What house are you parenting from?

Quiz Questions

1.
When you feel your child pushing limits, your inner voice says…
- A.
  Let’s figure out what’s really going on here.
- B.
  I need to get this under control.
- C.
  Why is this happening again?
- D.
  They’re just being a kid… I think?
2.
Your home feels most like this on a hard day:
- A.
  A cave — everything feels shut down, even you.
- B.
  A storm — unpredictable and loud.
- C.
  A rhythm — things wobble, but they don’t break.
- D.
  A bootcamp — everything must be followed or it falls apart.
3.
The way you were parented mostly taught you:
- A.
  To walk on eggshells.
- B.
  That connection matters more than compliance.
- C.
  That keeping control equals safety.
- D.
  That emotions should be hidden or handled privately.
4.
When things escalate with your child, your body usually…
- A.
  Stiffens, like you need to hold it all together.
- B.
  Grounds itself (or at least tries to), so you can meet the moment.
- C.
  Feels like it’s buzzing, shaking, or spinning.
- D.
  Shuts down — your mind goes blank, your voice disappears.
5.
When your child melts down, you often think:
- A.
  I feel numb, I don’t know what to do.
- B.
  Why can’t they just calm down?
- C.
  I’ve got to end this fast.
- D.
  This is hard, but I know they need me.
6.
Which truth feels hardest to face?
- A.
  My reactions might be affecting my child more than I realise.
- B.
  I’ve been trying to force peace by holding control.
- C.
  I’ve gone quiet in my parenting, and that quiet has a cost.
- D.
  I know connection matters, but I forget how to live it under pressure.
7.
You secretly wish your home felt more like…
- A.
  A home where everyone feels emotionally safe to show up.
- B.
  A place where limits don’t always feel like war.
- C.
  A space where laughter, boundaries, and repair all belong.
- D.
  A soft place to land — not a battle zone.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The House of Chaos
2.
The House of Control
3.
The House of Silence
4.
The House of Play