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Mix of Burnout & Misalignment
Your responses suggest both burnout and misalignment are present.Something about your role no longer fits and the effort of pushing through it has started to wear you down. This is a very common experience, especially for capable, high-performing people.What this often looks like:You feel tired and increasingly disconnected from the work.Small issues feel heavier because there’s no margin left.You’re questioning whether the effort is still worth it.What may help right now:Trying to fix everything at once usually adds more pressure. Start here:Create a little breathing room by reducing or pausing one demand.Name the primary source of misalignment, without solving it yet.Decide what you need first: relief, clarity, or change. Focus on just one.Something To Think About:What feels harder than it should right now - the work itself or the weight of carrying it?If you want to take it one step further:Which needs attention first?You might find that what you need most right now is:Immediate Relief: Creating a little breathing room by pausing, reducing, or stepping back from something that’s draining you right now.Clearer Boundaries Or Expectations: Getting more explicit about what’s expected of you, what’s reasonable, and where your limits are.Re-shaping The Role: Adjusting the scope, focus, or responsibilities so the work fits you better as you are now.Exploring Something Different: Allowing yourself to look at other roles, paths, or structures, even if you’re not ready to make a change.It might help to know this: Burnout and misalignment often show up together. When something in a role no longer fits (the values, the scope, the expectations) people tend to compensate by pushing harder. That works for a while, until it doesn’t. Over time, the misfit creates strain, and the strain starts to feel like burnout.That doesn’t mean you missed something or waited too long. It means you stayed capable and committed in a situation that was quietly asking more of you than it should have.If it would help to talk this through with someone, career coaching can be a place to do that. I’ve been on this side of it myself, pushing through roles that looked fine on paper but didn’t fit anymore, and feeling the toll before I had language for what was happening. Coaching is the space I wish I’d had then: a place to steady what’s draining you right now and think through what might need to shift next, without rushing yourself into a decision.The goal isn’t a dramatic change. It’s work that feels more doable and more aligned with who you are.