What's Your LoveScore™?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  Your partner is upset, and you don't understand why. You:

  • A.
    try to help them see the situation more logically.
  • B.
    listen, but tell them how they could think of it differently.
  • C.
    ask questions to understand their feelings, and ask how you can help.
• 2.
  Your partner seems distant after work, and you’re not sure what's going on. You:

  • A.
    ask if something’s wrong, but if they don’t open up right away, you drop it.
  • B.
    ask what's wrong, and let them know you're here, if they want to talk.
  • C.
    make sure to keep your distance, so you don't upset them further.
• 3.
  Your partner is talking about something that doesn’t interest you much. You:

  • A.
    listen for a while, then change the topic.
  • B.
    nod politely, and let your mind wander.
  • C.
    give your full attention, because this clearly matters to them.
• 4.
  Your partner criticizes you about not completing a chore. You:

  • A.
    bring up a chore they haven't done.
  • B.
    acknowledge it, and explain why you didn't get to it.
  • C.
    take responsibility, and say when you'll do it.
• 5.
  Your partner makes a mistake that affects both of you. You:

  • A.
    point out what they could have done differently to avoid the situation.
  • B.
    focus on how you can solve it together, and reassure them you’re a team.
  • C.
    make sure they understand you're upset, but let it go after a while.
• 6.
  You’re feeling hurt or rejected by your partner. You:

  • A.
    don't share your feelings, because you don't want to make it a big deal.
  • B.
    shut down, or withdraw, because they should come to you to fix it.
  • C.
    share how you've been feeling, and why.
• 7.
  Your partner expresses frustration about something you think is minor. You:

  • A.
    tell them it’s not a big deal, and try to move on.
  • B.
    remind yourself that you are different people, and listen to their point.
  • C.
    acknowledge their feelings, but feel upset with them.
• 8.
  When your partner’s opinion sharply differs from yours on an issue, you:

  • A.
    listen, but feel the need to explain your reasoning.
  • B.
    ask questions to understand their perspective.
  • C.
    try to convince them to see it your way.
• 9.
  You’re spending time together, but you forgot to turn off your phone.

  • A.
    you leave it on low volume, in case something important comes through.
  • B.
    your phone buzzes with a text, and you have a quick back-and-forth with your friend, before you silence it.
  • C.
    your phone rings; you apologize and set it to silent.
• 10.
  When your partner achieves something exciting, you:

  • A.
    compare yourself to them, and feel unaccomplished.
  • B.
    congratulate them, and move on with your day.
  • C.
    feel proud of them, and celebrate it as a joint success.
• 11.
  In your everyday interactions with your partner, you:

  • A.
    often focus on what needs improvement.
  • B.
    intentionally express gratitude for what your partner does.
  • C.
    notice problems, but hold onto criticism until the right moment.
• 12.
  When you think you've "messed up" with your partner, you:

  • A.
    feel shame or guilt, and pretend nothing happened.
  • B.
    approach them to talk it out and make things right.
  • C.
    think about the situation, then explain your behavior.
• 13.
  Together, you are grieving a loss. Your partner is taking it hard. You:

  • A.
    Sit with them, and let them lead the conversation.
  • B.
    Validate that it's a hard time and offer reassurance.
  • C.
    Tell them what they could do differently to "process."
• 14.
  During a disagreement, your partner says that they are feeling "frustrated" with your tone. You:

  • A.
    say, "What tone?"
  • B.
    take a breath, and ask them to explain what they're hearing.
  • C.
    feel blamed, but ask them to continue.
• 15.
  Your partner is talking to you about an argument they had with a friend. More than likely, you are:

  • A.
    keeping track of the story, and how your partner feels.
  • B.
    tuning out, because you're not interested in the argument.
  • C.
    formulating a response that includes your advice.
• 16.
  You're on your way home from running errands, and decide to stop for take-out. You:

  • A.
    text your partner to see if they want anything.
  • B.
    order your partner's usual, and take it home for them.
  • C.
    it doesn't cross your mind to let your partner know.
• 17.
  You are going somewhere with your partner, and they are making comments about your driving. You:

  • A.
    stay quiet, although you are irritated.
  • B.
    snap, or use a sharp tone, because you're annoyed at the comments.
  • C.
    ask them to stop, and reassure them that you've got it.
• 18.
  You're having a conversation with your partner about a painful moment in your childhood. You:

  • A.
    share all the details, because you want them to know about this time in your life.
  • B.
    feel over-exposed, and change the subject after a few minutes.
  • C.
    keep it general, because you're afraid they'll use it against you.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Love Seeker 🚀

  OverviewYou care deeply about your relationship, and you want closeness. Sometimes, you’re not sure how to bridge the emotional space between you and your partner.Full DetailsAs a Love Seeker, you’re someone who values connection, but you feel unsure about how to navigate emotional moments with confidence. You find yourself overthinking, pulling back, or trying to solve problems quickly, rather than staying with the deeper emotions of the situation.This means you’re at the beginning of your love skills journey.You’re learning how to:understand your own emotional patternsstay calm when feelings get bigexpress your needs clearly and consistentlyoffer empathy without losing your own perspectiveThe good news? Everything you want in your relationship is learnable. With the right skills, Love Seekers experience significant change, relatively quickly, because intentional steps create big relational shifts.Your next chapter begins with building the emotional and communication skills that make closeness feel safer and easier.
• 2.
  Love Student 📝

  OverviewYou’re currently practicing essential relationship skills, and showing up with intention. Your relationship benefits from your effort, and with a few tweaks, you'll create even deeper connection.Full DetailsAs a Love Student, you’re on the path of relational growth. You’re self-aware, you try to communicate clearly, and you genuinely care about how your partner feels. You already notice when and how communication derails, and you’re willing to learn how to improve.Sometimes you may drift toward:offering solutions, when empathy is bestgetting protective of yourself, when you’re stressedavoiding conflict, because you want harmonyor, withdrawing or rushing through emotional conversationsThese habits are common and completely normal. You’re navigating a middle stage, between budding self-awareness and solidifying skills. The good news? These skills will compound into real relational confidence.What stands out about you is your willingness to reflect, repair, and stay engaged, even during difficult moments. With a little more structure—especially with empathy, presence, and curiosity—you’ll move from connection feeling difficult to it flowing with more ease.You’re creating the relationship you want, with intention.
• 3.
  Love Guide 🧘🏾

  OverviewYou lead with presence, understanding, and emotional steadiness. Your relationship benefits from the clarity and compassion you bring.Full DetailsAs a Love Guide, you have a grounded, emotionally attuned way of relating. You’re able to stay present during difficult moments, listen to your partner with full attention, and navigate conflict without losing connection.You tend to:offer empathy before advicestay curious, instead of taking things personallycommunicate with clarity and kindnesscreate safety in conversationsinitiate repair, when conflict goes awryYour presence has a regulating effect, and you help the relationship recalibrate when the situation feels tense, or overwhelming. You're intentional about your behavior, and your consistent, caring way of engaging with your partner sets the tone for ongoing partnership.Your growth edge, now, is refinement: strengthening boundaries, deepening intimacy, and expanding the practices that already serve you well.With your existing skill set, you’re well-positioned to create connection that feels secure, mutual, and deeply meaningful toward the future..