Stuck in the Same Relationship Story?

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Quiz Questions

1.
When things start to feel tense in your relationship, you usually:
- A.
  Try to stay calm and neutral—conflict makes you shut down
- B.
  Jump in to fix it—you can’t leave things hanging
- C.
  Wonder what you did wrong or how to make it right
- D.
  Replay everything in your head, trying to understand what happened
- E.
  Love harder, give more, and hope it brings you back together
- F.
  Crave a deep, real conversation that actually brings you closer; not just fixes the surface
2.
Which of these feels the most familiar?
- A.
  If I keep things smooth, maybe things won’t blow up
- B.
  It can all fall apart if I don’t handle it
- C.
  I just want to feel chosen and secure
- D.
  If I can just figure this out, I’ll feel okay
- E.
  If I love them enough, it’ll work out
- F.
  I keep waiting for something deeper; something more emotionally alive.
3.
After a difficult conversation, you usually feel:
- A.
  Drained but relieved it didn’t escalate
- B.
  Mentally and emotionally wiped; you did all the work again
- C.
  Anxious—still unsure if things are truly ok
- D.
  Stuck in your head, wishing you could stop replaying it
- E.
  Hopeful but heavy, wondering why it always ends this way
- F.
  Disappointed it didn’t lead to more honesty or closeness
4.
Let’s talk about your needs. Which statement sounds most true?
- A.
  I’d rather not bring it up—it’s just not worth the tension
- B.
  I meet their needs before they even ask. Mine? I’ll get to them later
- C.
  I don’t even know what I need until I feel rejected
- D.
  I think about them constantly… but I rarely share them
- E.
  My needs always feel like too much—or not enough
- F.
  I want connection that feels soulful; not just surface-level support
5.
You often play the role of:
- A.
  The calm one—keeping the peace
- B.
  The capable one—getting things done
- C.
  The sensitive one—always scanning for emotional shifts
- D.
  The thoughtful one—always trying to understand
- E.
  The loyal one—loving hard, staying long
- F.
  The deep one—always searching for something real and meaningful
6.
Which truth is hardest for you to fully believe?
- A.
  That speaking up won’t ruin everything
- B.
  That you’re allowed to rest; not just perform
- C.
  That you’re enough, even when someone pulls away
- D.
  That you don’t need to understand everything to be safe
- E.
  That love isn’t enough without boundaries
- F.
  That I could be fully seen in my inner world—and still feel safe, wanted, and understood.
7.
If you could wave a magic wand and feel one thing in your relationship, it would be:
- A.
  Safe being honest
- B.
  Truly supported
- C.
  Secure and chosen
- D.
  Clear and calm
- E.
  Loved without having to overgive
- F.
  Seen, known, and inspired on a soul-deep level

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Peacekeeper
You are the PeacekeeperYou’re the one who keeps it all running smoothly.You avoid conflict, adapt quickly, and rarely ask for much; but deep down, you’re tired of feeling invisible.This pattern didn’t come from nowhere. It likely started as self-protection. But now, it’s keeping you stuck in a role that’s no longer serving your growth or your relationship.✨ Let’s look at what’s really behind it and how to shift into more connection and clarity.👉 Click below to unlock your custom insight + join the free masterclass.
2.
Over-Functioner
You are the Over-functionerYou do more, give more, plan ahead, and hold it all together; because if you didn’t, who would?It looks like strength and responsibility. But underneath? It’s exhausting. And lonely.You may find yourself resentful, overextended, or confused why your partner won’t “step up” or meet you where you are.Here’s the truth: You’re not controlling; you’re coping.But this pattern, while protective, is keeping you stuck in an unequal emotional dynamic.✨ There’s a reason this started and a way to change it! 👉 Click below to unlock your personalized insight + join the free masterclass.
3.
Validator
You are the ValidatorYou’re always wondering: Was it something I said? Did I upset them? Are we okay?You tune in closely to your partner’s moods, often taking responsibility for the emotional energy in the relationship. You crave reassurance, not because you’re needy, but because your nervous system is wired to seek safety through connection.You give a lot. You care deeply. But when your worth is tied to someone else’s responses, it’s hard to feel steady inside yourself.✨ This pattern comes from a beautiful place; but it’s keeping you on emotional high alert.It’s time to come home to your own voice and value.👉 Tap below to access your personalized insight + masterclass invitation.
4.
Analyzer
You are the AnalyzerYou think things through; again and again.You want to understand what’s really going on; so you analyze the conversations, the tone, the subtext, the pattern… all of it.Your mind is always working to find the solution. But the more you try to figure it out, the more disconnected you feel; from your partner, and from your own emotions.This isn’t about overthinking. It’s about protection.You learned that staying in your head felt safer than trusting your heart.✨ Real connection doesn’t come from being right; it comes from being real.Let’s explore what’s underneath this pattern and how to shift it!👉 Click below to unlock your personalized insight + masterclass invitation.
5.
Love-Without-Boundaries
You are Love Without BoundariesYou lead with your heart. You’re loyal, loving, and willing to give your all for the relationship.But sometimes, “giving your all” means giving up too much of yourself.You excuse bad behavior, overextend your compassion, and stay hopeful that things will change, because you believe in love and you don’t want to give up on someone you care about.But love without boundaries isn’t love that heals. It’s love that depletes.✨ Your capacity for connection is powerful; but it needs protection, too.Let’s look at how this pattern formed and how you can stay open-hearted without losing yourself.👉 Tap below for your personalized insight + masterclass invitation.
6.
Seeker
You are the SeekerYou’re always looking for more; more depth, more truth, more alignment.You ask the big questions: Is this really what I want? Am I settling? What else is possible?You crave meaningful connection, but often feel restless in relationships that can’t meet you there.And while your desire for growth is powerful, it can also leave you feeling untethered; questioning everything, doubting yourself, or pulling away before you get hurt.✨ Your hunger for truth is a gift. But it needs grounding.You don’t have to abandon yourself to stay, and you don’t have to walk away to be free.👉 Tap below to access your personalized insight + masterclass invitation.