Is Your Child Facing a Silent Emergency? - inspired by Netflix Series Adolescence.

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Quiz Questions

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As school approaches, how has your child's overall mood and excitement level changed?
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- A.
  Excited, positive, and looking forward to school.
- B.
  A bit nervous but generally okay; typical back-to-school jitters.
- C.
  Noticeably more irritable, withdrawn, or sad than usual.
- D.
  Expressing strong dread, anger, or despair about going back to school.
2.
Have you observed any changes in your child's sleep patterns as the school year nears?
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- A.
  Sleep is consistent and healthy.
- B.
  Slight shifts, maybe a bit harder to fall asleep or wake up.
- C.
  Significant changes: sleeping much more or less, frequent nightmares, or difficulty staying asleep.
- D.
  Dramatic and persistent sleep disturbances impacting their daily functioning and energy.
3.
How is your child currently handling social interactions, especially concerning school peers or new social situations?
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- A.
  Engaged, confident, and looking forward to seeing friends.
- B.
  A little shy or hesitant, but generally manages social situations.
- C.
  Expressing anxiety about friends, new classmates, or avoiding social gatherings.
- D.
  Actively isolating from friends, expressing fear of social situations, or concerns about bullying.
4.
How does your child react to discussions about school, homework, or academic expectations?
- A.
  Engaged and cooperative, seems ready for academic challenges.
- B.
  Mild grumbling or occasional procrastination, but eventually gets it done.
- C.
  Shows significant resistance, frustration, or disinterest in schoolwork.
- D.
  Experiences intense anxiety, meltdowns, or complete refusal to engage with academic topics.
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Have you noticed any new or increased physical complaints (e.g., headaches, stomachaches) without a clear medical cause, especially on school days?
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- A.
  No, generally healthy with no unusual complaints.
- B.
  Occasional minor complaints, easily resolved.
- C.
  Frequent complaints that seem to peak on school mornings or during school-related stress.
- D.
  Persistent, severe physical symptoms that significantly impact their ability to attend or focus at school.
6.
How does your child manage their emotions when faced with frustration, disappointment, or perceived failure?
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- A.
  Expresses feelings appropriately and recovers well.
- B.
  Gets upset but usually calms down with some support.
- C.
  Struggles to cope, leading to disproportionate emotional outbursts or withdrawal.
- D.
  Exhibits extreme difficulty regulating emotions, resulting in severe meltdowns, aggression, or prolonged shutdown.
7.
Has your child's overall level of energy or motivation changed as school approaches?
- A.
  Energetic and motivated for the new school year.
- B.
  Normal energy levels, maybe a bit tired from summer fun.
- C.
  Noticeably low energy, lethargic, or lacking motivation for most activities.
- D.
  Profound lack of energy, constant fatigue, or complete apathy towards daily life.
8.
How has your child's willingness to engage in family activities or conversations changed?
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- A.
  Actively participates and enjoys family time.
- B.
  Sometimes prefers alone time, but still connects with family.
- C.
  Often withdraws, avoids family interactions, or seems distant during conversations.
- D.
  Almost completely isolated from family, rarely communicates, or actively resists engagement.
9.
Have you noticed any new or increased risky behaviors (e.g., substance use, reckless actions, defiance) as a way to cope with stress?
- A.
  No, their behavior is generally safe and responsible.
- B.
  Minor instances of pushing boundaries, but nothing concerning.
- C.
  Some concerning new risky behaviors that suggest poor coping mechanisms.
- D.
  Significant or escalating risky behaviors that pose a serious threat to their safety or well-being.
10.
How does your child respond to transitions or changes in routine, particularly related to school?
- A.
  Adapts easily and embraces new routines.
- B.
  Adjusts with minor grumbling or a short period of adaptation.
- C.
  Struggles significantly with changes, becoming anxious or resistant.
- D.
  Experiences extreme distress, panic, or refusal when faced with transitions or new routines.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Code Green: All Clear (Low Concern)
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Your child/student/young person appears to be navigating the typical challenges of adolescence with good coping mechanisms and open communication. Continue to foster a supportive environment.Let's dive into the "Emergency Codes" and what you can Try This... right now! Try This... Top 3 Trauma-Informed Coaching Strategies for Quick Wins:"Curiosity Questions" to Spark Connection: When they share something, big or small, ask open-ended questions that invite more detail and show genuine interest. "That sounds interesting, what was the best part of that experience?" or "Tell me more about what that felt like." This coaches them to elaborate and reinforces that you're a safe listener.Acknowledge Effort & Strengths: Point out and affirm their resilience, problem-solving skills, and effort, rather than just the outcome. "I really admire how you worked through that challenge, even when it was tough," or "Your dedication to that project is really impressive!" This coaches them to recognize their own capabilities.Initiate "Check-In Habits": Establish simple, consistent moments of connection that become a natural part of your day. This could be a five-minute chat during a drive, a quick greeting when they arrive, or a regular "high-low" at dinner. These predictable touchpoints coach them to expect and value connection.Hey there, I’m Coach Professor Kay 👋🏽Founder of Future Boss University — where we raise kids, tweens, and teens to lead with Class, Character, Confidence, Connection, and Capacity — like a B.O.S.S.!When I’m not mentoring Future Bosses, you’ll find me spreading positivity, spending time with GOD, chilling with my boo thang (my hubby of 25+ years 💕), cheering on my three amazing teens, slaying with my students and Future Bosses, or creating content and dreaming up new ways to help families glow up from the inside out. ✨At FBU, we’re all about helping parents and caring adults future-proof this next generation — with etiquette, leadership skills, life coaching, and a whole lot of heart. ❤️You’ve just taken a powerful step by completing the “Is Your Teen a Silent Emergency?” quiz — now it’s time for the next step.🎯 Join the waitlist for our Boss911: Back-to-School Reset Retreat — where we help your Future Boss reset, rebuild confidence, and step into the new school year with purpose, poise, and power.Help your Future Boss trade silent struggles for social confidence, leadership skills, and emotional resilience. Spots are limited — be the first to know when registration opens! 🙌🏽Need even more Boss-worthy resources? Check these out:📸 Instagram: @thebossitiquettecoach📘 Facebook: @https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H6rPk2UQx/✍🏽 Download the free Back-to-School Parent First Aid Kit — a quick and powerful way to help your tween or teen start saying “yes” to purpose over peer pressure.📅 Don’t miss out! Join the retreat waitlist today so your child can experience the ultimate back-to-school reset and glow-up.
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Code Yellow: Caution (Watchful Waiting / Early Warning Signs)
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There are some indicators that your child/student/young person might be experiencing mild stress, anxiety, or social difficulties. These are not immediate emergencies but warrant closer observation and proactive engagement.Let's dive into the "Emergency Codes" and what you can Try This... right now! Try This... Top 3 Trauma-Informed Coaching Strategies for Quick Wins:"Observe & Offer" (No Pressure): Instead of asking "What's wrong?", try a neutral observation followed by an open invitation. "I've noticed you seem a bit quieter than usual lately. No pressure at all, but I'm here if you ever want to chat about anything." This coaches them that you're attentive without demanding a response.Coach for "Micro-Choices": When a child feels a lack of control, offering small, manageable choices can be empowering. "Would you rather tackle that homework now, or after a quick 10-minute break?" "Do you want to talk about this seated or while we take a short walk?" This coaches them to build agency in small steps.Introduce "Calm Tools" as Options: Share simple regulation techniques as suggestions, not demands. "Sometimes when I feel overwhelmed, taking a few deep breaths helps me reset. Would you like to try one with me, or explore what helps you?" This coaches them on self-management strategies.Hey there, I’m Coach Professor Kay 👋🏽Founder of Future Boss University — where we raise kids, tweens, and teens to lead with Class, Character, Confidence, Connection, and Capacity — like a B.O.S.S.!When I’m not mentoring Future Bosses, you’ll find me spreading positivity, spending time with GOD, chilling with my boo thang (my hubby of 25+ years 💕), cheering on my three amazing teens, slaying with my students and Future Bosses, or creating content and dreaming up new ways to help families glow up from the inside out. ✨At FBU, we’re all about helping parents and caring adults future-proof this next generation — with etiquette, leadership skills, life coaching, and a whole lot of heart. ❤️You’ve just taken a powerful step by completing the “Is Your Teen a Silent Emergency?” quiz — now it’s time for the next step.🎯 Join the waitlist for our Boss911: Back-to-School Reset Retreat — where we help your Future Boss reset, rebuild confidence, and step into the new school year with purpose, poise, and power.Help your Future Boss trade silent struggles for social confidence, leadership skills, and emotional resilience. Spots are limited — be the first to know when registration opens! 🙌🏽Need even more Boss-worthy resources? Check these out:📸 Instagram: @thebossitiquettecoach📘 Facebook: @https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H6rPk2UQx/✍🏽 Download the free Back-to-School Parent First Aid Kit — a quick and powerful way to help your tween or teen start saying “yes” to purpose over peer pressure.📅 Don’t miss out! Join the retreat waitlist today so your child can experience the ultimate back-to-school reset and glow-up.
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Code Orange: Urgent (Intervention Recommended)
Your child/student/young person is showing significant signs of distress, withdrawal, or concerning behavioral changes that suggest a deeper struggle. Professional guidance and intervention are highly recommended to prevent escalation.Let's dive into the "Emergency Codes" and what you can Try This... right now! Try This... Top 3 Trauma-Informed Coaching Strategies for Quick Wins::Establish "Predictable Presence": Reinforce your consistent availability and commitment to their well-being. "I'm here for you, and we'll navigate this together." Stick to routines where possible to provide a sense of stability. This coaches them towards trust and reliability.Practice "Active & Reflective Listening": Focus on truly hearing their perspective and reflecting back what you understand, without judgment or offering solutions immediately. "It sounds like you're feeling really frustrated with X," or "I hear you saying that Y is making you feel anxious." This coaches them that their feelings are valid and heard.Coach Towards "Connecting to Support Circle": Help them brainstorm and connect with other trusted adults in their life (e.g., a school counselor, another family member, a coach). "Who else in your life do you feel comfortable talking to when things get tough? How can I help you reach out?" This coaches them on building a wider support network.Hey there, I’m Coach Professor Kay 👋🏽Founder of Future Boss University — where we raise kids, tweens, and teens to lead with Class, Character, Confidence, Connection, and Capacity — like a B.O.S.S.!When I’m not mentoring Future Bosses, you’ll find me spreading positivity, spending time with GOD, chilling with my boo thang (my hubby of 25+ years 💕), cheering on my three amazing teens, slaying with my students and Future Bosses, or creating content and dreaming up new ways to help families glow up from the inside out. ✨At FBU, we’re all about helping parents and caring adults future-proof this next generation — with etiquette, leadership skills, life coaching, and a whole lot of heart. ❤️You’ve just taken a powerful step by completing the “Is Your Teen a Silent Emergency?” quiz — now it’s time for the next step.🎯 Join the waitlist for our Boss911: Back-to-School Reset Retreat — where we help your Future Boss reset, rebuild confidence, and step into the new school year with purpose, poise, and power.Help your Future Boss trade silent struggles for social confidence, leadership skills, and emotional resilience. Spots are limited — be the first to know when registration opens! 🙌🏽Need even more Boss-worthy resources? Check these out:📸 Instagram: @thebossitiquettecoach📘 Facebook: @https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H6rPk2UQx/✍🏽 Download the free Back-to-School Parent First Aid Kit — a quick and powerful way to help your tween or teen start saying “yes” to purpose over peer pressure.📅 Don’t miss out! Join the retreat waitlist today so your child can experience the ultimate back-to-school reset and glow-up.
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Code Red: Immediate Crisis (Emergency Action Required)
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Your child/student/young person is exhibiting severe symptoms of distress, including potential self-harm, severe depression, significant risky behaviors, or complete withdrawal. This is an immediate emergency. Seek professional help (therapist, doctor, crisis hotline) right away.Let's dive into the "Emergency Codes" and what you can Try This... right now! Try This... Top 3 Trauma-Informed Coaching Strategies for Quick Wins::Maintain Your Regulated Presence: Your calm demeanor can be a powerful anchor. Speak in a low, steady tone, and maintain a non-threatening posture. "I'm right here with you. We're going to get you the help you need." Your regulation coaches them towards feeling safer.Focus on Immediate Safety & Simple Directives: Remove any immediate dangers and provide clear, simple instructions for safety. "Let's sit down here," or "Can you take a deep breath with me?" If self-harm is a concern, do not leave them alone. This coaches them towards immediate, essential action.Directly Facilitate Connection to Professional Support: While remaining present and calm, actively call and connect with crisis hotlines, mental health professionals, or emergency services. This is the priority. Have these numbers readily available. (Examples below)Hey there, I’m Coach Professor Kay 👋🏽Founder of Future Boss University — where we raise kids, tweens, and teens to lead with Class, Character, Confidence, Connection, and Capacity — like a B.O.S.S.!When I’m not mentoring Future Bosses, you’ll find me spreading positivity, spending time with GOD, chilling with my boo thang (my hubby of 25+ years 💕), cheering on my three amazing teens, slaying with my students and Future Bosses, or creating content and dreaming up new ways to help families glow up from the inside out. ✨At FBU, we’re all about helping parents and caring adults future-proof this next generation — with etiquette, leadership skills, life coaching, and a whole lot of heart. ❤️You’ve just taken a powerful step by completing the “Is Your Teen a Silent Emergency?” quiz — now it’s time for the next step.🎯 Join the waitlist for our Boss911: Back-to-School Reset Retreat — where we help your Future Boss reset, rebuild confidence, and step into the new school year with purpose, poise, and power.Help your Future Boss trade silent struggles for social confidence, leadership skills, and emotional resilience. Spots are limited — be the first to know when registration opens! 🙌🏽Need even more Boss-worthy resources? Check these out:📸 Instagram: @thebossitiquettecoach📘 Facebook: @https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H6rPk2UQx/✍🏽 Download the free Back-to-School Parent First Aid Kit — a quick and powerful way to help your tween or teen start saying “yes” to purpose over peer pressure.📅 Don’t miss out! Join the retreat waitlist today so your child can experience the ultimate back-to-school reset and glow-up.

Is Your Child Facing a Silent Emergency? - inspired by Netflix Series Adolescence.

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Quiz Outcomes