Are You Ready to be a Parent?

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Quiz Questions

1.
1. Where are you in your parenting journey?
- A.
  Planning — starting to think about timing and what we might need to do to be ready!
- B.
  Actively trying to get pregnant.
- C.
  Pregnant — Our baby is officially on the way!
- D.
  Other
2.
2. I can identify my emotions, manage stress effectively, and deal with challenges constructively.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
3.
3. I feel emotionally stable, balanced, and connected to those I love and trust.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
4.
4. I have a high tolerance for frustration, unexpected setbacks, and change.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
5.
5. I am confident in my ability to stay calm in stressful situations and ask for help when needed.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
6.
6. I have a solid grasp of the belief and value system I want to pass on to my kids.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
7.
7. My partner and I communicate openly, feel heard, and respect each other’s opinions, even in disagreements.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
8.
8. My partner and I are able to resolve conflict in a timely and respectful way.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
9.
9. My partner and I have a plan for maintaining intimacy and connection after having children.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
10.
10. My partner and I have discussed and agreed on our respective responsibilities in managing family life.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
11.
11. My partner and I share common goals and values for our family and are aligned in our vision for the future.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
12.
12. My partner and I understand our financial situation, have a realistic budget, and a clear plan for supporting our children long-term.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
13.
13. We are aware of the cost of childcare, healthcare, and other child-related expenses.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
14.
14. We are ready and willing to make financial sacrifices for our child’s needs.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
15.
15. I’ve had a pre-pregnancy checkup and have the medical support and resources I need for pregnancy and childbirth.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
16.
16. I am aware of the physical demands of pregnancy and childbirth and feel prepared for them.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
17.
17. I’m mentally prepared for the changes of motherhood.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
18.
18. I’m aware of the mental and emotional toll that pregnancy, childbirth, and early motherhood can take, and I know where to go for help when I find myself in need.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
19.
19. My partner and I are both open to adjusting our career plans, taking family leave, and prioritizing family when necessary.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
20.
20. My partner and I have discussed work-life balance, shared responsibilities, and have a plan for childcare while we work.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
21.
21. We are both willing to adjust our social lives, shift personal activities, and embrace a more structured routine to prioritize our family.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
22.
22. We know it takes a village to raise a child, and we have worked to put a reliable support system in place to help us.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
23.
23. I’m ready to embrace the unpredictability of life with a child and understand that things won’t always go as planned.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
24.
24. I am patient, empathetic, affectionate, and enjoy providing comfort to others.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
25.
25. I feel at ease with children and enjoy being around them.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
26.
26. I am ready to emotionally bond with my child and be a steady presence in their life.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
27.
27. I have a clear vision of the kind of parent I want to be
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
28.
28. I’m committed to the lifelong journey of parenting, including guiding, supporting, and navigating milestones as my child grows.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
29.
29. I’m flexible and adaptable, prepared for interruptions, and willing to be patient with myself in motherhood.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not
30.
30. I am at peace with the idea of becoming a mother and am excited about the future.
- A.
  Absolutely
- B.
  Yes, mostly
- C.
  Not really
- D.
  Definitely not

Quiz Outcomes

1.
EARLY EXPLORATION
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You're just beginning to consider motherhood, and that's perfectly okay! This score suggests you're curious about parenthood but haven't done extensive preparation yet.This is a great time to learn, reflect, and start building foundations across all the different areas. Take this chance to do some research, have those important conversations, and figure out which areas you want to develop first. Everyone starts somewhere, and knowing here you stand is a huge first step!
2.
BUILDING READINESS
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You've started the journey! You're actively thinking about motherhood and have taken some initial steps, which is great. There are still some important aspects of parenthood that you might want to explore more deeply before you officially dive in. Give yourself some time to work on specific areas and turn those growth opportunities into strengths. You're making progress!
3.
GROWING READINESS
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You're well on your way! You've given this motherhood thing serious thought and have several areas where you're feeling confident. You have some definite strengths to build on, along with a few spots that could use a bit more attention. With some focused effort on your growth areas, you can move toward parenthood feeling good about your preparation while still developing along the way.
4.
STRONG READINESS
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You are in a great place, my friend. 💕👏💕👏You’ve clearly put a lot of thought into this big life change and have built solid foundations in most areas. You have a realistic view of both the amazing moments and tough challenges ahead. No one ever feels 100% ready (and that's totally normal!), but you've established strong emotional, relational, financial, and practical foundations that will really help you as you become a mom.

Are You Ready to be a Parent?

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