Stop Guessing Why You're Exhausted

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Quiz Questions

1.
When a friend asks you to help plan a last-minute baby shower, what is your immediate internal reaction?
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- A.
  "Sure! I can squeeze it in between my 3 PM meeting and making dinner." (I’ll figure it out later).
- B.
  "Let me check my calendar... actually, I'm fully booked this weekend. Sorry!"
- C.
  "Ugh. I don't want to, but if I say no, they'll think I'm a bad friend."
- D.
  "I better do it. If I let someone else plan it, the decorations will be tacky and the games will be boring."
2.
How often do you feel guilty about resting (e.g., sitting on the couch without your phone/laptop)?
- A.
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  Rarely. I schedule my downtime, and I enjoy it guilt-free.
- B.
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  Resting? What is that? I'm always multi-tasking.
- C.
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  I don't rest; I "organize." Even my downtime is productive (folding laundry, color-coding the pantry) because I can't sit still.
- D.
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  I try to rest, but my brain keeps reminding me of the 50 things I should be doing.
3.
Be honest: What does your calendar look like right now?
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- A.
  It has some white space, but I usually end up filling it with "just one more thing" at the last minute.
- B.
  It is meticulously planned and categorized, but it is PACKED. If one thing goes wrong, the whole system crashes.
- C.
  A chaotic explosion of color. Every minute is filled, and half the things aren't even for me.
- D.
  Structured. I have blocks for deep work, family time, and rest.
4.
When was the last time you said "No" to a request without offering a long, apologetic explanation?
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- A.
  Never. I always have to explain why I can't do it so they don't get mad.
- B.
  I'm getting better, but I still feel like I need an "excuse" (like being sick or out of town).
- C.
  Last week. "No" is a complete sentence in my house.
- D.
  I rarely say no, not because I'm nice, but because it's faster to just do it myself than explain it to someone else.
5.
How do you typically feel at the end of a workday?
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  Exhausted, wired, and wondering what I actually accomplished today.
- B.
  Satisfied. I completed my top 3 priorities and left the rest for tomorrow.
- C.
  Frustrated. I got a lot done, but I spent half the day fixing other people's mistakes or re-doing tasks.
- D.
  Tired but hopeful. I got some things done, but the list is never-ending.
6.
Which phrase best describes your relationship with your phone/email?
- A.
  I monitor it constantly. I have to catch fires early or everything will fall apart.
- B.
  It's a tool. It goes on DND when I'm working or with family.
- C.
  It's a love/hate relationship. I try to put it away, but the "ping" anxiety gets me.
- D.
  We are conjoined twins. I check emails in bed, at dinner, and sometimes in the bathroom.
7.
If you got sick and had to take 3 days off completely, what would happen?
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  Ideally, it would be fine, but I'd probably check in "just in case."
- B.
  Total disaster. The world would stop turning, and I'd come back to a mountain of fires.
- C.
  The systems would run, my team/family would handle it, and I'd just sleep.
- D.
  I would work from bed. Nobody else knows the passwords, the systems, or the "right" way to do things.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Martyr on a Mission
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Your Core Challenge: You have the confidence in your skills, but you lack the boldness to use your voice, advocate for your worth, and challenge the status quo. You worry intensely about being perceived as "difficult," "aggressive," or "too much," causing you to hold back your true opinions and accept less than you deserve.Where You're Holding Back:You accept the first salary offer, even though you know you could negotiate for $10k more, just to avoid an awkward conversation.You have incredible ideas in meetings, but stay silent, letting others take credit for similar suggestions later.You prioritize other people’s comfort over your own professional growth, avoiding anything that might create friction or negative judgment.The Mindset Shift Required:Move from "I should be grateful for what I get" to "Negotiation is a standard business practice, and I owe it to myself to advocate for my value."Move from "I don't want to interrupt or sound pushy" to "My perspective is valuable and necessary for the team's success."Move from "I need everyone to like me" to "I am willing to be respected, even if it means not everyone is comfortable."Your Solution:The Capable and Confident Challenge is all about empowering your professional voice. We will provide strategies to confidently articulate your value and desires without apology. You will learn how to navigate friction and negotiation with grace and conviction, allowing you to stop playing small and start demanding the recognition and compensation you've earned.Your Specific Transformations in the Challenge:You will master the script and psychology behind asking for what you want without guilt.You will learn to tolerate the discomfort of setting boundaries and advocating for yourself.You will leave with the tools to take up space in meetings and conversations, ensuring your voice is heard.
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The Reluctant Superwoman
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Your Core Challenge: You believe that your performance must be flawless to be acceptable. This need for perfection isn't a commitment to quality; it's a crippling fear of failure. You get trapped in endless preparation, revisions, and stalling, which keeps you from launching projects, applying for roles, or making bold moves. You're stuck in a holding pattern of "almost ready."Where You're Holding Back:You spend weeks creating a presentation or proposal that should take days, often missing submission deadlines or windows of opportunity.You delay exploring new opportunities until you have every possible skill or certification, even though you already possess 90% of what is needed.You often find yourself overwhelmed by your to-do list, feeling like every task must be executed perfectly, leading to analysis paralysis.The Mindset Shift Required:Move from "It has to be perfect before I show it" to "Done is better than perfect. Impact happens in the arena, not in the preparation."Move from "I'm not ready yet" to "I am capable of learning and adapting as I go."Move from "Everything is a priority" to "I can discern what requires excellence and what requires completion."Your Solution:In The Capable and Confident Challenge, we will help you break the link between your worth and your output. The challenge teaches you to embrace "good enough" progress over paralyzing perfection. You will gain actionable techniques to set healthy boundaries on your effort and learn how to shift your focus from avoiding mistakes to achieving impactful, profitable results.Your Specific Transformations in the Challenge:You will master the art of taking messy action instead. You will learn to view mistakes as data points for growth, not verdicts on your value.You will leave with the ability to make quicker decisions and trust your gut, ending the cycle of overthinking.
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The Queen of Workflow
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Your Core Challenge: You are exceptionally capable, and your achievements prove it, but no amount of external success can quiet the nagging voice inside. You live in constant fear of exposure—that one day, everyone will realize you’re not the expert they think you are. This leads to chronic overwork, burnout, and an inability to truly enjoy your success.Where You're Holding Back:You avoid taking on high-visibility projects that would showcase your brilliance because the increased scrutiny feels terrifying.You constantly downplay your expertise and attribute your wins to luck, timing, or excessive effort, rather than your innate skill.You struggle to delegate, believing that only you can maintain the level of quality required to prevent failure.The Mindset Shift Required:Move from "If they look too closely, they'll see I'm a fraud" to "My track record is proof of my competence, not a lucky streak."Move from "I just got lucky" to "I earned this through skill, preparation, and execution."Move from "I have to do it all to be safe" to "Trusting others allows me to operate in my zone of genius."Your Solution:The Capable and Confident Challenge is designed to dismantle the core belief system that fuels imposter syndrome. We move beyond "faking it till you make it" to build deep, foundational self-trust. You will learn to re-anchor your identity in your capability rather than your performance, turning internal critique into self-assured clarity.Your Specific Transformations in the Challenge:You will build a factual evidence file that instantly silences the inner critic.You will learn to separate your worth from your work hours, ending the cycle of overworking for validation.You will leave with the ability to accept praise without deflecting it, finally enjoying the success you’ve earned.
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The CEO of Everything
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Your Core Challenge: You struggle to translate your complex skills, unique experiences, and hard-earned results into a clear, compelling professional narrative. You know you’re valuable, but when it’s time to pitch yourself, raise your rates, or explain why you deserve a role, your words fail you, causing others (and yourself) to underestimate your true worth.Where You're Holding Back:You struggle during performance reviews or interviews to connect your daily tasks to the major impact you've actually delivered.You often accept lowball offers because you can't justify the higher price point or struggle to communicate the transformative value of your work.You have a difficult time defining your professional brand and what makes you uniquely qualified over someone else.The Mindset Shift Required:Move from "My work should speak for itself" to "It is my responsibility to clearly articulate the value and impact of my work."Move from "Maybe I'm charging too much" to "The transformation I provide is worth the investment, and I can explain exactly why."Move from "I'm just doing my job" to "I have a unique combination of skills and experiences that creates specific value."Your Solution: The Capable and Confident Challenge teaches you the language of self-advocacy. You will master a simple framework for clearly and confidently articulating your worth, focusing on tangible results and impact. You'll leave knowing exactly who you are professionally and how to ensure every opportunity and conversation reflects that high-value identity.Your Specific Transformations in the Challenge:The Impact Formula: You will learn how to translate your daily tasks into quantifiable, impressive impact statements.The "Secret Sauce" Pitch: You will craft a clear, compelling narrative about your unique value proposition.Confident Pricing: You will leave with the ability to state your price or salary expectation with zero hesitation or apology.

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