What's Your Dating Style?

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Quiz Questions

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Question 1. After a great first date, you...
- A.
  Do nothing. You had a great time, said thank you, and now it’s his move.
- B.
  Wait a day or two, then send a flirty meme or message to keep the vibe going.
- C.
  Text him that night to talk about how aligned your values are.
- D.
  Text him the next day to say you had a great time and ask if he wants to hang again.
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Question 2. When a man says he’s “not looking for anything serious,” you...
- A.
  Say you’re cool with that—but deep down, hope it becomes more.
- B.
  Wish him well and immediately unmatch or stop responding.
- C.
  Hope you can change his mind if you just keep being amazing.
- D.
  Feel disappointed but still entertain him for attention or fun.
3.
Question 3. You tend to feel most nervous in dating when...
- A.
  You feel like you're doing everything right but it's still not working.
- B.
  You’re not sure where things stand and don’t want to ask.
- C.
  You like someone a lot and want to make sure you protect your boundaries.
- D.
  He hasn’t texted back and you start replaying everything you said.
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Question 4. When a man pulls away after a few weeks of consistent contact, your first instinct is to...
- A.
  Vent to friends and wait a couple days... then maybe check in.
- B.
  Do nothing. His silence is your answer.
- C.
  Text him something low-stakes to keep the connection alive.
- D.
  Ask if something’s wrong and try to clarify where you stand.
5.
Question 5. How do you typically feel after early dates with someone you're excited about?
- A.
  A little nervous. You want to stay chill but don’t know if you’re doing it “right.”
- B.
  Clear-headed. You're excited, but you’re watching his consistency.
- C.
  Emotionally open. If it feels good, you dive in and let it flow.
- D.
  Hopeful and already imagining what a relationship would be like.
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Question 6. Your friends give you advice like: “Just be honest and tell him how you feel.” You...
- A.
  Feel tempted—it sounds right—but you second-guess it.
- B.
  Agree completely. That’s what real connection is, right?
- C.
  Smile and nod, but you know better. You’ve seen what happens when you lead.
- D.
  Already did. You poured your heart out.
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Question 7: When it comes to dating, you really want to feel...
- A.
  Empowered. You’d love to fall head-over-heels, but you keep your wits about you while observing how he shows up—and whether his level of interest is actually clear.
- B.
  Clear-headed. You want to trust your instincts—but dating still feels like a minefield.
- C.
  Chosen. You want to finally be the one he wants to commit to.
- D.
  Understood. You want it to feel mutual and emotionally safe from the beginning.
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Question 8: How do you feel about who should pursue who in the early stages of dating?
- A.
  I try not to text first, but sometimes I slip up when I’m excited.
- B.
  Men should pursue. Period. It tells you everything you need to know.
- C.
  If you want something, go for it. Why wait around?
- D.
  It should go both ways—men want to feel wanted too.

Quiz Outcomes

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Too Much Too Soon Style
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🌹 Your Dating Style Result: Too Much Too Soon StyleHere’s what your quiz results revealed about your current dating style: You’re someone who leads with hope. You want to believe in the best of people. But when it comes to dating, that hope can sometimes turn into over-giving. You lead with love, and it shows. But sometimes that love turns into giving too much of yourself before a man has even shown you who he really is, much less reciprocated. You text first. You rearrange your schedule. You offer wife-level emotional intimacy, loyalty, and sacrifice long before he’s earned it. You think showing up fully will inspire commitment. But what it actually does is make it easy for him to take take take and stay comfortable, without ever stepping up.👉 If you’re thinking, “Okay wow, that’s me…” you are definitely not the only one. Most women dating today are trying to date with zero actual guidance- just TikToks, mixed messages, and scattered advice that makes everything more confusing.🔑 A few solid tips you can try today: Pull back. Let him initiate calls and texts. Stop accepting last-minute dates. Don't text him back within milliseconds. Let him wonder what you're up to when you're not together. Pace the relationship slowly so he doesn't get his fill too quickly and then peace out. 💡 Your effort isn't a flaw. It is just a pattern, and patterns can change. You don’t owe anyone full access just because you like them. Mystery, space, and restraint aren’t games- they’re essentials in protecting your peace, especially in the early stages of dating.👋 Hi! I'm Alicia. I have been a Rules Certified Dating Coach for 10 years, and I am building an online Community for women to come learn and practice a tried-and-true framework for dating. It's small, for now, as all new communities are. But that works out well for you as you have a chance to be a Founder and with that comes extra perks!This Community is for women who are:Confused and/or exhausted by menTired of being used and ghostedTired of hearing crummy advice about catering to lazy menDone wasting their time on the wrong menNot interested in dating or marrying a man-childNot into situationshipsClick the button below to find out more. See you there?
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Rules-Leaning Style
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💞 Your Dating Style Result: The Rules-Leaning StyleHere’s what your quiz results revealed about your current dating style: You might have heard of The Rules for dating, or something like them. Maybe you’ve even tried a few: letting him text first, not rearranging your plans, staying a little more mysterious than usual.But if we're being honest, you’re not totally consistent. Sometimes you hold the line… until you really like him. You want to believe that effort and honesty will be enough, that if you give him enough hints, he’ll step up.And maybe you’re right. But also… maybe not. And even if he does step up, you might have to hint for the rest of your life together.👉 If you're trying to stay strong, but sometimes slip back into old patterns, you’re not the only one. Most women are out here trying to date with zero actual guidance, just TikToks, mixed messages, and scattered advice that makes everything more confusing. 🔑 A few solid tips you can try today: Pull back. Let him initiate texts/calls. Let him come to your area for dates. Let him wonder what you're up to when you're not together. Date others until he asks to be exclusive. 👋 Hi! I'm Alicia. I have been a Rules Certified Dating Coach for 10 years, and I am building an online Community for women to come, learn, and practice a tried-and-true framework for dating. It's small, for now, as all new communities are. But that works out well for you as you have a chance to be a Founder and with that comes extra perks!This Community is for women who are:Rules-y or Rules-curiousConfused and/or exhausted by menTired of being used and ghostedTired of hearing crummy advice about catering to lazy menDone wasting their time on the wrong menNot interested in dating or marrying a man-childNot into situationshipsAlready knowledgeable in The Rules but don’t have single, like-minded friends for supportLooking for a man that will make a good husband (and possibly father to her children)Want a group of like-minded women cheering them onInterested in learning a new (to you), empowering way to dateClicking the button below will show you more. See you there?
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Rules-Minded Style
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💖 Your Dating Style Result: The Rules-Minded StyleHere’s what your quiz results revealed about your current dating style: Whether you’ve studied The Rules or just naturally move with more restraint in dating, one thing is clear: you’re not chasing anyone. You don't over-explain. You’ve learned to protect your energy instead of pouring it into men who haven’t earned it.You’re experiencing the clarity that comes from letting men lead and the confidence that grows when you don’t break your own boundaries just because it’s tempting.And still… doing The Rules can feel lonely—especially when friends give advice that sounds good, but you know better.🔑 I've been where you are. Here are some tips that I always found helpful- that you can start using today: Keep in mind that your "The One" has already been born and IS looking for you. Be visible: get out in the community, be on the dating apps (I know...), sign up, go places. It won't be forever- you'll do plenty of Netflix and chilling when you're married!💡 Stay strong because he's out there somewhere! The Rules are incredibly helpful. But they’re even more powerful when you’re surrounded by women who get it. 👋 Hi! I'm Alicia. I have been a Rules Certified Dating Coach for 10 years, and I am creating an online community, "The Rules Room," for women who are interested in doing dating differently, using The Rules as a framework and giving each other real support during weekly live Zoom calls. Because when your emotions kick in, or your non-Rulesy friends tell you to "just call him,” it helps to have a cheering section that reminds you why you’re doing things differently, and gives you the backup to actually stick with it. ✨ Since this group is just getting started, it's small for now, as all new communities are. But that works out well for you as you have a chance to be a Founder, and with that comes extra perks!This Community is for women who are:Rules-y or Rules-curiousTired of hearing crummy advice about catering to lazy menDone wasting their time on the wrong men their time on the wrong menNot interested in dating or marrying a man-childNot into situationshipsAlready knowledgeable in The Rules but don’t have single, like-minded friends for supportLooking for a man that will make a good husband (and possibly father to her children)Interested in having a group of like-minded women cheering them onClicking the button below will show you more. See you there?
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Freestyle Dater
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💗 Your Dating Style Result: Freestyle DaterHere’s what your quiz results revealed about your current dating style: You trust your gut. You like to be in flow. The idea of not texting first- or not speaking your truth right away- feels fake to you.You lead with honesty. You try to communicate well. You’ve been told that effort and openness are the keys to real connection.But if you’re being honest... it hasn’t worked out the way you hoped and you’re stuck in a revolving door of dating men who seem promising at first, but then they fizzle or ghost.Luckily, there is a way to stay true to yourself and stop getting caught in the same patterns.🔑 A few tips you can try today: Let him be the one to initiate calls and texts and come to your area for dates. Let him wonder what you're up to when you're not together. Let him be the one to ask for exclusivity and use the L word first. Pace the relationship slowly so he doesn't get his fill too quickly and then peace out. 👋 Hi! I'm Alicia. I have been a Rules Certified Dating Coach for 10 years, and I am creating an online community for women who are interested in doing dating using a tried-and-true framework and giving each other real support during weekly live Zoom calls. Because when your emotions kick in, or your friends tell you to "just call him,” it helps to have a cheering section that reminds you why you’re doing things differently, and gives you the backup to actually stick with it. ✨ Since this group is just getting started, it's small for now, as all new communities are. But that works out well for you as you have a chance to be a Founder, and with that comes extra perks!This Community is for women who are:Confused and/or exhausted by menTired of being used and ghostedTired of hearing crummy advice about catering to lazy menNot interested in dating or marrying a man-childThisclose to just getting a cat and being done with men foreverNot into situationshipsDone wasting their time on the wrong menLooking for a man that will make a good husband (and possibly father to her children)Wanting a group of like-minded women cheering them onInterested in learning a new (to you), empowering way to dateClicking the button below will show you more. See you there?

What's Your Dating Style?

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