use only and does not replace professional mental health care.