Discover What's Blocking Your Peace: The Chaos Archetype Quiz

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Quiz Questions

1.
When life feels overwhelming, your first instinct is to...
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- A.
  Make a list, fix it, manage it all because once the work is done, you can rest
- B.
  Get busyyyy, change something and if I can't change something I numb out
- C.
  I go into nurture and support role, take care of everyone else and help them navigate the stress
- D.
  Put on a brave face -- everyone is looking to me to decide how to feel, so I better have it together
2.
In relationships or friendships, which line hits closest to home for you?
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- A.
  I love deeply but get antsy fast. If things get weird or feel too heavy, I’m already halfway out the door.
- B.
  I'm good at relationships because I have good social skills and understand what people expect from me.
- C.
  You can take me anywhere -- everyone loves me, but few get to know the real me.
- D.
  I’m the glue. People count on me, but I secretly wish someone would take care of me for once
3.
When you do rest, what does it look like?
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- A.
  I don't like what I find when I slow down, so I just don't
- B.
  Rest feels scary because I don't want to let people down or appear lazy
- C.
  I try to rest and know I need it, but I can never seem to turn my brain off
- D.
  Rest feels good in theory, but I am honestly too busy to even try
4.
Which of these thoughts feels most terrifying to you?
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- A.
  If they really knew the real me, they wouldn't like me
- B.
  No one truly sees or supports me. If I don't do it, no one will.
- C.
  If I stay and settle, I'll miss out on what God really has for me
- D.
  I'm afraid my people will leave me for someone "bigger and better"
5.
Which of these best capture how you feel about emotions?
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- A.
  Some of my emotions are fine to feel, but just not the messy ones
- B.
  I can tell you exactly what everyone else is feeling. I'm usually the one helping others with their feelings
- C.
  I never really cry? Sometimes I wonder if I should feel more than I do
- D.
  I feel like I share my feelings a lot with people but they never really get it
6.
Imagine getting hit with unexpected stress like a $15,000 medical bill you didn't plan for. What happens in your body?
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- A.
  My inner critic kicks up "how could you be so stupid to miss this?"
- B.
  I tense up and go into problem-solving mode immediately
- C.
  Uhhh yeah nope, deleting that email and blocking that debt collectors number
- D.
  Immediately start coaching myself through it "we're gunna be fine, we're gunna figure this out"
7.
Imagine that a safe adult (maybe even God) is watching over your current season of life. What could they say right now that would bring you peace?
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- A.
  You don't have to hold it all together anymore, I'm here.
- B.
  I see you loving everyone else so well, I'm here to take care of you.
- C.
  I've never wanted to leave you, even on your worst days. I love all of who you are.
- D.
  You can't miss it. Everything that is meant for you is going to be yours.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
You got the Anchor Result ⚓
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Holding it all in place, but secretly falling apart You’re the strong one. The steady one. The one everyone turns to because they know you’ll come through. You look capable on the outside (and you absolutely are) – but inside you’re stretched thin, tired, and wondering how long you can truly keep this up. I just invite you to take a deep breath. I know it’s a lot. And I know it’s been a long time, if ever, since someone felt big enough to hold you and the weight of everything you carry. Letting go hasn’t felt safe or wise…and you’re not wrong. You also didn’t get here overnight. You didn’t just choose this hectic life consciously, and I bet you’ve been trying to figure out where you “went wrong” to end up doing everything for everyone, yet still never feeling fully seen or cared for. Your current reality was built from a lifetime of disappointments: moments when you trusted and got let down, so you learned it’s safer to rely on yourself. You adapted brilliantly by becoming needless and never being the one caught in a vulnerable spot because you’ve always known, “no one is coming to save me.” So of course you’d work harder. Of course you’d keep spinning plates—it felt like the only option. And yet… you are craving more. That desire to be taken care of never fully extinguished, no matter how much you buried it. You long to lay it down. You long for someone to notice. You want rest without guilt, peace even when you mess up, and love you don’t have to earn. And I can tell you, without a shadow of a doubt…you can have every last one of those desires. It starts with meeting yourself where you are and remembering the peace God always intended for you, despite what pain has taught you. Enter your email below and I’ll send you your full archetype profile along with a FREE guided 7-day reset plan to begin rewriting your story
2.
You got the Wanderer Result 🌿
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Always going after freedom… but running from pain. On the outside, you look adventurous, spontaneous, and free-spirited (and you are). But there’s something ironic about you, that few would even know. It’s that you crave rest and effortlessness, and you try to portray those things, but deep down, it’s still the one treasure you haven’t been able to truly find. That creates a haunting, quiet sense that if others get too close they’ll see you don’t really have it all. A quiet thought that creeps up every now and then that tells you you’ll never be enough and everyone is going to know. Most days you forget all about this aching whisper because you’re always staying on the sunny side and dreaming up what’s next. You’ve learned that moving in the right direction is safer than stillness. This isn’t a weakness even if it feels exposing to hear it called out. Ironically, it’s your nervous system showing its incredible brilliance and strength. And here’s the thing: of course you run. It makes sense because of the life you’ve lived. Your survival pattern is actually brilliant. It’s also the very thing blocking you from feeling (like actually feeling) the full satisfaction you know this life can offer. Somewhere along the way, you learned that running and staying ever so slightly detached was the safest place for you to be. And you chase novelty and fun because it helps you avoid disappointment or being found out. But you’re not just a Wanderer. You’re a whole person who longs for love that lasts, peace that doesn’t disappear and the ability to stay without feeling trapped. Peace can be your new normal. ⬇ Enter your email and I’ll send you your full Wanderer profile along with your next seven steps for embodying more peace
3.
You got the Harmonizer Result 🎧
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You've done everything right; you feel like you have everyone's approval... but yet you still feel unseen.You’ve built your life around being agreeable, dependable, and easy to love. You say yes even when you mean no, you smooth over conflict, and you pride yourself on being “low maintenance.” But here’s the truth: you’ve been starving for real connection. For someone to see you, not just the version of you that keeps the peace. This archetype makes perfect sense. Your nervous system learned that pleasing others kept you safe from rejection or abandonment. So of course you performed. Of course you played small. It’s brilliant survival — but it’s not the fullness of who you are. And having freedom to be fully you and fully loved is the deepest ache of your heart. You’re here which tells me you’re already waking up to this. You’re noticing the resentment. You’re realizing that being “good” hasn’t brought in the depth of love or peace you long for. And you’re starting to wonder if there’s another way to go about it all. There is (OH yesssss, there is my love). Your life was never meant to be lived for everyone else. ⬇ Enter your email so I can champion you in a 7-day transformation: from living for everyone else to being fully and deeply known and radically loved for exactly who you are
4.
You got the Connector Result ✨
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Everyone loves you… but few actually know you.You’re magnetic. Charming. The life of the party. You know how to connect with anyone — and it’s the part of your personality that feels most naturalBut here’s the part they don’t see: the mask gets heavy. The pressure to maintain a reputation. To never leave the house without makeup or to wait to speak until it sounds perfectly polished. Things that used to feel easy and natural now feel like they’re heavy and full of pressure. You can’t remember a time when you didn’t feel pain in your body and when you slow down long enough you can feel the weight of the world on your shoulders.I need you to know that you’re not failing. Not losing your edge. And I promise, you’re not getting left behind or less relevant with age. But there is a breakdown happening that I know you can sense. The mask is cracking and you’re internally drowning in the panic of that truth. If you stop showing up as the curated, needless person they all know, you’re afraid they’ll leave.And so of course you shine. Of course you manage the room. It’s brilliant survival. You learned that being polished, funny, or “on” kept you safe from rejection. This isn’t vanity or selfishness. It’s your nervous system’s best protector doing what it does best.But at what cost? Because you are that beautiful, capable, room-working badass (I know you are) and you’re also a mess sometimes too. I know that without even seeing who’s on the other side of this screen because we all are. And I’m here to tell you that what you do matters, and who you are matters more. You were made to be fully seen, fully known, and fully loved… all without performing. And you can have the kind of life where you experience success when you’re on top of your game and when you’re not⬇ Enter your email so I can prove that to you over the next 7 days of teaching you to be a human being and not a human doing. You deserve to know true rest