What is Your Dating Archetype?

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Quiz Questions

1.
Which of these dating patterns feels most familiar?
- A.
  Always having one foot out, I like to keep my options open
- B.
  I hide who I really am because most people can’t handle my depth
- C.
  Like I’m doing all the work
- D.
  Like my passion or intensity might scare someone off
- E.
  Over-giving and then feeling under-appreciated or heartbroken
2.
When an attractive man flirts with me, my first instinct is to...
- A.
  Freeze… and then wonder if he’s just being friendly
- B.
  Strike up a conversation and give him my number if the vibe is right
- C.
  Brush it off and stay focused—I don’t have time for games
- D.
  You shut it down because your future husband had lighter eyes in the vision you had last Summer
- E.
  Flirt back and savor the adrenaline rush
3.
When someone I like pulls away, I usually...
- A.
  Take it as a sign to stop dating & work on myself
- B.
  Replay every interaction, overanalyze every text, and call all my girls for backup
- C.
  Throw myself into some creative project
- D.
  Say “next” and lean out. His loss.
- E.
  Lock into my routine
4.
Which compliment from a man lights you up the most?
- A.
  “I admire the way you carry yourself—you know what you want and don’t settle.”
- B.
  “You see the world in such a unique way. I could talk to you for hours.”
- C.
  “You are intoxicating. I can’t stop thinking about you.”
- D.
  “You feel like home… even the parts of you that most people wouldn’t understand.”
- E.
  "You make everything feel more beautiful“
5.
Deep down, my biggest fear about falling in love is that….
- A.
  If someone really knew the real me, they’d leave
- B.
  I’ll wake up one day in a routine, boring life where I feel totally uninspired
- C.
  It'll be a waste of my time if it doesn't work out
- D.
  The passion between us won't last
- E.
  I'll get my heart broken (again)
6.
When it comes to asking for what I want in dating…
- A.
  I’d rather do it all myself than risk being disappointed
- B.
  I drop hints, test the energy, and hope they just get it
- C.
  I change my mind so much it’s hard to know what I want!
- D.
  I'm usually thinking more about what he wants than what I need
- E.
  I say it clearly and directly— I know what I want
7.
I feel most secure in dating when...
- A.
  His energy is steady. He shows up when he says he will, with presence and leadership.
- B.
  He speaks my language—poetry, playlists, adventure. He can keep up with me.
- C.
  He tells me he feels deeply seen, cared for, and loved by me.
- D.
  He craves me. His desire is obvious in how he touches me, admires me, and speaks to me.
- E.
  He doesn't get spooked by my depth. He leans in and wants to understand my inner world.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
🔥 Your core dating archetype is the H0LY WH0RE.
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She is desire embodied.The fire. The unapologetic one.The woman who wants to be ravished, worshipped, and met in her full bigness.She is magnetic—deeply embodied in her sensual power.She knows the art of allure—not through manipulation, but through presence, mystery, and devotion to her own pleasure.She awakens others through radiance, not pursuit.She doesn’t chase love or attention.She draws it in—by being fully in love with herself and the life force that moves through her.🔥 A Note on the Word “Whore”This archetype reclaims the original meaning of “whore”—a woman who desires.Before patriarchy distorted it, “whore” was linked to sacred sexuality, healing, and divine feminine power.She is not shameful.She is holy.A channel for pleasure, truth, and remembrance.👑 GIFTS & MAGICThe Holy Whore teaches us that desire is holy.She invites us to stop shrinking, stop apologizing, and let our pleasure lead.You are magnetic.You don’t chase—you draw in.You have a fire that awakens others.When you speak your truth, the world listens.You...- Radiate sensuality and self-confidence- Awaken desire in others by owning your own- Live in full-bodied beauty, pleasure, and expression- Can transmute shame into power🌑 SHADOW: Sensual but guarded, performative, afraid of rejectionYou’ve been told you’re “too much”—so you’ve learned to shrink.You perform softness instead of leading with power.You crave to be seen—but fear being misunderstood or abandoned for it.When the Holy Whore is disconnected from her heart, she can become:- Manipulative or performative- Addicted to external validation- Obsessed with being desired instead of truly seen- Emotionally unavailable or avoidant- Trapped in shame about her own powerYou may lead with radiance—but withhold your real needs, drawing in men who love your shine, but not your soul.They admire you... but don’t stay.They crave your fire—but collapse when it gets real.⚠️ Who You’re at Risk of Attracting (If You Stay in Shadow)🚫 Core Pattern: Players. Performers. Hot/cold, inconsistent energy.When pleasure becomes performance—when desire is used to prove rather than to honor—you attract men who consume, not cherish.Those who want access to your body… not intimacy with your soul.If the Holy Whore hasn’t reclaimed her sacredness, she’ll keep proving her worth through seduction—and drawing in men who are addicted to the pursuit, not prepared for devotion.🔥 GROWTH EDGE: The Holy Whore’s MedicineYour true power is unlocked when desire and heart integrate.When seduction becomes a sacred invitation—not for attention, but for intimacy.You become a priestess of eros—seducing not to possess, but to awaken.You’re here to:- Let your truth lead—not your performative version of it- Honor your desire as divine- Be fully received in your erotic, emotional, and energetic bigness
2.
🧠 Your core dating archetype is the CREATIX.
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👑 Your core dating archetype is the QUEEN.
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She is power, clarity, and sovereign self-respect. She doesn’t beg to be chosen—she chooses.The Queen is the woman who walks through life with dignity, discernment, and direction. She is deeply anchored in her worth, connected to her vision, and unfazed by distractions.She doesn't beg. She doesn’t bargain. She doesn’t bend.She chooses—from wholeness. From knowing. From power.She’s not just here for her own pleasure—she’s here to lead alongside a King and build a legacy worthy of her heart.👑 GIFTS & MAGICYou hold standards like spells. Your presence commands respect—without ever raising your voice. You don’t need to prove. You are.You...Embody self-respect, grace, and inner authorityLead with grounded values, not egoInspire devotion through clarity—not controlProtect what’s sacred: your energy, your time, your loveBalance heart with throne, softness with strengthAttract partners through your power—not your performance🌑 SHADOW: Over-functioning, control, martyrdom, masculine energyWhen disconnected from her heart, the Queen may:Become rigid, controlling, or self-righteousBuild walls instead of standardsStruggle to soften or receive supportIdentify with superiority or self-sacrificeResist vulnerability, tenderness, or asking for helpYou lead everything—including the relationship. You don’t ask for support. You handle it. And secretly… you wonder if you’ll ever be met by a man who can rise.Often stuck in survival mode, the Queen unconsciously slips into Provider energy—producing results, managing dynamics, leading with logic. You may unintentionally emasculate men while craving someone strong enough to meet you.As Alison Armstrong teaches:“If you’re pretending not to need anything, you’ll attract men who believe you.”⚠️ Who You’re at Risk of Attracting (If You Stay in Shadow)🚫 Core Pattern: Man-children. Passive partners. Men who want a mother, not a mirror.If you don’t soften your energy, you’ll keep attracting men who need to be led— Not men who are ready to lead with you.Men who admire your strength… but expect you to carry the relationship. The ones who love your magic—but resist becoming the King who can match it. You end up respected—but not cherished. Powerful—but alone.🔥 GROWTH EDGE: The Queen’s MedicineTo soften without collapsing. To let devotion in—without micromanaging it. To stop doing the most and let yourself be met.When healed, the Queen no longer guards herself with armor… She protects herself with truth. She doesn’t close her heart—she opens it only to those who earn it.
4.
🔮 Your core dating archetype is the WITCH.
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🌹 Your core dating archetype is the LOVER.
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She is the romantic. The tender-hearted. The one who loves deeply and dreams of being adored with just as much intention.The Lover is the embodiment of open-heartedness and deep connection. She lives through her body, her senses, and her feelings. She doesn't just want intimacy—she is intimacy.She’s the woman who turns life into a love story—just by the way she looks at it.Where the Queen holds standards…Where the Witch holds truth…The Lover holds the heart.👑 GIFTS & MAGICYou lead with devotion.You see the good in people. You see beauty in the details—and your softness makes others soften too.You feel the tiniest energetic shifts in a room.Your magic lives in emotional presence and attunement. It awakens bliss in others simply by being.You…- Make others feel seen, cherished, chosen- Inspire art, poetry, music, beauty- Turn ordinary moments into sacred ones- Live in the now—not the plan🌑 SHADOW: Over-giving, anxious attachment, romantic idealismWhen the Lover is disconnected from her inner worth, she may:- Feel anxious, clingy, or needy when love feels uncertain- Abandon boundaries for connection- Become needy or emotionally enmeshed- Lose herself in love or fantasy - Become emotionally enmeshed or hyper-attuned to her partner - Take a man’s words as truth—without watching how he shows up- Overgives to be lovedWhat this might look like:- You tend to give more than you receive.- You spiral when love isn’t mirrored.- You confuse over-functioning with care—and end up exhausted or heartbroken.⚠️ Who You’re at Risk of Attracting (If You Stay in Shadow) 💔 Core Pattern:- Ghosters. Love bombers. Emotionally unavailable men.- The ones who say all the right things… but never fully claim you.- The men who crave your light—but shrink from your depth.- They feel emotionally attuned at first, only to fade the moment true intimacy is required.- They mirror your heart just enough to get close—then disappear.- When your love isn’t rooted in self-worth, your tenderness becomes a beacon for takers instead of receivers.- If the Lover doesn’t anchor her heart in herself first…- She’ll keep trying to earn love from those who only know how to consume it.🔥 GROWTH EDGE: The Lover’s MedicineThe Lover teaches us that it is safe to be fully available—to beauty, to touch, to love, to feeling.But she must also remember: her love is precious, not owed.When healed, the Lover no longer aches to be chosen—She radiates so much love, the world can't help but respond.You’re here to:- Stop collapsing into over-giving and start receiving with sovereignty- Know your tenderness isn’t a flaw—it’s a filter- Stay open without abandoning yourself

What is Your Dating Archetype?

Every woman dates from an archetype—one that shapes who she attracts, what she tolerates, and how deeply she receives.Uncover the feminine energy quietly running your love life… and meet the version of you who magnetizes devotion with ease.Take the quiz now!

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