The Soul Dating Archetype Quiz

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When a conflict or disagreement arises with your partner, you:

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    A. Feel a surge of frustration or irritation and might get defensive, use humour/sarcasm or shut down quickly. You often try to stay in control of the situation, but emotions rise fast and are hard to manage in the moment.
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    B. Talk it through, listening to their perspective while sharing your own. You aim to understand each other and find a reasonable compromise.
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    C. Feel anxious or overwhelmed until it’s resolved. You might cry, worry about being misunderstood, or need immediate reassurance to calm down.
• 2.
  When it comes to asking for help or support from a partner, you:

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    A. Rarely ask – you prefer to handle things on your own. You pride yourself on being self-sufficient and not needing anyone’s help unless absolutely necessary.
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    B. Will ask for support when you truly need it, and you’re happy to return the favour. You value mutual help in a relationship but also take care of yourself.
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    C. Often seek your partner’s help, input, or reassurance. It makes you feel loved and secure when they step in for you, so you naturally turn to them frequently.
• 3.
  Your friends would describe your approach to relationships as:

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    A. Independent and maybe a bit of a closed book. You don’t easily let people get too close, and you maintain your own life and interests firmly.
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    B. Balanced and healthy. You give love and support but also have self-respect – you won’t lose yourself in a relationship, yet you truly value your partner.
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    C. Very loving and wholehearted. You wear your heart on your sleeve and invest deeply in your relationships, even if it means you can get hurt.
• 4.
  When you start dating someone new, you tend to: 

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    A. Come across as chill or even a little detached, but underneath you’re assessing everything, (and secretly wondering what it would be like to have a family with this guy.)
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    B. Put genuine effort into building a connection while keeping other parts of your life going. You open up gradually as trust grows, balancing time with them and time for yourself.
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    C. Fall fast and hard. When you click with someone, you want to spend as much time together as possible and might even daydream about a future with them early on.
• 5.
  In relationships, your biggest fear is:

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    A. Losing your independence or sense of self. You never want to become too reliant on someone else or compromise your personal goals and freedom.
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    B. Things becoming unhealthy or one-sided. You worry about either losing yourself or not building a real connection – you strive to keep a happy middle ground.
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    C. Being abandoned or unreciprocated in love. You fear giving your whole heart and then getting hurt, left behind, or not loved as deeply in return.
• 6.
  How do you feel about being single?

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    A. Honestly, you’re comfortable being single. Your life is full enough on its own, and you’d rather be alone than settle for the wrong person or lose your freedom
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    B. You’re okay on your own and use that time for personal growth, hobbies, and friends. You do eventually want a great relationship, but you’re willing to wait for someone who adds real value to your life.
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    C. You really dislike staying single for too long. You feel happiest when you have someone to love, and you tend to always be looking (even if casually) for that special someone to share life with.
• 7.
  If your partner does something that upsets or hurts you, how do you react?

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    A. You react fast – you might get sharp, distant, or visibly irritated. You’ll probably say something blunt or try to push them away or shut it down to avoid getting too emotional.
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    B. You tell them you’re hurt and hope you can discuss it. You’re upset, but you also want to hear their side and work through it together.
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    C. You get very hurt and might even wonder if you did something wrong. Your emotions overflow – you might cry, feel anxious, or desperately need them to apologise and reassure you that everything is okay between you two.
• 8.
  When making weekend plans as a couple, you:

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    A. Often have your own plans or ideas, and you’re totally fine if you each do your own thing sometimes. If you can’t agree on an activity, you’d rather not compromise your plans – independence comes first.
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    B. Try to find something you both will enjoy. Maybe you’ll trade off choosing activities or find a mix (like brunch for one’s choice and a movie for the other’s). Spending time together matters, but so does fairness.
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    C. Usually go along with whatever they want to do. It genuinely makes you happy to see your partner happy. You might have preferences, but you’d rather be together (doing what they enjoy) than risk any conflict by insisting on your way.
• 9.
  The kind of men you usually attract tend to be:

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    A. Either very confident, successful types or sometimes quieter guys who don’t mind that you take the lead. Some men have even said they found you intimidating until they got to know you
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    B. Generally good men with decent hearts. You’ve had a mix of experiences, but overall you tend to end up with partners who treat you with respect and balance (even if it doesn’t always work out long-term).
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    C. Men who need a lot of care or come with their own emotional baggage. You often find yourself with partners who are a bit selfish or unavailable, and you wind up giving more than you receive in love

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The Grape Woman

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  Mostly As: You are the Grape Woman → Becoming Fine WineYou’re the high-functioning, articulate and self aware woman. Sharp, discerning, and outwardly calm, you’ve learned to rely on yourself because depending on others rarely ended well. You’ve read many self help books and done endless self development courses. People see you as articulate, grounded, and in control, but very few get to see the tenderness underneath and you find yourself still repeating the same patterns in love. 🍇 You know yourself well but there seems to be something you’re missing. 🍇 You hold yourself to high standards. 🍇 You never want to be “too much,” so you rarely let yourself unravel, even when things hurt. 🍇 You’ll scroll through Hinge while sipping your matcha, swipe left on ten men in a row, then quietly close the app and wonder if love is even real. 🍇 You can hold space for anyone…except maybe yourself. ❤ Deep down, you want to let go and be met. You don’t want to be worshipped from afar, you want to be held. The next chapter isn’t about working harder it’s about letting go. ❤Read the email I sent you to find out more about your Archetype and how to bring evolution and lasting change into your love life.With loveLaura
• 2.
  The Avocado Woman

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  Mostly Bs: You are the Avocado Woman The Healthy Feminine EmbodimentYou’re the embodied, emotionally integrated woman. 🥑 You’ve done the work, not just to understand your patterns, but to actually shift them. 🥑 You don’t lead with performance or collapse. 🥑 You lead with presence. You’re soft because you’re solid inside. 🥑 You don’t need a relationship to feel whole, but you’re fully open to one that adds depth, joy, and devotion to your already rich life. ❤ You’re no longer trying to be chosen you’re choosing from your power, your peace, and your truth. Consciously turn up the dial on your magnetism and ability to receive and take all your relationships to a whole new level! ❤Read the email I sent you to find out more about your Archetype and how to to deepen your beautiful avocado energy even more.With LoveLaura
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  The Rose Woman

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  Mostly Cs: You are the Rose Woman → Becoming Rose PerfumeYou are the deep-feeling, love-led woman. You give with your whole heart. 🌹You crave closeness, deep intimacy, and devotion. 🌹 You dream of soulmate love, of being truly cherished. 🌹 You feel things deeply and you’re not afraid to show it🌹Sometimes your tenderness rushes ahead of your self-trust. ❤ You often dive deep quickly with new men, believing chemistry means connection and end up feeling that you are giving more than you are receiving back. You can still show up full of warmth and heart, but now with the self-trust to hold your own. ❤ Read the email I sent you to find out more about your Archetype and how you can turn your rose energy into something even more powerful. With loveLaura