This assessment will only take a few minutes. Don’t overthink it, just go with your first instinct.
Quiz Questions
1.
When you have several exciting possibilities ahead...
A.
I see so many paths. I try to plan them all and get stuck deciding.
B.
I feel the pull of one path strongly, but hesitate because I’m afraid of unleashing chaos.
C.
I ask for advice to make sure I’m choosing wisely. I want everyone to approve of it.
D.
I choose the most practical one that helps others.
E.
I wait to see what others want first, then adapt my choice to fit.
2.
In relationships, you often find yourself...
A.
Being the dependable one who holds it all together for others.
B.
Dreaming of deeper connection but keeping emotions tidy so you don’t get overwhelmed.
C.
Longing for closeness yet pulling back so no one sees the dark parts you think they’ll fear.
D.
Trying to keep everyone happy, smoothing things over when tension arises.
E.
Blending into whoever you’re with, then later realizing you lost track of what you wanted.
3.
When faced with conflict or strong emotion...
A.
I feel a surge of power or fire that scares me, so I either control it tightly or it bursts out too strong.
B.
I shrink or adapt to avoid confrontation.
C.
I take responsibility and try to restore fairness or balance.
D.
I fix it quickly so everyone feels okay again.
E.
I try to stay positive or rise above. Heavy emotions feel messy.
4.
How do you respond to structure, routine, or planning?
A.
I resist routine. It feels limiting, even though I know I need it.
B.
I plan carefully so nothing goes wrong or causes upset
C.
I follow others’ plans easily, even if they don’t fully fit me.
D.
I crave freedom and excitement, but routines feel like cages that dull my fire.
E.
I organize everything to support others. I’m the reliable one.
5.
When you make a mistake or something doesn’t go as planned...
A.
I either overcompensate or find someone to blame.
B.
I feel like I’ve failed at being “good” or acceptable, and worry what others think.
C.
I spiral into analysis, trying to understand what I “should’ve” done differently.
D.
I assume it’s my fault and change myself to avoid it happening again.
E.
I take it as my responsibility and try harder next time to keep things fair.
6.
What’s your relationship with intuition or inner guidance?
A.
I sense clear messages but second-guess them constantly.
B.
I feel strong gut instincts, but sometimes fear they’ll lead me into chaos.
C.
I sense things but check with others before trusting them.
D.
I trust my gut when it helps others or keeps things stable.
E.
I’m unsure which voice is truly mine.
7.
What happens inside you when you’re seen or noticed?
A.
I freeze or shrink. I wanted to be noticed, but the spotlight makes me want to hide or edit myself.
B.
I immediately wonder if I said the right thing and replay it later, hoping I didn’t upset anyone.
C.
I feel a rush of energy. I love the attention.
D.
I stand tall and want to be impressive, but deep down I wonder if anyone really sees how much I carry.
E.
I start analyzing how I’m coming across and worry people won’t get it the full vision.
8.
When others need help, you usually…
A.
Take charge and do what needs to be done, even if it drains you.
B.
Tune into what they feel and shape yourself to support them.
C.
Offer ideas or spiritual insights.
D.
Try to comfort and smooth emotions, even if I need help too.
E.
If it’s someone deeply in my heart, I’ll throw myself into the fire for them — even if it means chaos or self-sabotage. Otherwise, I stay focused on what matters to me.
9.
Your biggest frustration in daily life is…
A.
Being misread or having to explain myself over and over.
B.
So many ideas, not enough clarity to move forward.
C.
Holding back my fire because people can’t handle the truth.
D.
Carrying too much, wishing others would step up.
E.
Feeling lost or invisible in groups, unsure what’s really mine.
10.
When someone offers help or advice…
A.
I adjust my approach if it seems like I’m doing things wrong.
B.
I listen to it, but sometimes forget my original goal.
C.
I want help but often redo it to make sure it’s “done right.”
D.
I’m not really interested in hearing it. I do things alone
E.
I appreciate it but feel like they don’t get the bigger picture.
11.
Your energy after social interactions tends to be…
A.
Mentally overstimulated. I need quiet to sort my thoughts.
B.
Buzzing or agitated, like I held back or was too harsh.
C.
Heavy from analyzing how it went.
D.
Depleted from holding space for everyone.
E.
Confused or drained, carrying emotions that aren’t mine.
12.
Deep down, you long to feel…
A.
Free to express all of my truth and passion, knowing others can handle it and I don’t have to hold back or soften it.
B.
Deeply connected to something bigger, like I’m in the flow with life and spirit.
C.
Like I could finally set it all down for a while, take a break and trust that things won’t fall apart.
D.
Sure that I’m doing the right thing and that people will accept me.
E.
Clear about who I really am, so I can move through life feeling solid and sure inside.
