WHAT DOES YOUR MARRIAGE NEED RIGHT NOW?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  How would you describe the current state of your marriage?

  • A.
    We’re doing okay, but things feel routine.
  • B.
    We love each other, but we’re struggling to connect.
  • C.
    There’s distance or tension that hasn’t been addressed.
  • D.
    We’re committed, but one or both of us are emotionally drained.
  • E.
    We’re in a season of rebuilding and want to get stronger.
• 2.
  Which area do you argue or disconnect in most often?

  • A.
    Communication and misunderstandings
  • B.
    Intimacy or feeling desired
  • C.
    Division of household roles and responsibilities
  • D.
    Emotional connection and feeling appreciated
  • E.
    Faith and spiritual alignment
• 3.
  How supported do you feel in your day-to-day responsibilities?

  • A.
    Very supported
  • B.
    Somewhat, but I carry more of the mental/emotional load
  • C.
    Not very supported—it’s a major source of resentment
  • D.
    We haven’t talked about this much, but I’m overwhelmed
  • E.
    We’re just trying to survive right now
• 4.
  What would feel like a win in your marriage this month?

  • A.
    More fun and laughter
  • B.
    Deeper physical intimacy
  • C.
    Feeling seen, loved, and affirmed
  • D.
    Honest, kind communication
  • E.
    Rebuilding trust or working through something hard
• 5.
  Which phrase best describes how you want to feel in your marriage?

  • A.
    Confident and secure
  • B.
    Desired and pursued
  • C.
    Heard and respected
  • D.
    Lighthearted and close
  • E.
    Spiritually aligned and emotionally safe
• 6.
  What kind of support would help you most right now?

  • A.
    Faith-based tools I can do on my own time
  • B.
    Printable activities and planner tools
  • C.
    Conversation starters and ways to bring my husband in
  • D.
    Something light, playful, and not too heavy
  • E.
    A step-by-step plan to work on our marriage

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Your Marriage Needs: Emotional Healing & Trust

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  Healing happens when there is space to feel safe again.Result SummaryYour marriage may carry unspoken hurt—feelings that were never fully processed or conversations that felt too overwhelming to finish. When emotions move faster than words, trust can feel fragile. You’re longing for a safer way to reconnect; one that allows healing without pressure or emotional overload.EncouragementGod designed healing to unfold with patience and care. Restoration doesn’t require rushing conversations or forcing vulnerability. When there is space to reflect, regulate, and respond with intention, trust can begin to grow again.Your Next StepThe Honor Him Luxe Marriage Transformation System creates a safe, structured space for healing; especially for couples who struggle to process emotions in the moment. Through daily notes, guided reflection, and prayerful prompts, it allows thoughts and emotions to be processed privately before they are shared. This gentle rhythm reduces tension, supports emotional regulation, and helps couples communicate with clarity and care. Over time, these small, consistent moments rebuild emotional safety and restore trust, naturally and without pressure.
• 2.
  Your Marriage Needs: Better Communication

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  What if your next breakthrough isn’t in what you say, but how communication happens between you?Result SummaryYou may feel like communication in your marriage has become tense, fragile, or exhausting. When you try to talk, things can escalate quickly, shut down entirely, or leave you feeling unheard and emotionally distant. Even when you want peace, it can feel hard to speak without triggering defensiveness, or to stay open without pulling away. You’re not looking for perfect words; you’re longing for communication that feels safer, calmer, and more connected.EncouragementScripture reminds us that words have the power to give life, but healing doesn’t come from saying more—it comes from saying things differently. Wisdom is found in timing, tone, and intention. When communication slows down, space is created for God to soften hearts, quiet defensiveness, and restore understanding. In that pause, peace has room to grow; even where conversations have felt fragile or stuck.Your Next StepThe Honor Him Luxe Marriage Transformation System is designed to meet you right where communication feels hardest. It creates a shared, neutral space where you can process your thoughts and emotions before speaking, rather than reacting in the moment. Through daily notes, written reflection, and gentle prompts, it helps lower emotional tension, soften tone, and bring clarity to what you want to express. When paired with the Honor Him Thru Words Affirmation Sticker Book and Honor Him Thru Words Insert Pages (coming soon), communication becomes less about defending yourself and more about rebuilding connection, love and trust; one calm, intentional exchange at a time.
• 3.
  Your Marriage Needs: Reignited Intimacy

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  Desire is not the problem; disconnection is.Result SummaryYou may feel disconnected from intimacy in your marriage—not because you don’t care, but because closeness has started to feel distant, routine, or emotionally heavy. You long to feel desired, pursued, and emotionally safe again. This isn’t about wanting “more;" it’s about missing the warmth, romance, and mutual desire that once felt natural between you.Encouragement God created intimacy as a sacred gift; one meant to reflect His personal, pursuing love. Desire does not disappear because it’s unhealthy; it fades when connection is neglected. When emotional safety, affection, and intention are restored, desire is often restored with them; gently, naturally, and without force.Your Next StepThe Honor Him Luxe Marriage Transformation System helps intimacy reawaken by rebuilding connection before expectation. Through daily notes, guided reflection, and intentional prompts, it creates space for appreciation, affection, and emotional closeness to return without pressure or performance. Together with the Honor Him Thru Intimacy Affirmation Sticker Book and Honor Him Thru Intimacy Insert Pages (coming soon), it introduces gentle practices, such as connection check-ins, cycle-awareness insights, and playful challenges, designed to invite romance and desire back into everyday life. Over time, these small, consistent moments help intimacy feel safe and mutual, renewing the gift of pursuit again.
• 4.
  Your Marriage Needs: Mental Load Support

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  You weren’t meant to carry it all alone.Result Summary:You’ve been holding it all together; managing the schedules, remembering the details, carrying the invisible weight of your home and relationship and it’s wearing you down. You don’t just need help; you need to be seen.Encouragement:Needing support does not make you weak; it makes you human. Even the Proverbs 31 woman did not do everything alone; she delegated, entrusted others, and worked in partnership. When the mental load is shared with openness and love, space is created for teamwork, relief, and renewed connection, not resentment.Your Next Step:The Honor Him Luxe Marriage Transformation System helps move the mental load out of your head and into a shared, visible space where routines, calendars, lists, goals, and daily responsibilities can be named and shared together. With gentle structure and positive guidance, it creates a healthier way to communicate needs, delegate responsibilities, and work as a team, transforming overwhelm into clarity and restoring peace to everyday rhythms.
• 5.
  Your Marriage Needs: More Fun & Pursuit

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  Joy returns when safety and respect are restored.Result SummaryYou may feel like fun and laughter have faded from your marriage; not because you don’t want joy, but because tension, resentment, or miscommunication have quietly taken its place. When conversations feel strained, unheard, or unresolved, playfulness no longer feels natural. It’s hard to laugh when you don’t feel fully seen, respected, or valued. What you’re really longing for isn’t just fun; it’s connection that feels safe again.EncouragementJoy doesn’t thrive where bitterness or contempt live; but it flourishes where understanding and respect are rebuilt. Scripture reminds us that gladness strengthens the heart. When communication softens, stress is reduced, and both partners begin to feel heard and appreciated, laughter has room to return. Fun becomes possible again when connection feels secure.Your Next StepThe Honor Him Luxe Marriage Transformation System helps restore the conditions where joy can return by lowering tension and rebuilding daily connection. Through love notes, playful affirmation stickers, shared calendars, and date-night planning pages, it helps shift everyday communication toward appreciation, respect, and ease. With fun insert-page activities and free QR resources like A–Z date nights and playful marriage games; it makes connection feel lighter again, allowing laughter, pursuit, and joy to return naturally as both partners feel seen and valued.
• 6.
  Your Marriage Needs: A Faith-First Foundation

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  Faith was always meant to be the foundation.Result SummaryOver time, it’s easy for faith to drift from the center of marriage. The pace of life, stress, unmet expectations, and cultural noise can slowly shift your focus from God’s truth to your own fears, emotions, or efforts. You may feel like you’re carrying the weight of your marriage alone; trying to manage, fix, or hold things together yourself; but the more you draw near to God, the more He will transform your heart, your responses, and your relationship.EncouragementGod never intended marriage to rest solely on feelings, communication skills, or seasons of ease. Scripture reminds us that a house built on a firm foundation can withstand storms. When faith becomes the center, marriage gains stability, perspective, and hope, even in difficult seasons.Your Next StepThe Honor Him Luxe Marriage Transformation System helps return God to the center of your marriage through intentional, monthly rhythms of prayer and surrender. With a full library of thematic prayers, monthly prayers over your husband, guided marriage intentions, and faith-centered reflection, it creates space to realign your heart with biblical truth. Month by month, this system helps you lead your marriage with prayer, trust, and faith—grounded in God’s beautiful and perfect design.