Let's be real: the hottest people aren't just born that way. They understand the architecture of their own power. Your deepest desires and your most challenging patterns are not random; they are the two key components of your personal operating system. This quiz is the diagnostic. It's designed to demystify the source code of your unique relational dynamics, pinpointing exactly where your power is leaking and how to transform into your most magnetic strength.
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Being the best sous-chef ever and helping out in any way you’re told so that you can help make a meal exactly how your partner likes it
B.
Sitting in the kitchen with your favorite beverage, snacking on hors d'oeuvres and chatting while your partner cooks something yummy they know you’ll just love.
C.
Picking the menu (you know what you want to eat and don’t want any deviation from your favorite meal), picking the time they’ll start cooking for you
D.
Looking up the recipe, doing the grocery shopping and the cooking – love watching your partner enjoy something you’ve made for them
2.
Q: Think back to playtime in school as a child. When it came to deciding what to play, you were most likely to….
Being told to close your eyes, having your cheeks grazed (or maybe even grabbed) as your partner hovers so close to your lips that you can feel the warmth of their breath. And just when you’re pretty sure the tension is going to kill you, they finally kiss those begging lips and you literally turn to goo.
B.
After staring at their lips every time they say a word, telling your date “I really want to know what those lips feel like, get over here already” – it makes you so happy when they excitedly lean in after your spicy request.
C.
Shoving your date against the wall, grabbing their face, pressing your body against theirs so they can feel exactly how much you’ve wanted to ravish them all night as you feel them melt in your arms.
D.
Feeling your date’s desire to be kissed by you, to feel your tongue in their mouth, to have their head grazed by you – it makes you so happy when someone enjoys being kissed and caressed by you.
4.
Q: When it’s time to lick or be licked, you most prefer to…
Have your mouth ridden or your face fucked as a play thing for their enjoyment. They can do with that tongue and mouth what they want and you love knowing that they can take you in that way
B.
Sit back and relax while you are taken on a journey to pleasure town. You love being touched, licked, and sucked in ways that delight you and are grateful when someone lets you just receive.
C.
Ride, grind, thrust someone’s face until you’re thoroughly satisfied. You love having it so that you make sure they lick you exactly how you like to licked and cum as many times as you want to cum.
D.
Worship someone’s most intimate places with your tongue and mouth. You love seeing them in pleasure and relish in knowing that your devotion to their enjoyment brings them to ecstasy.
Let people walk all over me. Sometimes I forget to take care of myself. My kindness can get taken advantage of and I become a pushover or doormat.
B.
Act entitled and privileged. Sometimes I can be ungrateful for what people give to me. What started off as knowing my worth turns into freeloading and unreciprocated receiving.
C.
Act selfishly and don’t consider other people’s feelings. Sometimes I forget to listen to the desires of my partner. My power and passion can get the best of me.
D.
Become a martyr to the relationship. Sometimes I forget that I can’t do everything for everyone. What started off as a desire to help turns into exhausting acts of rescue and service.
6.
Q: When it comes to getting domestic things done with a partner you love…
Being the best homemaker for them – folding the laundry how they prefer it, using the cleaning supplies they deem best, and helping out in any way you’re told so that your partner can enjoy the space exactly how they like it.
B.
Reading a book, getting some work done, or scrolling on socials while your partner cooks and handles all the tasks in the ways they know you’ll appreciate.
C.
Putting together a schedule of service, dictating how things are folded, cleaned, or tended to, and even inspecting how they’re done afterward to ensure everything is up to snuff.
D.
Executing flawlessly the plan you devised to handle the things you know your partner doesn’t want to worry about but will certainly adore once they’re all complete
7.
Q: When expressing something vulnerable about your sexual desire to a partner, it feels best for you to feel…
Ok hot stuff, you've shown your commitment to liberating yourself and reclaiming the potent power within you. 🙌Based on your responses, your primary erotic archetype is THE ALLOWER. Ready for your personal source code to hotness?
Ok hot stuff, you've shown your commitment to liberating yourself and reclaiming the potent power within you. 🙌Based on your responses, your primary erotic archetype is THE ACCEPTOR. Ready for your personal source code to hotness?
Ok hot stuff, you've shown your commitment to liberating yourself and reclaiming the potent power within you. 🙌Based on your responses, your primary erotic archetype is THE TAKER. Ready for your personal source code to hotness?
Ok hot stuff, you've shown your commitment to liberating yourself and reclaiming the potent power within you. 🙌Based on your responses, your primary erotic archetype is THE SERVER. Ready for your personal source code to hotness?
