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The Avoider
You want money to feel a lot better — more abundant, more empowering — but when you go to check your bank account, you're hit with a tidal wave of shame and worry — so naturally you avoid looking at your money. It's easier to ghost your money than face a shame spiral, so you dodge the things like checking your budget, showing up for your business, making offers, or tracking the numbers.Not because you're "bad with money," but because you are trying to protect yourself from the gremlins that live under the surface of your money story. The Cost:Avoiding brings temporary relief, but you stay trapped in the "I’m irresponsible" story. You long for the power and freedom money could bring, but because money itself feels emotionally loaded, you struggle to build the competence and confidence you crave. So things stay the same, shame keeps tightening its grip, and money is not as reliable as safe as you deserve.The True Desire:What you really want is to feel confident and competent with money and to shake off the heaviness of shame and unworthiness. You want to know you can trust yourself to create your desired reality, to take action, and to influence your financial outcomes--and you want to feel powerful and good about yourself while you do it. Healing Invitation:This isn’t about hustling harder or shaming yourself into discipline. It’s about building self-trust and self-compassion. Safety doesn’t come from hiding; it comes from presence. Every time you face your financial reality (and the emotions that come with it) with compassion, you prove to yourself: I am capable. I can make choices that create the life I want. Step by step, you’ll build confidence, competence, and real safety with money — no shame required.Unlocked Identity — The Powerful OneWhen the Avoider within you integrates, you become the Powerful One—steady, self-trusting, and sovereign. You no longer run from responsibility because you feel safe with your own power. You stop hiding from your bank account, your potential, your power—and meet them all with calm authority. You lead from grounded confidence, not avoidance or control, and everything around you reorganizes to match that energy. Because you feel competent and powerful, you start to make strong, confident decisions about your finances. Opportunities expand because you trust yourself to handle them. You move through the world with quiet command—unshakable, generous, and free.In The Shameless Wealth Membership, I'll help you shift this identity, so you can stop hiding from money and start feeling rich and confident AF. 💫👇🏼