Discover Your Self Leadership Style?

Image Source

Quiz Questions

1.
When it comes to taking action, in life or business, which best describes you?
- A.
  I act fast and push forward, I can’t stand waiting.
- B.
  I get excited but often lose interest before finishing.
- C.
  I need to know it’s dam near perfect before I put it out there.
- D.
  I want people to like what I do and I often second-guess how things will turn out.
2.
When you're overwhelmed, what’s your default response?
- A.
  Push through, I don’t like to stop.
- B.
  Rework the plan, maybe there’s a better way.
- C.
  Try to get everything under control myself.
- D.
  Procrastinate and deal with everyone else's needs first.
3.
How do you usually approach setting goals or planning for the future ?
- A.
  I set big goals and go hard, I like to see progress fast.
- B.
  I have lots of ideas, but struggle to choose one.
- C.
  I keep things safe and familiar, big goals terrify me
- D.
  I think about what others will think of my goals before I set them in stone.
4.
How do you feel about being seen, noticed, or standing out, in life or business??
- A.
  I don't mind, but I want to make sure I am seen the ‘right’ way.
- B.
  I avoid it unless I feel fully prepared and clear on intention
- C.
  I have loads of ideas but actually sharing them is a challenge.
- D.
  I show up, speak up, put myself out there, even when it’s uncomfortable.
5.
Your plate is full, your to-do list is overflowing. What’s your move?
- A.
  Multitask like a pro while slowly losing your mind.
- B.
  Rewrite the to-do list to feel productive (without doing anything).
- C.
  Keep moving, keep adding things, another task just means another win, right
- D.
  Focus on everyone else’s stuff first, mine can wait.
6.
You’ve got a new idea. What happens next?
- A.
  Start strong, switch directions halfway through.
- B.
  Add it to my ‘brilliant ideas’ list and forget about it.
- C.
  Research, plan, tweak… and maybe never actually do anything with it.
- D.
  Ask three people what they think before I move.
7.
How do you feel about consistency, especially when things get messy or boring??
- A.
  I keep going even when I don’t feel like it, consistency builds results.
- B.
  I know it's important, but I lose interest fast.
- C.
  Some days I’m on it, other days it’s chaos and catch up .
- D.
  I’m all about the routine - it grounds me.
8.
Which statement feels uncomfortably true?
- A.
  If I’m not achieving, I feel behind.
- B.
  I rarely finish what I start.
- C.
  I overthink a decision until i miss the moment.
- D.
  I often wait for others to validate my ideas first.
9.
Which phrase sounds most like your inner voice?
- A.
  Keep going, no time to stop now.
- B.
  There’s probably a better way … I’ll figure it out first.
- C.
  I should be able to handle this myself.
- D.
  Don’t make it awkward, just keep the peace.
10.
You’ve got one free hour. Do you ...
- A.
  Knock something off the list, let’s be productive?
- B.
  Start that new idea that’s been buzzing in your head?
- C.
  Scroll the socials, send a couple of messages and get annoyed for not using the hour wisely
- D.
  Use it to support someone else first, then maybe me.
11.
When someone compliments you or your work, you usually:
- A.
  Say thanks, but immediately move the conversation on to the next thing.
- B.
  Blush and think, ‘If only they knew the chaos behind it.’
- C.
  Downplay it or deflect, because it feels so uncomfortable.
- D.
  Think thats nice but wonder what they *really* think?’
12.
What’s your biggest mindset block (if you’re honest)?
- A.
  I feel like I’m never doing enough.
- B.
  I can’t seem to stick to one thing.
- C.
  I’m scared of getting it wrong.
- D.
  I care too much what people think.
13.
You set a goal for the month. By week two, you’ve...
- A.
  Stuck to the plan and made solid progress, focus and action are my thing.
- B.
  Redesigned the plan twice and still haven’t started.
- C.
  Added 10 more things and can’t remember what the goal was.
- D.
  Made sure no one else is impacted before acting.
14.
When you look at your progress, what do you usually notice?
- A.
  I’ve been so busy keeping up I’m not sure what I’ve done.
- B.
  Lots of ideas, not much follow-through.
- C.
  Everything’s half-finished and slightly chaotic.
- D.
  I wait for others to tell me I’m doing well.
15.
How do you make important decisions?
- A.
  Fast, I’d rather act than overthink.
- B.
  I get stuck trying to pick the ‘right’ answer.
- C.
  I trust my gut and check in with my values before I act.
- D.
  I weigh up options, change my mind three times, then start something else.
16.
When someone throws you an unexpected opportunity, how do you react?
- A.
  Make a quick decision, I love grabbing every opportunity.
- B.
  Jump in, I’ll figure it out as I go.
- C.
  Pause and think it through from every angle.
- D.
  Check who else is affected before I decide.
17.
You’ve got a brilliant new idea. What’s next?
- A.
  Share it with energy, I want everyone to jump on board
- B.
  Get started straight away, I’ll figure it out as I go
- C.
  Map out the steps and structure before I act.
- D.
  Dream up all the possibilities, it could go anywhere.
18.
You’re about to share something important. What matters most?
- A.
  That everybody feels involved and part of something.
- B.
  That it works and people see results fast.
- C.
  That it looks really polished and professional.
- D.
  That it excites people and gets attention.
19.
When your energy dips midweek, what do you usually do?
- A.
  Re-inspire myself with a vision of what’s possible.
- B.
  Push myself through anyway, deadlines don’t move.
- C.
  Pause, rest, or reset, I know I can't pour from an empty cup.
- D.
  Get pulled into other people’s needs instead of my own.
20.
How do you usually handle big changes in direction?
- A.
  Overthink the risks before moving forward.
- B.
  Adjust quickly, I’ll just set new goals.
- C.
  Explore what fresh ideas could come from it.
- D.
  Keep spinning all the plates while I adapt.
21.
You’re about to miss a deadline. What’s your instinct?
- A.
  Rally others and make it happen under pressure.
- B.
  Burn the midnight oil and finish no matter what.
- C.
  Reorganise the plan and focus on the essentials.
- D.
  Apologise and explain, making sure everyone feels okay.
22.
When someone challenges an idea of yours, what happens?
- A.
  Defend it passionately and persuade them.
- B.
  Rethink it carefully and maybe refine it.
- C.
  I stay focused and move ahead regardless of what they think.
- D.
  Question myself and whether others will back me.
23.
When something feels hard or uncomfortable, how do you respond?
- A.
  I get drawn to something more exciting or fun
- B.
  I push through, I don’t like leaving things unfinished
- C.
  I wait, someone will need me eventually and that will give me purpose
- D.
  I keep refining and adjusting until it feels right.
24.
How do you usually celebrate success?
- A.
  By remembering where this is all taking me
- B.
  By setting the next goal straight away.
- C.
  By thanking the people who helped me get there.
- D.
  By celebrating out loud I want the world to know
25.
When everything lands on your plate at once, what do you do?
- A.
  I get excited about the new ideas and lose interest in the rest.
- B.
  Balance everything at the same time, I’ll find a way
- C.
  Step up, take charge, and lead through it.
- D.
  Break it into steps and try to make sense of the chaos.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Achiever
Image Source
You’re The AchieverDriven, Determined, Always On The Move You’re the go-getter with bold goals and a relentless drive.You don’t wait around. You make things happen, in business, in life, in whatever you care about.From the outside, people see a powerhouse. On the inside, though? It can feel like it’s never quite enough.You’re always reaching for the next milestone, but rarely pause to feel how far you’ve already come.You’re wired for action. Now it’s time to lead yourself with intention, not just momentum.The PositivesLet’s be clear, you’re a force.You take quick, decisive actionYou’re resourceful and solutions-focusedYou hold bold visions and go after themYou’re motivated by growth and progressYou set high expectations, and rise to meet themThe OpportunitiesThat same drive can work against you.You struggle to slow down or switch offYou push through even when it no longer feels alignedYou rarely ask for help (it feels like failure)You keep raising the bar but skip the celebrationYou equate doing more with doing betterHow to Leverage Your StrengthsYour action-taking mindset is powerful. But when it’s paired with reflection and recalibration, it becomes sustainable.You don’t need to do more, you need to do what matters most, in a way that honours your energy, values and whole life.Self leadership for you starts with:Pausing on purposeNoticing where the endless ‘doing’ hides the truthRedefining success on your termsHow to Navigate the ChallengesYour next level won’t come from pushing harder. It’ll come from leading yourself differently. That might look like:Asking: What do I want? not just What needs to be done?Tuning into your instincts before rushing into actionLetting go of the belief that your worth = productivityThree Things You Can Do Right Now:1. Add a weekly check-in pointAsk yourself: “Is this moving me towards what truly matters, or just keeping me busy?”2. Replace ‘What’s next?’ with ‘What’s worth it?’Clarity will get you further than volume.3. Celebrate small wins, without waiting for big onesYou don’t need to earn celebration. It fuels momentum.Watch your inbox over the next few days. I’ll be sharing a few more ways you can reset your mindset and take action with clarity and courage.🎥 Want to hear me talk through this?Watch this short video where I break it down and share how you can use your Achiever energy to grow your business without burning out.Click HereReady for more?Subscribe and Listen to The She Is Courageous PodcastInside The She Is Courageous Collective, we go beyond personality insight, and help you turn it into real, courageous action.
2.
The Performer
Image Source
You're The Performer The confident voice who craves approval and questions herself more than people realiseYou’re magnetic. Charismatic. People are drawn to your spark. You bring energy into every room, whether that’s on stage, online, in a meeting, or with friends.You’ve got ideas, confidence, and presence. From the outside, it looks effortless.But behind the shine, you often find yourself second-guessing. Wondering if people really take you seriously.Craving that reaction before you fully back yourself.You’re not faking it, but you are sometimes performing it.The PositivesLet’s be clear, you are genuinely captivating.You’re creative, expressive, and emotionally intelligentYou take action quicklyYou’re brilliant at connecting with peopleYou inspire momentum and enthusiasmYou bring lightness, fun, and bold energy to life and workThe OpportunitiesThat confidence can be a cover for self-doubt.You seek external approval before moving forwardYou worry what others think, more than you’d like to admitYou lose momentum when you don’t get immediate feedbackYou downplay how much imposter syndrome affects youYou stay busy so you don’t have to sit with the fearHow to Leverage Your StrengthsYou’re energising to be around, but your real magic grows when you start turning that energy inward.When you stop waiting for applause, and start showing up for yourself, your confidence becomes unshakable.You don’t need permission. You need to anchor into your own belief.How to Navigate the ChallengesYou don’t need to perform louder. You need to feel safer in your skin, even when no one’s clapping yet.That might look like:Catching yourself when you wait for approval before actingNoticing where you play it safe to stay likedLetting your voice be the one that matters mostThree Things You Can Do Right Now1.Ask before you act: “Would I still do this if no one reacted?”Your truth matters more than likes.2. Start a self-proof folderNot for validation, for grounding. Remind yourself what’s already true.3. Take one bold step without the safety netYour confidence builds through doing, not waiting to feel ready.Keep an eye on your inbox. I’ll be sending over a few simple but powerful shifts that will help you build more self-trust and lead from a place that feels solid, not performative.🎥 Want to hear me talk through this?Watch this short video where I break it down and share how you can use your Performer energy to grow your business without burning out.Watch HereReady for more?Listen to The She Is Courageous PodcastInside The She Is Courageous Collective, we go beyond personality insight — and help you turn it into real, courageous action.Join The Collective
3.
The Supporter
Image Source
You’re The SupporterThe quiet powerhouse who avoids putting herself first, even when she knows it’s timeThe steady hand behind everyone else’s successYou’re the grounded one. The dependable one.The quiet powerhouse holding things (and people) together.You lead with loyalty, empathy, and integrity. People trust you and rightly so. You’re thoughtful, committed, and consistent.But under the surface, you sometimes feel overlooked.You put others first, not because you don’t have big dreams… but because you’ve been taught to keep the peace, to keep things safe, to stay small.And now? You’re ready to back yourself the way you back everyone else.The PositivesLet’s be clear, you are the glue.You’re compassionate, loyal, and groundedYou build deep trust and strong relationshipsYou lead with heart and responsibilityYou bring calm to chaosYou’re the one people rely on and for good reasonThe OpportunitiesYour steadiness can sometimes hold you back.You put your needs lastYou avoid risk or rocking the boatYou downplay your voice and contributionsYou wait for “safe” before you actYou stay loyal to things that might no longer serve youHow to Leverage Your StrengthsYou have a calm, quiet leadership style that people feel safe around, but leadership starts with leading yourself first.When you begin choosing alignment over obligation, and courage over comfort, your natural strength becomes visible, not just valuable.You don’t have to change who you are. You just have to start including yourself.How to Navigate the ChallengesCourage for you might look like:Saying yes to your vision, even when it creates discomfort for othersSpeaking your ideas instead of holding them inActing before you feel completely “ready”You’re not here to be the background support act.You’re here to lead your life in your own, beautifully grounded way.Three Things You Can Do Right Now1. Ask: “What do I want?”Not what’s easiest. Not what keeps the peace. What you want.2. Challenge one ‘safe’ choice this weekAsk: “Am I choosing this because it’s right, or because it’s familiar?”3. Speak up in a space where you’d usually stay quietLet people hear your voice. Your wisdom is needed.You’re allowed to take up more space. And you don’t need to wait for anyone to give you permission to start.Look out for more in your inbox over the next few days. There’s more support coming for you this time.🎥 Want to hear me talk through this?Watch this short video where I break it down and share how you can use your Supporter energy to grow your business — without burning out.Watch HereReady for more?Listen to The She Is Courageous PodcastORCheck out The She Is Courageous Collective, we go beyond personality insight — and help you turn it into real, courageous action.Join The Collective
4.
The Thinker
Image Source
You’re The ThinkerStrategic, thoughtful, always two steps aheadYou’re the deep thinker, the planner, the one who likes to understand before you act.You ask smart questions. You consider every angle. You’re the person people turn to when things feel complex, because you see things others miss.But your mind can also trap you. You can overthink. You second-guess. You tweak and edit and circle back, convinced that if you can just perfect the plan, you’ll finally feel ready.You don’t lack clarity. You lack self-trust.The PositivesLet’s be clear, you are sharp.You’re insightful, analytical, and intelligentYou’re thoughtful and emotionally awareYou’re brilliant at identifying risks and refining ideasYou have a high standard for your work and valuesYou bring depth and meaning to what you doThe OpportunitiesThat same depth can turn into paralysis.You delay action waiting for the “perfect” planYou fear getting it wrong or missing somethingYou constantly revise, review, and hold backYou find decisions difficult when certainty is lowYou measure safety through preparation, not readinessHow to Leverage Your StrengthsYou have a mind that sees nuance, complexity, and beauty in the details.But the real power of your ideas comes when you act on them.Self leadership for you means creating momentum without having everything worked out.You don’t need a better plan, you need to believe you can handle what comes next.How to Navigate the ChallengesYou’ll never feel 100% ready and that’s okay.Growth might look like:Committing to progress, not perfectionMaking decisions based on what you know right nowLetting go of the idea that you have to have all the answers firstThree Things You Can Do Right Now1. Define what “good enough” actually meansStick to it. Release it. Let done be enough.2. Use a 24-hour decision windowNot every choice needs deep analysis. Some just need action.3. Track completions, not just conceptsRemind yourself what you did, not just what you thought about.Keep an eye on your inbox I’ll be sending some tools to help you stop overthinking and start taking meaningful action.🎥 Want to hear me talk through this?Watch this short video where I break it down and share how you can use your Thinker energy to grow your business — without burning out.Watch HereReady for more?Listen & Subscribe to The She Is Courageous PodcastInside The She Is Courageous Collective, we go beyond personality insight — and help you turn it into real, courageous action.Join The Collective
5.
The Juggler
Image Source
You’re The JugglerThe multitasker doing everything and still feeling like it’s not enoughYou’re capable. You get stuff done. You’re the one people rely on. You keep your business running, life ticking over, and everyone around you looked after.But behind the productivity, there’s a constant feeling that you’re dropping the ball. You’re always juggling and never really feeling in control. You’re overwhelmed, overextended, and under-supported.It’s not that you’re not working hard. It’s that you're spread so thin, you can’t focus long enough to gain real traction.The Positives:Let’s be clear, you’re impressive.You’re organised, responsible, and adaptableYou can handle a lot — and usually doYou don’t shy away from challenge or chaosYou’re resilient, responsive, and resourcefulYou keep things moving even when it’s messyThe Opportunities:That same capacity can become a trap.You say yes too oftenYou struggle to delegate or ask for helpYou prioritise everyone and everything else firstYou rarely make space to reflect or planYou’re so busy reacting that you’re not really leadingHow to Leverage Your StrengthsYour ability to handle complexity is brilliant but only when it’s focused. When you narrow your attention and protect your time, your energy starts working for you, not just everyone else.You’re not here to carry it all. You’re here to lead with clarity.How to Navigate the Opportunities:You don’t have to do it all and definitely not all at once. Courage for you might look like:Saying no without guiltMaking space for long-term thinking instead of only reacting to short-term needsAccepting help, even when you could “just do it yourself”You’re allowed to simplify.You don’t need to earn your right to rest.Three Things You Can Do Right Now1. Audit your week and circle what’s truly essentialIf it doesn’t serve your goals, your wellbeing, or your business — consider whether it needs to stay.2. Create a default “pause point” before you say yesPractice buying time: “Let me check and get back to you.” Small boundary, big impact.3. Set one non-negotiable priority each dayYou don’t need 10. Just pick one thing that truly moves you forward — and make it matter.Just because you can handle a lot doesn’t mean you should have to.You don’t need to be everything to everyone. You’re allowed to choose yourself, not in a dramatic way, but in a quiet, powerful, everyday way that gives your energy back to what matters most.Watch your inbox I’ll be sending over a few practical shifts to help you move from juggling to leading with focus.🎥 Want to hear me talk through this?Watch this short video where I break it down and share how you can use your Juggler energy to grow your business — without burning out.Watch Here🔗 Ready for more?Listen & Subscribe to The She Is Courageous PodcastInside The She Is Courageous Collective, we go beyond personality insight — and help you turn it into real, courageous action.Join The Collective
6.
The Dreamer
Image Source
The DreamerThe visionary with a thousand ideas and not enough follow-throughYou’re full of potential. Your ideas are exciting, creative, and usually ahead of the curve. You see possibilities everywhere. You’ve probably started a dozen projects, launched bold ideas, or journaled entire business plans on a single spark of inspiration.But that momentum rarely lasts.You get energised fast and lose interest just as quickly. You chase clarity but often end up even more scattered. You don’t lack ambition. What you’re missing is a system that helps you focus and follow through.The Positives:Let’s be clear, you are expansive.You think big and see what’s possibleYou’re imaginative and full of creativityYou’re quick to try new things and take risksYou’re passionate, energetic, and future-focusedYou inspire others with your enthusiasmThe Opportunities:That same imagination can lead to overwhelm.You struggle to choose and commit to one ideaYou get distracted by the next big thingYou lose momentum when things get tough or routineYou’re constantly starting over instead of building on what’s already workingYou question if you’re actually cut out for this when results don’t come quicklyHow to Leverage Your StrengthsYour ability to dream big is brilliant but only if you bring structure to the vision. When you create clear priorities and repeatable habits, your ideas don’t fizzle… they land.You don’t need fewer ideas. You need a better way to act on them.How to Navigate the Opportunities You don’t need more inspiration. You need direction. For you, courage might look like:Committing to one path long enough to test itChoosing structure instead of waiting for another sparkGetting honest about what’s really keeping you stuckDreams are brilliant — but without a plan, that’s all they stay.Three Things You Can Do Right Now1. Pick one idea and commit to it for 30 daysSet boundaries. Ignore the rest. Test the process, not the result.2. Create a “Not Now” listWrite down every exciting idea and deliberately set it aside. If it matters, it’ll still be there.3. Define doneInstead of vague goals like “build momentum” or “get visible,” define the exact action and complete it. Clarity creates completion.You’re not flaky. You’re not unfocused. You’re just overflowing with potential that needs direction.Structure isn’t the enemy of creativity. It’s what allows it to thrive.Keep an eye on your inbox I’ll be sharing some focused, practical tools to help you stop chasing the dream and start building it.🎥 Want to hear me talk through this?Watch this short video where I break it down and share how you can use your Dreamer energy to grow your business — without burning out.Watch Here🔗 Ready for more?Listen & Subscribe to The She Is Courageous PodcastInside The She Is Courageous Collective, we go beyond personality insight — and help you turn it into real, courageous action.Join The Collective