What's Your Striving Style?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When things start falling apart in your life, what do you instinctively do first? 

  • A.
    Double down—work harder, push through
  • B.
    Try to fix everything and make sure everyone’s okay
  • C.
    Feel panicked and search for what’s “next” to focus on
  • D.
    Put on a brave face and try not to let anyone see I’m struggling
  • E.
    Take control of the situation and get everything back in order
  • F.
    Push myself to prove I can handle it
• 2.
  What scares you the most about slowing down?

  • A.
    I’ll fall behind and lose everything I’ve worked for
  • B.
    I’ll disappoint someone or let people down
  • C.
    I’ll feel lost without something to chase
  • D.
    People will see the real me—and I’m not sure they’ll accept it
  • E.
    Everything might fall apart
  • F.
    I won’t feel valuable anymore
• 3.
   How do you typically define success?

  • A.
    Hitting goals and staying productive
  • B.
    Making sure the people I care about are okay
  • C.
    Always growing and discovering something new
  • D.
    Being seen as impressive and put-together
  • E.
    Having control over my time, results, and environment
  • F.
    Feeling respected and admired for my achievements
• 4.
  What’s your biggest fear when it comes to failure? 

  • A.
    That I’ll be seen as weak or incapable
  • B.
    That it’ll hurt someone else or create chaos
  • C.
    That I’ll have to sit in the discomfort of not knowing what’s next
  • D.
    That people will finally see I don’t have it all together
  • E.
    That I’ll lose my grip on everything I’ve built
  • F.
    That it means I’m not enough
• 5.
  What do people tend to admire you for?

  • A.
    Your hustle and drive
  • B.
    Your ability to help and show up for others
  • C.
    Your vision and big ideas
  • D.
    Your confidence and presence
  • E.
    Your leadership and structure
  • F.
    Your results and work ethic
• 6.
  When you’re not performing, fixing, chasing, or controlling… what emotion tends to show up?

  • A.
    Restlessness
  • B.
    Guilt
  • C.
    Emptiness
  • D.
    Shame
  • E.
    Anxiety
  • F.
    Worthlessness
• 7.
  What motivates you to keep going, even when you’re tired?

  • A.
    I don’t want to fall behind
  • B.
    People are counting on me
  • C.
    I believe the next thing might finally make me feel whole
  • D.
    I want to keep up appearances
  • E.
    If I don’t do it, no one will
  • F.
    I need to feel like I’m making something of myself
• 8.
  How do you react when someone tries to support or help you?

  • A.
    I appreciate it, but I’d rather handle things myself
  • B.
    I shift into taking care of them instead
  • C.
    I feel seen, but also afraid they’ll expect too much
  • D.
    I smile and thank them—even if I don’t feel it inside
  • E.
    I get uncomfortable and want to regain control
  • F.
    I worry they’ll see that I’m struggling more than I let on
• 9.
  Which sentence feels most true today?

  • A.
    “I’m constantly pushing myself to be better.”
  • B.
    “I carry the emotional weight of everyone around me.”
  • C.
    “I’m always searching for the thing that will finally click.”
  • D.
    “I’ve built a life that looks great—but it’s wearing me out.”
  • E.
    “If I let go, everything might fall apart.”
  • F.
    “No matter how much I do, it never feels like enough.”
• 10.
  If life could feel different, what would you want more of?

  • A.
    Space
  • B.
    Balance
  • C.
    Meaning/Purpose
  • D.
    Authenticity
  • E.
    Stability
  • F.
    Inner Peace / Greater Ease

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The Prover

  “If I’m not achieving, I’m not enough.”Somewhere along the way, you learned to tie your worth to what you do.The goals hit. The boxes checked. The hustle that keeps you one step ahead of falling behind.It’s not that you love the grind—it’s just that it’s always felt like the only way to matter.So you keep going. Even when you’re exhausted. Even when something inside you is quietly asking for more.But what if you didn’t have to prove your worth?This isn't about doing less, it's about changing the energy behind how you do everything.I see you. And I’ve been there too.And now, I want to walk with you toward something better.Check your inbox. There’s a personalized plan waiting for you.One that doesn’t require more pushing, just a new way of seeing.
• 2.
  The Pusher

  You carry a lot. And you carry it well.You’re the one people rely on—the steady hand, the strong one, the one who figures it out.And let’s be honest: pushing, or making your life happen, has gotten you far.But it’s also left you tired. Worn thin. Like you’re always one step away from everything unraveling.What if slowing down isn’t giving up—but actually the quickest way to move forward?Because there's a big difference between pushing towards something, or pushing to avoid something.And I’ll walk you through it.Check your inbox. Your personalized plan is waiting for you.This is the beginning of something good.
• 3.
  The Fixer

  “If everyone else is okay, I’ll be okay.”You’re the emotional anchor for the people around you. The one who swoops in, smooths things out, solves the problem.Your heart is big—but your boundaries have disappeared.You’ve built your identity around being the one who can handle it. The one who is always there.And quietly, that’s become exhausting.You’re allowed to stop managing other people’s pain to avoid feeling your own. You’re allowed to have needs. And be held.I see you. And I'm going to walk you through it all.Check your inbox!
• 4.
  The Performer

  “If I look successful, I’ll be accepted.”You’ve built a beautiful mask. Put-together. Impressive. Reliable.But underneath it all, you might be feeling a subtle ache reminding you that something is missing—it's still not enough.Performing your way through life exhausting. And totally unsustainable.The life you want starts with learning how to reconnect to the person behind all the doing.Once you do, everything changes.And I'm going to walk you through it all.Check your inbox!
• 5.
  The Seeker

  "There must be more—I just haven’t found it yet.”You’re curious, intuitive, always searching for the next spark.The next project. The next insight. The next thing that will finally make you feel whole.But the chase never ends, does it?It’s not that your dreams are too big.It’s that your landing gear hasn’t touched down in a while.You don’t need another breakthrough.You need to be where you are—long enough to see that what you’ve been looking for is already here.It's a vulnerable experience, but that's where the real growth lives.And I'm going to walk you through it all.Check your inbox!
• 6.
  The Controller Archetype

  “If I stay in control, nothing can fall apart.”You hold it all together. You make the plans. Manage the details. Anticipate what could go wrong.You’ve become incredibly capable—and deeply tense.Your grip is tight because life has felt unsafe.But that control? It’s costing you ease. Joy. Breath.The truth is, not everything has to be held so tightly.And it starts by learning how to create a stronger sense of inner safety.And I'm going to walk you through it all.Check your inbox!